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RecoverU is a podcast where we talk about sex addiction, betrayal trauma, mental, emotional and physical health, faith, and anything and everything needed to RecoverU to your most authentic self that God created you to be.

RecoverU Kylene & Patrick

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RecoverU is a podcast where we talk about sex addiction, betrayal trauma, mental, emotional and physical health, faith, and anything and everything needed to RecoverU to your most authentic self that God created you to be.

    68 - Daily Tools for Recovery: 10 year letter & Emergency Kit - PART 2

    68 - Daily Tools for Recovery: 10 year letter & Emergency Kit - PART 2

    Today is part 2, of a  5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery. Many of these tools are created or inspired by Dr. Ted Roberts who created the Conquer Series which we highly recommend. You can purchase this resources or join a group at PureDesire.org 
     
    In this episode we discuss the benefits of writing a 10 year letter from the perspective a future, recovered you, as well as creating an emergency kit which is a tool to use for travel, or any time you are feeling tempted to relapse.
     
    We mentioned our previous episode "Best Version of You meditation" if you need assistance with the 10 year letter and you can listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru/id1674653111?i=1000611570008 
     
     

    Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
     
    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
     
     
    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
     
     
    Follow Kylene:
    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 
    On IG: @KyleneTerhune 
     

    • 23 min
    67 - Daily Tools for Recovery: Blockers, Faster Scale, and Feeling Wheel - PART 1

    67 - Daily Tools for Recovery: Blockers, Faster Scale, and Feeling Wheel - PART 1

    Today we begin a 5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery.
     
    In this episode we discuss technology blockers, a daily scales used to begin identifying sobriety risk and recovery status, and the feelings wheel which assists in expanding our vocabulary around our experiences.
     
    Blockers we personally like:
    Canopy: https://canopy.us/
    Parental controls that come with Iphone
     
    Faster Scale:  https://puredesire.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/faster-scale-check-in-2017-1.pdf
     
    Feelings Wheel: https://feelingswheel.com
     

    Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
     
    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
     
     
    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
     
     
    Follow Kylene:
    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 
    On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

    • 41 min
    66 - The Path to True Reconciliation

    66 - The Path to True Reconciliation

    watch Patrick’s testimony starting at 38:21 https://www.youtube.com/live/rirnsSLaYcw?si=I7aPoJ34MBsL42nD
     
    Where to begin:
     
    For betrayor:
     
    1) Find a CSAT in your local area https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357
     
    2) If that's not possible, find a CSAT or sex addiction therapist or coach that works virtually (here are some starting places)
     
    www.puredesire.org
     
     
    Additional resources: https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/getting-help
     
    3) Connect to a local recovery group (we like the conquer group that you can find locally or online both at puredesire.org and soulrefiner.com
     
    4) Read books and listen to recovery podcasts:
    RecoverU podcast (Patrick and Me)
    Pure Desire podcast
    Pure Desire book by Ted Roberts
    Clean by Doug Weiss
    Unwanted- Jay Stringer
     
     
    For the betrayed spouse:
     
    1) Connect with a trauma therapist or coach who is familiar with sex addiction and works with betrayal trauma recovery  - look for someone who also has trauma processing modalities outside of talk therapy
     
    If you are interested in working with Kylene please click this link and book a free connection call to see if it’s a good fit:
     
    https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
     
     
     
    2) Connect with local, or online groups:
    Cosa
    Sanon
    Betrayal and Beyond - puredesire.org
    Infidelity survivors anonymous
    www.btr.org
     
    3) Ready books and listen to recovery podcasts:
    RecoverU podcast (Patrick and Me)
    Pure Desire podcast
    Intimate Deception. Sheri Keffer
    Facing Heartbreak - Stephanie Carnes
    RISE- Misty Terrell

    • 48 min
    65 - Learning to Embrace Your Story - When and Why to Share it

    65 - Learning to Embrace Your Story - When and Why to Share it

    Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging. 
     
    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
     
    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
     
     
    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
     
     
    Follow Kylene:
    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 
    On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

    • 58 min
    64 - When to Fight (for the relationship) and When to Let Go

    64 - When to Fight (for the relationship) and When to Let Go

    Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging. 
     
    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
     
    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
     
     
    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
     
     
    Follow Kylene:
    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 
    On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

    • 49 min
    63 - An Addict's Perspective on Recovery PART 2

    63 - An Addict's Perspective on Recovery PART 2

    Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging. 
     
    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
     
    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
     
     
    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
     
     
    Follow Kylene:
    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 
    On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

    • 51 min

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