Heal You, Heal Your Relationship Sasha Quince

Do you find yourself triggered, on edge and exploding at your partner? Do you notice you are reactive to traffic, dishes in the sink or when you're waiting for someone? If yes, this is the episode for you because I too have struggled with reactivity in relationships, in fact I almost lost mine because of my dysregulated nervous system.

In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationships, Sasha explores the turbulent realm of emotional triggers and how they impact our relationships. She shares personal experiences and practical steps for breaking the cycle of reactivity such as cultivating awareness, understanding emotions and addressing unmet needs. Learn how to transform conflict into connection, enhancing communication and repairing frayed bonds through emotional intelligence and self reflection. 

Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:

What did you learn about yourself from today’s episode?Which one of the steps (awareness, understanding the emotion behind the trigger, acknowledging your emotions, meeting your needs) will you try this week?Why is it important to you to break the cycle of reactivity? What does the reward look like?
In this episode, you will learn the following :

The nature of reactivity in relationships and how underlying feelings like resentment, anger, frustration, fear or sadness are linked to a dysregulated nervous system.
How reactivity is a learned behavior typically modeled by caregivers or parents.
Importance of understanding the fight response of the nervous system during conflicts.
Four pivotal steps to halting the cycle of relationship reactivity: cultivating awareness, pinpointing our emotional landscape, affirming our emotions, and addressing our unspoken needs.
Significance of repetition and compassion in the healing journey and how integrating these steps into daily life can aid in managing triggers and conflicts.
Strategies to prepare for and cope with emotional triggers and conflicts. 

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach
Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv

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Here is exactly how I overcame fear of abandonment and why you can as well.
In this episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationships, Sasha talks about how the fear of being left can mess with our adult relationships big time. As Sasha gets super personal, she narrates how childhood experiences – like losing loved ones and facing tough times – can stick with us and affect how we relate to others. From getting hurt by those closest to us to dealing with being a parent ourselves, we dig into how taking care of our inner kid and facing up to old hurts can actually make a big difference.
Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:

Is there a part of my past that could be the root to my adulthood behaviors, fears, and worries? If my inner child needed me at one point in her life, when would that have been? What am I choosing to be aware of in me as I end this episode?
In this episode, you will learn the following :

How childhood experiences like parental separation, criticism, and emotional unavailability, especially from fathers, can instill a fear of abandonment.
Inner child reparenting work as a key aspect of healing from abandonment wounds.
Turning pain into empowerment through self-discovery and owning one's healing journey.
The concept of 'big T' and 'small T' traumas and their impacts on adult relationships.
Shifting from codependency and anxious attachment to self-reliance and self-validation.

LINKS:
Learn more about Sasha Quince:
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For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach
Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv

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Fear of abandonment is more common than we think and shows up i adulthood relationship anxiety. Wake up to the abandonment wound and see if its playing a role in your relationship and harming it lasting.
In this episode of "Heal You, Heal Your Relationships," Sasha talks about how childhood neglect affects adult relationships, sharing her own story of struggling with trust and a deep need for connection due to her parents' absence. Through her own journey, she's discovered some powerful tools for healing such as inner child work and reparenting. This episode is not just about her story; it's an exploration of how such wounds can subtly infiltrate adult behaviors, leading to codependency, an insatiable need for validation, and a fear of solitude.
Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection question for the week:

What do you worry about? I worry about ___ in my relationship because ____.I resonated with this episode because __________ ?I am choosing to be aware of _______ behavior in my relationship.
In this episode, you will learn the following :

How brief moments of feeling alone in childhood can have lasting impacts on adult relationships.Importance of supportive partnerships in overcoming abandonment issues and fostering personal growth.Acknowledging and validating emotions as steps to prevent feelings from escalating into overwhelming anxiety.Setting personal boundaries and addressing one's needs to stop self-sabotaging behaviors.
LINKS:
Learn more about Sasha Quince:
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Instagram
For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach
Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv

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Self sabotage snuck into my relationship and here is how you can uncover if it is sneaking into yours as well! It shows up in behaviors and those behaviors become repetitive and over time they begin to create damage to our most valuable relationships.
In this episode of "Heal You, Heal Your Relationships," Sasha gets real about her own struggle with messing up relationships. She bravely shares how deep-rooted fears of abandonment, rejection, and betrayal have impacted her life and relationships, leading to patterns of destructive behavior. But she doesn't just dwell on the bad stuff— Sasha shares how she's been working through it all, learning and growing along the way, and even making her marriage stronger because of it.
Here’s our episode reflection question for the week:

Is there one behavior I partake in that is self-sabotage in my relationship?Why do I behave this way?What else can I choose to think about my partner, and how would it make me feel if I thought this?
In this episode, you will learn the following :

Self-sabotage patterns rooted in fears of abandonment, rejection, betrayal, and feelings of unworthiness.
How behaviors like picking fights, exerting excessive control, and avoiding asking for help can manifest.
The power of healing relationships through reflection and growth can foster more connected and resilient partnerships
The ongoing journey of healing involves continuous reflection and intersects with growth.
LINKS:
Learn more about Sasha Quince:
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For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach
Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


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Fear of abandonment, anxious attachment and inner child trauma caused me to almost self sabotage my marriage, doing the inner work to heal me has saved my marriage and enhanced intimacy, communication and love for each other. My journey led me to create mentorship programs for other women like me whose past is sabotaging their present. This podcast space is one of awakening, healing, empowerment and learning to become our greatest support.
In today’s episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationships, join Sasha Quince on an intimate voyage through her life as she shares her personal battle with abandonment, grief and the journey to self love and resilience. Discover how the echoes of past traumas led her to embrace yoga, meditation and self coaching as tools for healing and breaking the cycle of anxious attachment. This episode is a testament to the transformative power of facing our deepest fears and mending our relationships, both with ourselves and with those around us.

In this episode, you will learn the following :

The impact of early childhood trauma on adult relationships, including how abandonment issues can manifest in toxic partnerships and self sabotage.
How significant losses such as the death of a loved one can trigger anxiety, fear and an anxious attachment style that can strain current relationships and personal well being.
Transformative power of self coaching, yoga, meditation and inner child healing in addressing and overcoming deep seated fears and trauma.
Importance of recognizing and taking responsibility for one’s own healing journey, not just for personal happiness but also for the benefit of future generations and relationships.
Strategies for breaking negative relationship patterns, discovering limiting beliefs about love and building resilience and trust within oneself and one’s partnerships.
Learn more about Sasha Quince:
Linktree
Instagram
For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @Sashaquincelovecoach
Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


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