Healing Birth with Carla Carla Sargent
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The Healing Birth with Carla podcast explores the topic of birth trauma and how healing can be found. We’ll share the stories of parents who have journeyed from trauma to healing, and we’ll discuss the insights of birth keepers who support others on their healing path.
Listeners can expect to be inspired, to find hope and help on their own birthing journeys, and to learn. This podcast is for anyone who intends to give birth, has given birth, or has a passion for birth in all her reverent and sacred offerings.
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Reclaiming Her Power After a Traumatic Birth - Chloe’s Story
Rural living saw Chloe choose a sight unseen birth centre as her birth place and she anticipated she’d do just fine, like the thousands of animals she and her man had seen giving birth on the farm. A hideous car ride during labour to what turned out to be an incredibly unappealing birth space, followed by a lack of attentive support and meconium in the waters, meant that Chloe ended up being transferred to hospital… by helicopter and without her man or midwife by her side. What is more, she was terrified of heights. Her girl was born via a ventouse delivery which also involved an unconsented to episiotomy.
Chloe has yet to experience giving birth again since the traumatic birth of her daughter 2 ½ years ago. Unlike the podcast episodes you’re used to around here, this one doesn’t share a positive and empowering story of birth. Instead, Chloe and I delve into the healing journey she has embarked on in the wake of her traumatic birth and all that she has done and continues to do to prepare herself for the conscious conception of her next babe.
We talk about tracking menstrual cycles, women’s circles, discovering spirituality, nature-based rituals and celebrations, and so much more. Enjoy the journey that Chloe takes us on.
Also discussed in this episode:
* working with a Healing Birth Practitioner trainee
* becoming a Healing Birth practitioner
* painful postpartum sex
* paganism and witchcraft
* home birth
* contraceptive pill for heavy, painful periods as a teen
To find out about Carla's Healing Birth Practitioner Training programme, click here: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/hb-practitioner-training
To follow Carla's work on Instagram, click here: https://www.instagram.com/healing.birth/
To follow Chloe on Instagram, click here: https://www.instagram.com/reclaimingherpower/ -
The Journey to Free Birthing Her First Baby - Tessa’s Story
Today’s episode is a bit of a different one and quite possibly my favourite interview to date. Tessa gave birth to her first baby just 4 months ago. I met her during her pregnancy when she did my Soulful Birth course and then she also went on to do my Healing Birth Practitioner Training in the final months before she gave birth. Tessa shares with us the path she walked to prepare herself for a truly wonderful home birth experience, with just her man, her doula and her friend present for support.
If, as you listen to Tessa’s story, you feel inspired to either join my Soulful Birth course or train with me to become a certified Healing Birth practitioner, be sure to click on the relevant link at the bottom of the show notes. Both courses are run multiple times throughout the year so it doesn’t matter when you are tuning into this episode there’s bound to be a course offered in the not-too-distant future.
But for now, let me grace your ears with this beautifully inspiring story of courage, trust, wisdom and growth, and oodles of delicious love.
Also discussed:
* medical trauma related to pandemic
* tuning into and trusting her intuition
* contemplating the potential for death in birth
* taking responsibility for the things that are within our control regarding birth
* partner’s role in free birth
* unpacking of conditioned fears surrounding birth
* guided meditations, journaling, somatic tools
* vulnerability of first latching baby at breast
* managing visitors in early postpartum
* vaginal tear - supporting the natural healing process
You can follow Tessa on her Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/tessaleighpitt/
Information on my (Carla's) group Soulful Birth course: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/soulfulbirthgroup And on my 1:1 Soulful Birth For You offerings: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/soulfulbirthforyou
More information on my Healing Birth Practitioner Training course: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/hb-practitioner-training
Check out other content I have created on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healingbirth and on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healing.birth/
Tessa's doula, Alexa (who has also done my Healing Birth Practitioner Training), is based in Hastings NZ. Here's her website: https://www.alexadoulaphotography.co.nz/ -
Haemorrhage, Epidurals & Induction to a Peaceful Rural Home Birth - Abi’s Story
Abi is Mum to 4 year old Bill, 2 year old Freya, and 8 week old Ida, living on their rural property 2.5 hours drive from the nearest hospital. Her first two births were medical affairs, involving epidurals, induction and a large postpartum haemorrhage. Her most recent birth, however, was a gentle water birth experience at home, an utterly ordinary, yet simultaneously extraordinary occasion.
Abi shares with us the journey she went on to confidently prepare for a rural home birth, and the buzz of ordinary delights like climbing into bed together as a family after a wondrous birth at day break.
Also discussed in this episode:
Meconium stained liquor
Lack of initial mother-baby bond
Tongue tie
Milk oversupply
Hypnobirthing
The Freya app
Breech at 36 - 38wks
TENS
Sibling involvement with birth
Retained membranes
Learn about Carla's Soulful Birth course here: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/birthprep
Listen to Carla talk about birth and birth trauma related topics on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healingbirth
Follow Carla on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healing.birth/ -
Planned Home Birth Ends in C Section & Breastfeeding Trauma, Then a Healing HBAC
Pregnant with her first baby in Australia, Grace did her doula training and was planning a gentle home birth. She had an epic support team who she fully trusted, but then at 36 weeks of pregnancy Grace had to make the excruciating call to move to NZ for her partner’s work.
Aside from the struggles with leaving behind her wonderful home birth midwife and having to find a new match, Grace was also met with a few other challenges during her labour, the key one being a swollen lip of cervix and having the near impossible instruction to stop pushing. Not long thereafter, Grace succumbed to a hospital transfer, followed by an epidural and then a c section.
The biggest struggle was yet to be faced though. It makes heartbreaking listening, hearing Grace describe the trauma she was met with as a new mum dealing with a low milk supply, a lack of bond with her baby, and isolation during Covid lockdowns in a town where she knew no one. Being advised that her baby required a formula top-up at 3 days of age, culminated in massive breastfeeding hurdles for the next five months.
Her next birth was an entirely different experience, as was her breastfeeding journey. Hear how Grace navigated her healing and prepared for an empowering home birth.
Also included in this episode:
* stretch & sweep
* 42+ week pregnancy
* deflexed head
* triple feeding (pumping)
* nipple shields
* doula care
* PPH
* birth debrief
Visit Grace's website to learn more about her work: https://www.modernvillage.co.nz/
Follow her work on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modern.village/
Find out about my (Carla's) Healing Birth Practitioner Training programme: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/hb-practitioner-training
Did you know I now have a Healing Birth YouTube channel. Check it out: https://www.youtube.com/@healingbirth -
Traumatic First Birth & PTSD to a Life Changing HBAC - Donna's Story
Donna takes us on quite the journey, vulnerably sharing the stories of her two very different birth experiences. Her first birth was a harrowing time, fraught with abandonment, labouring in a motel room, meconium stained waters, a terrifying hospital transfer, exhaustion, a delayed epidural, and then finally culminating in a cesarean section. In stark contrast, Donna’s second was an incredibly empowering, healing and triumphant water birth at home.
It’s quite something to imagine Donna having gone from the devastating fall-out of her first birth, including a deep sense of failure and confusion surrounding it all, PTSD and relationship struggles, to feeling strong in her conviction that she could, and would, birth her next baby at home. She shares with us the various supports and tools she utilised to begin healing and to ready herself to fully embrace her power and wisdom as a Mother and as a birthing woman.
Also included in this episode:
* Unsupportive vs supportive and respectful midwifery care
* TENS
* Doula support
* Hypnobirthing
* Posterior baby
* Complications with living rurally
* Inability to communicate or think during labour
* Counselling support
* NZ College of Midwives Resolutions process
* Miscarriage
* VBAC course
Donna forgot to mention in her story that she found Havening a really helpful therapeutic tool for managing her PTSD symptoms.
My (Carla's) Healing Birth work...
Donna had a 1:1 Unravelling Your Trauma session with me. For more information on these and other healing services I offer, click here: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/healing
And the Soulful Birth course that Donna participated in is an 8 weeks long holistic birth and postpartum preparation course that is held online. I also now offer personalised 1:1 Soulful Birth For You options (which include a gorgeous journal that I have created). To find out more about both of these services, click here: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/birthprep
You can also access a lot of free information and guidance from me via my new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@healingbirth
Donna's doula was Lily. You can connect with Lily via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lilythedoula/
The Havening therapy that Donna found really helpful was with Robin Youngson: https://neuroscienceofhealing.com/
Donna also had wonderful acupuncture support from Anna-Lena Tews in Hamilton, NZ: https://altews-midwifery.com/ -
Long Labours, Sovereign Birth & Māori Tikanga - Aroha & Tihikura’s Stories
In this episode I speak with Aroha and her partner, Tihikura, about the home births of their two children, 5 year old Te Rangimoeke and 4 month old Rangiāniwaniwa. We hear about the challenges of having a long labour, including the influence of other people and their energies within the birth space, as well as a sense of abandonment when labour dragged on.
Within the conversation, a lot of Māori words and practices are shared. I have included many of the words and their definitions in the shownotes, so hopefully you don’t feel too lost with the various elements of the experiences that Aroha and Tihikura describe. It brings such a unique and spiritual approach to the telling of their story and to honouring birth as the rite of passage that it is.
We cover many moving and important themes, such as the impacts of midwifery interference in birth and the healing that can come through the debriefing process, super supportive postpartum preparations, the influence of children and siblings at births, Māori-based antenatal education, unhelpful expectations and predictions when it comes to birth, and so much more.
Tikanga - customs, practices
Whare - house
Whenua - placenta and land
Kainga - home
Tamariki - children
Whanaunga - relatives
Tangi - cry and funeral
Hapū - pregnancy
Kōtiro - girl
Harakeke - flax
Mahitahi - working together
Atua - gods and goddesses
Wairua - spirit
Tipuna - ancestors
Wharepaku - toilet
Tangaroa - god of the sea and fish
Rangatiratanga - chieftainship, self-determination, sovereignty
and on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hapuwananga
Contact Aroha via email: aroha@haputaranaki.co.nz
If you're interested in my (Carla's) Soulful Birth online antenatal series, click here for more details: https://www.healingbirth.co.nz/birthprep