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Hello my lovelies. Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF. Today we get into the real (notice how I didn’t say all tea, all shade & all offense - we’re getting serious today) .. and I know the conversation is a little uncomfortable - but remember: each show is a different mood, some are good, some are bad, some are funny.



But since we’re so close to the holidays, I wanted to speak on something that has been so heavy on my heart - Grief. Grief is one of the most paradoxically complex feelings ever. In this episode I get into what my grief looks like, how to show UP for your people who are experiencing grief - most importantly I touch on my time at Experience Camps this past August! (https://experiencecamps.org/) 



I want you all to know, no matter when you lost your person or people, no matter how much time has past - I will always be here holding space for you all because I’ve been there. I LIVE here some days. 



Also: Experience Camps is crowdfunding to send kids to camp for free!!! FROM NOW UNTIL 12/31! Help us send some amazing kids to camp next summer!!! 

(https://give.experiencecamps.org/campaign/experience-camps-2023-crowdfunding-campaign/c525971?_ga=2.35937440.1816624424.1700636343-1502250240.1689000154)


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WELCOME TO SEASON 3 OF MOOD AF!

DID YOU MISS ME??? WELL, SHE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!!



In our first episode of season 3, we get into all tea, all shade and all offense about NYC and it's current state of affairs (ie: Post flood, MTA, etc) ... I also throw shade at the social media influencer we have for mayor.. because my guy is everywhere BUT the damn office. You also find out where I've been and what I've been up to!



Most importantly: Thank you all for being so incredibly kind, supportive, patient, and most of all so loving and caring. It means so much to me that all of you were waiting so patiently for the show to come back & I did exactly what I promised: I came back. I'm here for good, so don't you worry. CHEERS TO SEASON 3!!!



Xo,

Nikeita.


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Hey, my babes!

In this week’s episode, I’m giving you all tea, all shade & all offense about Cultivating female relationships, especially during your mid to late ’20s.

I can’t lie, ladies, we need to be more honest with ourselves and with our friends. We should be more open to hearing our friends out and holding ourselves accountable for specific behaviors. As we get older it’s imperative that we continue to foster our relationships with each other and with ourselves. We should be more honest about the things we want out of our friendships.

We should communicate more, we should aspire for more for each other, and definitely be honest when we’re not feeling great and projecting that onto our friends.

So I beg, please listen to this with knowing I want growth for each and every single one of us, and I want us all to be better.

AND I THROW SHADE AT MYSELF THIS EPISODE TOO. It would be extremely hypocritical if I didn’t.

Xo,

Nikeita


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Hey, my babes!

Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF!

Today I want to get into All Tea, All Shade & All Offense about something that has been weighing on me for a while. The ugly side of healing and growth within self.

As some of you know, and most of you don’t, I have been active in therapy for a little over a year now, and I feel like it’s time to share my experiences, while also giving you all the ugly truth. Especially because social media tends to glorify healing & growth to be ‘flowers and daisies’ and ‘happiness’… when in all reality, it’s not that simple. It’s not that easy. It’s not always happy. It includes being lonely. It includes feeling like you’re lost. It’s about realizing and becoming aware of specific behaviors and setting boundaries which can be really tough sometimes.

Some days are a lot harder than others. It’s about realizing sometimes that you’re the toxic person, and that you let people treat you in a way that was less than desirable but knowing you want to change. Knowing that you desire peace and you’re capable of giving it to yourself. It’s about being okay with losing some of the people who you call ‘friends’, family, etc.

Also, I’ll be providing some helpful links below if you should want to start your own journey with therapy! Please feel free to reach out to me if you wanna talk about your journey as well! Here at Mood AF, we are a safe space.

Xo,

Nikeita



https://therapyforblackgirls.com/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us

NYC Well - Confidential crisis counseling, mental health, and substance misuse support, information, and referral. You can reach the toll-free helpline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by phone, text, and online chat. Mental health professionals there can link you to the services you need.


Phone: (888)-692-9355
Text "WELL" to 651-73




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Hey, my babes!

Figured it’s been a while since we spoke last. Hope you guys have been well with the circumstances.

Now that we’re in ‘21 it’s less talk, more action. Consider this a new start. Boom. Hello. My name is Nikeita, creator, and host of Mood AF Podcast.

As I like to say ‘Live from the crib’ from wherever that may be for you!

Today we’re gonna get into all tea, all shade, and all offense about Millennials and the job market. Basically, I wanted to let you all in on what the reality is for many:

It’s a bitch trying to get a job during a pandemic. So I’m here to document it!

Also, we know I want you to be your most comfortable with your favorite cocktail/mocktail and or paper of choice 😏

Shoutouts to my cocktail of choice:

J.T.S. Brown Whiskey

@talenti Talenti Ice Cream - Roman Alphonso Mango Sorbet

@countrytime Country Time Pink Lemonade

And as always, thank you for all the continued support. Cheers to a fresh slate!


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Hey my babes!

Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF! In this episode we get into all tea, all shade and all offense about housing in NYC.

This episode was mainly inspired by a Tik Tok that really went into depth about what an ACTUAL day in NYC looks like (P.S.: It’s not what you see on Tik Tok). Today you’ll meet Annie, the young lady behind that same video.

We discuss what our home lives are like, why it’s imperative that people quit telling native NY’ers to just ‘move’ when we complain about how expensive it is, and of course our disdain for some of these realtors.

Check out Annie’s article on Sunset Park residents fearing losing their homes due to gentrification

https://anniecabreu.wordpress.com/2020/10/10/sunset-park-residents-feel-like-theyre-losing-their-grasp-on-their-home/

As always, follow us on all our socials:

@moodafpodcast (Twitter, Instagram)

Watch the visual - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBqedrfCx1EjEJRP49mMPXw

Follow Nikeita on all socials as well:

@nikeita_


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