28 episodes

Are Relationships and Intimacy important to you?


We bring together a community of people who value connection over separation, who value empathy, compassion and understanding over judgments, defensiveness or being right.


We raise consciousness by bringing more open awareness to our own emotions, desires and shadows, and by being curious about the reality of the people we want to nurture connections with.


We teach tools that help express our emotions and our truth clearly and authentically, so we can be fully heard, seen and understood.


We practice 1) Tantra to connect spirituality and sexuality and free our emotional expression, 2) Nonviolent Communication to communicate authentically, and 3) Internal Family Systems to dissolve trauma.

RelationshipAlkemy Olivier & Jordan Bessaignet

    • Society & Culture

Are Relationships and Intimacy important to you?


We bring together a community of people who value connection over separation, who value empathy, compassion and understanding over judgments, defensiveness or being right.


We raise consciousness by bringing more open awareness to our own emotions, desires and shadows, and by being curious about the reality of the people we want to nurture connections with.


We teach tools that help express our emotions and our truth clearly and authentically, so we can be fully heard, seen and understood.


We practice 1) Tantra to connect spirituality and sexuality and free our emotional expression, 2) Nonviolent Communication to communicate authentically, and 3) Internal Family Systems to dissolve trauma.

    3 Intimacy Secrets After Baby

    3 Intimacy Secrets After Baby

    How to get soul-fulfilling intimacy, while balancing young kids and a high-flying career …Even if you’re separated, or your partner is reluctant.

    • 58 min
    Have You Tried Slow Sex Yet?

    Have You Tried Slow Sex Yet?

    We’re back folks after doing a little bit of research and our newest conclusion is that slow sex is the BEST sex ever!


    I know I know, slow sex?! Who would have thought?


    Join us on this broadcast as we share all our juicy research and we deep dive into the science behind slow sex!


    We’ll also go over some practical tips to slowing down in the bedroom and why slow sex can be even more delicious and fulfilling that your average run of the mill rump in the sheets.


    Our method can provide a profound life-changing intimacy breakthrough, but it's not for everybody. Which is why we spend time first understanding each person's values, wants and needs before even talking about enrolling in our program.


    Reach out to us here to get your free ebooks and request a free zero pressure 15-min phone consultation: https://m.me/olivier.bessaignet.14

    • 58 min
    Why Emotional Intimacy Can Make or Break Your Relationship

    Why Emotional Intimacy Can Make or Break Your Relationship

    If you’re anything like us, there’s one thing you absolutely must have before you can even THINK about getting down and dirty in the bedroom. Emotional Intimacy!


    Emotional Intimacy is what lays the foundation and creates safety for our connection with each other. There’s nothing like feeling seen, heard, and understood that allows for trust to be built and intimacy to bloom.


    ✅ Mastering Emotional Literacy is like having a superpower for resolving triggers and conflicts, dissolving power struggles, placing healthy boundaries, and cultivating deeper intimacy.


    ✅ Lack of emotional relating is the #1 complaint we receive from couples beyond the honeymoon phase. Lacking this easily learnable skill is what can break any relationship, no matter how much love and commitment are present.


    👉 Join us on this live broadcast and interact with us as we share our blueprint for fostering deep emotional intimacy between you and your partner.


    Trust us, you don’t want to miss this one!


    If you want to connect with us, please reach out at https://m.me/olivier.bessaignet.14

    • 57 min
    Our Blueprint for Spicy Sexy Talks and Juicy Intimacy

    Our Blueprint for Spicy Sexy Talks and Juicy Intimacy

    How comfortable are you with talking about sex with your partner? Do you share your desires, frustrations, fantasies, and hangups?


    Are you craving more sexual intimacy in your relationship?


    After the honeymoon phase wears off we’re often left with desires for “how it used to be”. You know, that feeling of giddiness when everything was exciting and new and sex was abundant.


    Join us on this episode as we share our blueprint for spicy sex talks and juicy intimacy and how we apply it in our relationship.


    We’ll share 3 practical tools that we practice in our relationship to help you get down and dirty with your partner tonight as well as communication tips to help keep the flame hot and spicy!


    Check out all past episodes here: https://relationshipalkemy.com/category/podcast/

    • 53 min
    How Trauma Affects Your Intimacy and How to Dissolve It

    How Trauma Affects Your Intimacy and How to Dissolve It

    By nature, intimate relationships bring all our stuff to the surface, including any unresolved trauma.


    Until each partner heal their trauma, they're doomed to project their fears and negative beliefs unto each other.


    Discover how to heal your trauma without overwhelming your nervous system.


    https://relationshipalkemy.com/category/podcast/

    • 54 min
    What is Sacred Spot Massage? From Inorgasmic to Female Ejaculation...

    What is Sacred Spot Massage? From Inorgasmic to Female Ejaculation...

    What is Sacred Spot Massage and why do Tantrikas always talk about it?!


    Join us as we discuss all things about Sacred Spot Massage, like why its so important and just exactly what it is.


    Together we’ll get into the nitty gritty on how it can benefit all people in their sexual healing journey.


    And Jordan will tell the story of her transformational journey from inorgasmic to female ejaculation.


    Links mentioned during the call:


    Upcoming Sacred Spot Massage Retreat for CouplesPrevious podcast episode: The 4 Neural Pathways to Access Altered States of Orgasm

    • 52 min

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