136 episodes

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it!
Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. Anxiety. Boundaries. People Pleasing. Their narcissistic mother. No topic is off limits!

New episodes released every Thursday.

The hosts:
Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjake
Simon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimon
The pod: https://www.instagram.com/notatherapypodcast

This Isn’t Therapy Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck

    • Health & Fitness

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it!
Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. Anxiety. Boundaries. People Pleasing. Their narcissistic mother. No topic is off limits!

New episodes released every Thursday.

The hosts:
Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjake
Simon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimon
The pod: https://www.instagram.com/notatherapypodcast

    The Control Paradox

    The Control Paradox

    This Isn't Therapy...this is a fun, flirty, fab conversation about the control paradox! Arg! How do I get more control? Why must I try to fix everything?! Through two #lovelylistener stories, Simon and Jake explore the paradox of managing our fear of not having control by trying to get more of it. Also, what happens when we try to rush to resolve everything, all the time? AKA being a fix it, Ralph!! Listen to find out. 
    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 33 min
    Exploring our inner world

    Exploring our inner world

    This Isn't Therapy... it's a long-overdue convo about inner worlds and inner children! What is an inner child? Does everyone have one? How do I know if I have one? In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how to reconnect with our inner kids and how to know whether or not our inner child needs healing, attention, connection, or care. What follows is a discussion about inner worlds and why or why we shouldn't explore, or escape into, our inner landscape.
    Quote from the episode: "Being left alone with our stressful emotions in childhood creates a wounded inner child in need of healing."
    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 38 min
    The eerie hype of self-improvement influencers

    The eerie hype of self-improvement influencers

    This Isn't Therapy...this is an (accidental) deep dive into self-improvement influencers and the impact they're having on men: "how to be more alpha by yelling at the ocean!! How to get a six pack by eating a pound of raw liver a day!! Why being sad is a state of mind so go chew on a football!!!! Oh no!! Don't fret though, Simon and Jake keep it flirty and fun as they discuss the online obsession with fitness, mindset, and self-optimization. Are we undoing the progress we’ve made to reduce mental health stigma?!
    Sources: - Beware Lifestyle Fascismby Maya Vinokour-Why the politics of young men and women are drifting further and further apartby Nimo Omer for The Guardian
    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 45 min
    6 Types of Play Everyone Needs

    6 Types of Play Everyone Needs

    This isn't therapy... it's an episode about the six types of play everyone needs. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the growing rates of play deprivation and how we've become starved of this essential ingredient for wellbeing. They cover the three types of play we need in infancy and childhood and discuss the three types of play we need in adolescence and adulthood. Let the true meaning behind "fun, flirty, and fabulous" commence!
    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 57 min
    Does anyone feel like an actual adult?

    Does anyone feel like an actual adult?

    This Isn't Therapy... it's a conversation about becoming a confident, capable, and emotionally mature adult. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the mirage of adulthood and the search for the "real adults". If you're feeling the pressure to perform a certain brand of adulthood, you don't want to miss this one. Jake and Simon dive into an article by Kathryn Jezer-Morton for The Cut called Does anyone feel like an actual adult?and tackle the myth of the ~fully realized~ adult. This one's for anyone who feels like they’re cosplaying as an adult or simply wearing a grown up costume.
    Don't forget, Mary: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 44 min
    Loneliness vs Being Alone

    Loneliness vs Being Alone

    This Isn't Therapy...this is a flirty fab conversation about loneliness versus being alone. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon explore feelings around how we can feel lonely even though we're surrounded by people we love. Also, how being alone does not always mean you are lonely. 
    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com
    Creators & Guests

    Simon Paluck - Host
    Jake Ernst - Host
    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

    • 43 min

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