Heal Your Codependency with Marshall Burtcher Marshall Burtcher

Why You Struggle To Really, Actually Love Yourself

When you're rewarded with praise, attention, or affection for doing something, your body will see performance and love as the same thing.

When you're presence is met with warmth, praise, attention, or affection on a consistent basis, your body will see your existence and love as the same thing. 

You deserve to know the second form of love.

Learn what is really going on and your first step in really, actually loving yourself in today's episode:


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Codependency And Shame - What's Really Happening

You cannot become free of your codependency until you break free of what I call "Your Root Identity".

Codependency depends on a root identity.

What is a root identity?  It is an identity that you FEEL and experience as utterly true about yourself.

You filter the world through this identity and it controls how you live your life.

Learn what this root identity is and what do to about it so you are free from it.

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The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN!  30 seats are available this year!  Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment.  This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term.  Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com

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3 Priorities For Satisfaction If You're Codependent

Do you often feel:

 - Empty, frustrated, or used?
 - Wonder why your life is not fulfilling or satisfied?
 - Feel lost as to what you want, value, or even need in your life?

Codependency has us prioritizing others emotionally, physically, mentally, and even financially or intimately.  

This happens through acts of people-pleasing, perfectionism, avoiding conflict, and even trying to fix their problems for them.

We are confusing someone else's world as our own, creating disconnection, depletion, and frustration in our experience.

Your satisfaction, fulfillment, peace, or contentment depends on alignment - alignment with people, places, things, and purposes that naturally contribute to and nourish you.  

This kind of alignment requires that you choose yourself - repeatedly.  

Choosing yourself means you are prioritizing things that matter to you over that of other people's demands, approvals, disagreements, and expectations.

This is where you start feeling more fulfillment, clarity, trust in yourself, and you start to experience life in *your* way.

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LIVE CLASS NOTICE: The Next FOUNDATION Live Series starts April 21st, 2024! 50 Person Limit! End codependency by creating emotional safety, aligning with real self-worth, and building warm belonging.  Join here: https://foundation.freetheself.com

The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN!  30 seats are available this year!  Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment.  This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term.  Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com

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You're Not Emotionally Blocked - You're In Need Of Love

The term and concept called "blocks" is prevalent in the self-help and healing world.  It is something that sabotaged my healing, satisfaction, and personal alignment with my purposes and joy, as I was drawn to try to fix, eliminate, and overcome these "blocks".

This wasted over a decade of energy, time, and money in my life, leaving me highly discouraged and feeling broken.

Then I learned what was really happening and began thriving.

I share this discovery and how to implement it into your life right now so you aren't wasting time, energy, money, and life trying to get past your "blocks" in today's episode.

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LIVE CLASS NOTICE: The Next FOUNDATION Live Series starts April 21st, 2024! 50 Person Limit! End codependency by creating emotional safety, aligning with real self-worth, and building warm belonging.  Join here: https://foundation.freetheself.com

The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN!  30 seats are available this year!  Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment.  This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term.  Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com

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3 Things You Must Unblend From Others If You're To Thrive

Codependency has us blending ourselves with others.

What is blending?

It is confusing one's self with another's reality.  An example: You know their feelings and mistake their feelings for your feelings.

This is a common form of being enmeshed with another.

In today's episode, I show you three critical things to unblend from others so you experience more peace, confidence, power, and healing in your daily life.  This is the path to becoming free of your codependency.


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LIVE CLASS NOTICE: The Next FOUNDATION Live Series starts April 21st, 2024! 50 Person Limit! End codependency by creating emotional safety, aligning with real self-worth, and building warm belonging.  Join here: https://foundation.freetheself.com

The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN!  30 seats are available this year!  Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment.  This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term.  Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com

** CURRENT WORKSHOP:

Frustrated with a lack of results from therapy or self-help? Join my free trainings, The 3 Simple Shifts That Unlock Real Healing, Peace, And Freedom Where Therapy & Self-help Have Failed Workshop and break through today: https://workshop.freetheself.com

3 Things You Must Trust In Yourself If You're To Heal And Thrive

Abuse and neglect conditioned you to naturally distrust yourself.  You learned to discount the legitimacy of your lived experiences, the importance and value of your emotions, to seek your worth through pleasing others and being "good", and so much more.

To heal, your distrust must be healed into trust.

I share the 3 essential things you must begin trusting again if you're to align and thrive in your well-being, peace, and satisfaction.


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** CURRENT ENROLLMENTS:

LIVE CLASS NOTICE: The Next FOUNDATION Live Series starts April 21st, 2024! 50 Person Limit! End codependency by creating emotional safety, aligning with real self-worth, and building warm belonging.  Join here: https://foundation.freetheself.com

The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN!  30 seats are available this year!  Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment.  This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term.  Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com

** CURRENT WORKSHOP:

Frustrated with a lack of results from therapy or self-help? Join my free trainings, The 3 Simple Shifts That Unlock Real Healing, Peace, And Freedom Where Therapy & Self-help Have Failed Workshop and break through today: https://workshop.freetheself.com