Dom Sub Devotion Andrew & Dawn - Infinite Devotion

Episode 37 - How I control my submissive
Control is a very charged word that comes with a lot of fear, judgement, and resistance. It’s also something that has often been abused.

But inside of a loving Dom/sub relationship, consensual control is a central theme. There’s turn on in taking control. Surrendering control. It’s what makes power exchange into power exchange!

In this episode, we explore control. What it is for us. The role it plays in our dynamic. The differences between being in control and being controlling. What each of us likes about the word and energy of control. The difference between control as a limiting factor and control as path to freedom, and lots more!

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Social Links: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 
Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Living Surrendered is a pre-recorded, watch on demand workshop for women that we presented live in 2022, available for only $97. The way that the content of this workshop came out was so potent, and the way it impacted the women's lives who watched live, made us decide to keep it available to watch on demand. This workshop dives deep into what it takes for a woman to let go of control. Why it's so challenging. And shows a path

Episode 36 - Keeping passion and desire alive over the long term - Dating, Novelty, and Sex
Dom/sub relationships are often thought of in terms of control, obedience, and structure.

But in a long term, loving relationship, things like romance, and continuing to date each other, are spoken about as valuable.

So how do WE bring these two things together?

This is what we discuss in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion. Recorded on a Friday, already dressed to head out on a date night together, we captured this episode to share how Dominance and submission for us work together perfectly with a loving relationship.

Just some of the topics we discuss in this episode:


How romance fits together with power exchange
Why dating each other is still important in D/s dynamics
How D/s has brought novelty and excitement into our marriage
Power exchange as the antidote to the slowly dying passion in marriage
And lots more!

We hope you enjoy this episode! We’d love to hear your comments and feedback, as always! Please remember to subscribe, and if you enjoy our work, consider leaving a rating for us on Apple or Spotify podcasts to help other people find us!

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Social Links: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 
Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://inf

Episode 35: How we make decisions in our D/s marriage - Streamed Live on YouTube
Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with stayingThis episode was streamed live! If you want to make sure you get notified of future livestreams, subscribe to our channel and to our email list by clicking here! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

We had dozens of our followers join us live to hear us discuss decision making in our D/s dynamic. How does Dawn actually let go of control and allow herself to follow Andrew's decisions? How did Andrew learn to become confident in his decision making? And how has all of this helped us learn to trust each other more deeply?   

We address all of this and more in this livestream podcast recording. We appreciate all of you for joining us, and look forward to the next live with you!  

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Social Links: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 
Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Living Surrendered is a pre-recorded, watch on demand workshop for women that we presented live in 2022, available for only $97. The way that the content of this workshop came out was so potent, and the way it impacted t

Episode 34: How we stay consistent in our D/s dynamic
Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with staying connected to our D/s relationship.

In this episode, we discuss some of the ways we’ve managed to stay consistent in our D/s, even in the midst of challenges, children, illnesses, and busy lives.

And we share some of the strategies that our listeners can learn from our approach to keep your own D/s dynamic strong over the long term, without falling out of it when things get tough.

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 

Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Living Surrendered is a pre-recorded, watch on demand workshop for women that we presented live in 2022. The way that the content of this workshop came out was so potent, and the way it impacted the women's lives who watched live, made us decide to keep it available to watch on demand. This workshop dives deep into what it takes for a woman to let go of control. Why it's so challenging. And shows a path to freedom for any feminine woman who desires to escape the fear and control that keep her living small. Learn more about Living Surrendered and watch now at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/living-surrendered-2

Finding My Dominant Man is another watch on demand workshop replay from a 2023 live stream teaching that w

https://infinitedevotion.com/communion  

We are accepting enrollments for our premier program for women: Communion. This six month immersion begins on June 3rd, 2024. If you are a woman who is seeking a deeper connection to your own body, soul, and truth, this is what you've been looking for. Click the link below to learn more and join us!

 Episode 33: Overcoming Overthinking
Overthinking is a challenge that comes into direct confrontation with any attempts to engage in deeper intimacy in relationship. And this tendency to get stuck in cycles of overthinking and ruminating is one that can feel impossible to escape.   

In this episode, we discuss how we’ve worked through each of our own overthinking problems. We get into what definitely DIDN’T work, and how we’ve come to a place of being much more present in our own bodies and our own experiences.   

What we’ve found to be true is that we CAN end the cycle of overthinking, but we will never think our way out of a thinking problem. No amount of information gathering or understanding has helped.   Instead, we’ve had to realize the root causes of overthinking and come into deep awareness of what we’re trying to avoid with these spinning, cycling, ruminating thoughts. And this has been how we’ve found our way to a much deeper place of presence in each of our experience of life.   

Enjoy this episode, there is a ton of very potent and valuable sharing of experience in this conversation for anyone who wants to end this pattern of being stuck in your head.   

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 

Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. B

Episode 32: Finding ourselves through our Dom/sub marriage
The seeking of authenticity has been an integral part of what has made our D/s marriage so special and unique.

So often, D/s relationships value things like obedience and performance.

But for us, this has always been about deeper intimacy with each other. And that has led us to look inward and become more of who we really are.

But authenticity can bring us apart. Or certainly lead us to fear losing love or being abandoned, because it involves unwinding codependent patterns.

So in this episode, we discuss how deeper authenticity has allowed us to come into connection and intimacy with each other, and how D/s has created the structure for us to accept and love each other in our fullness.

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.   

Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! 

Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe 

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. 

Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   

Communion is a 6 month small group coaching program for women who are working to let go of control and live a more feminine, surrendered existence. To overcome overthinking and find peace and freedom in life. This program includes weekly practices and weekly calls with Andrew & Dawn to guide you on your own journey to authentic feminine embodiment. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/communion

Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance  

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass  

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/  or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Living Surrendered is a pre-recorded, watch on demand workshop for women that we presented live in 2022. The way that the content of this workshop came out was so potent, and the way it impacted the women's lives who watched live, made us decide to keep it available to watch on demand. This workshop dives deep into what it takes for a woman to let go of control. Why it's so challenging. And shows a path to freedom for any feminine woman who desires to escape the fear and control that keep her living small. Learn more