Big Hormone Enneagram John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo

Psychedelic 7 frustration with Ikram.
— (4:00) The overwhelming depths of 7 disappointment and self-hatred / giving yourself what you didn’t get in childhood— (9:50) The psychic aural fixation of 7 — (13:35) Frustration as the engine to go out into the world / constant bust-boom cycle— (17:03) 7s walking a tight wire with lines to competency and reactive types on either side— (20:10) 7 is fighting for creative imagination / the addiction to movement— (25:25) 4 vs 7 frustration — (31:08) The unconditional positive self-regard of 7 has a shadow of deep self-hatred— (36:33) Releasing importance and savoring the moment takes the edge off endless disappointment / offering something at 5— (48:55) The imaginative aesthetic of 7 in the head center / scam harder— (56:12) Patience with slow movies— (1:01:54) 7s have to become the nipple
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Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
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Continuing our series on frustration and type 4.
— (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we’re reacting to 3w2 not bashing it— (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood— (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark— (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell— (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal— (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment— (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they’re a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness— (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can— (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5— (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete— (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity 
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the 3w4 exodus, Beksiński, Jojo Siwa, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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it’s the spice of life.
— (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center— (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality — (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center— (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having— (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships— (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want— (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’— (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something— (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood— (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies— (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms— (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, 8w7 vs 8w9, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.
— (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt— (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt— (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard— (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group— (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids— (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature— (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred— (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis.
— (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation— (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence— (16:35) The philosophy of truth vs love in psychotherapy— (20:49) Carl Rogers unconditional positive regard— (29:30) What Josh finds annoying about 4 skepticism of love and connection— (33:39) Louis’ identification with predator swag — (42:24) 3w2 vs 3w4 in a team scenario / team vs self orientation — (48:31) How Josh realized he had a 2-wing / Louis’ social mode of separateness and why he became a therapist— (57:41) Differences in processing negativity and aesthetic frustration— (1:09:51) The 3w2 tenet of always having something to appreciate about anything — (1:24:08) The ideal ego fantasy for 3w2 vs 3w4
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Jennifer Lopez, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647.
— (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center— (8:40) The surgeon is a 5— (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling the playing field with negativity— (16:30) hexad vs attachment response to suffering in the world— (23:45) The artifice of polite adulthood as a hindrance to growth— (30:52) The necessity of conveying complex ideas and orientation through symbol— (36:31) Bella developed so quickly because of her hunger for experiences like a child who views enjoyment as a necessity — (49:34) Social hexad vs attachment orientation with parents and formative attachment figures— (56:35) Bermuda adjacent hexad types seeming more hexad by pushing off attachment
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the NOTA4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message