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In this podcast, now in it's fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests include Helen Joyce, Jesse Singal, Leor Sapir, Kathleen Stock, Jamie Reed, Peter Boghossian and more.

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Gender: A Wider Lens Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

    • Society & Culture

In this podcast, now in it's fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests include Helen Joyce, Jesse Singal, Leor Sapir, Kathleen Stock, Jamie Reed, Peter Boghossian and more.

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    What Can We Learn from Other Legal Precedents?

    What Can We Learn from Other Legal Precedents?

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    Are other legal precedents related to issues like abortion, euthanasia, lobotomies, or cosmetically oriented body modifications that can shed light on current legal challenges involving gender medicine?
    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Josh Payne explains how legal strategies often involve comparing new cases to similar past ones where patients experienced harm due to misinformation or non-disclosure. He cites examples of medical harm cases, emphasizing the importance of proving intentional deception to establish fraud, noting that historical medical practices like lobotomies, now judged harshly, provide a precedent for current critiques of gender medical interventions.
    Watch our full length free episode with Josh Payne: https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-167 
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    • 2 min
    167 - Dawn of the Detransitioner Lawsuits, with Josh Payne

    167 - Dawn of the Detransitioner Lawsuits, with Josh Payne

    In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome lawyer, Josh Payne, co-founder of Campbell Miller Payne, a law firm dedicated to representing individuals who were misled and abused – many as children – into psychological and physical harm through a false promise of “gender-affirming care.” Campbell Miller Payne is committed to its mission to speak up for these victims, assert their rights, and pursue justice.
    This is a conversation about various legal challenges faced by detransitioners, such as issues with informed consent, systemic healthcare problems, and the experimental nature of many treatments. The discussion emphasizes the vulnerability of clients, the lack of comprehensive care addressing underlying mental health issues, and the need for cautious medical practices, underscoring the importance of seeking justice for those affected and advocating for more responsible treatment alternatives to gender-affirming care.
    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at  https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-167

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    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching   
    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching 

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    • 1 hr 5 min
    Premium: The Top Five Common Mistakes Estranged Parents Make

    Premium: The Top Five Common Mistakes Estranged Parents Make

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    Is there a "prodigal son" element to the phenomenon of estranged children returning to their families? (Thanks to one of our founding members for submitting this question). While estrangement is a complex and new issue for many, there are some (if not common) instances where estranged children do find their way back to their families, however sometimes uneasily. But, this observation ties into themes discussed in Abigail Shrier's book "Irreversible Damage", which mentions that while "glitter families" (chosen families) might not be there in times of crisis, biological families often will be.
    What are some mistakes that you see parents making, which actually push the child further away? Empathy, patience, and strategic thinking are critical for parents to create a more conducive environment for potential reconciliation with their estranged children. But what should they avoid?
    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Joshua Coleman, Ph.D. addresses these questions and more, emphasizing that estrangement affects the entire family dynamic, not just the parent-child relationship. Coleman highlights that the majority of estrangements do reconcile, often driven by life events or personal growth. And he also outlines five key mistakes parents make that can push estranged children further away as well as coping strategies for parents dealing with long-term estrangement.
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    • 3 min
    166 - Dr. Joshua Coleman and How Parents Can Heal or Prevent Estrangement

    166 - Dr. Joshua Coleman and How Parents Can Heal or Prevent Estrangement

    In this episode, Sasha and Stella delve into the intricate world of family estrangement with psychologist and author, Dr. Joshua Coleman. Coleman's insights highlight the complexity and emotional strain of estrangement, emphasizing empathy, responsibility, and strategic communication as essential tools for parents navigating these challenging dynamics.
    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-166 
    Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/  
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    For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:
    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching   
    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching 
    To learn more about our sponsors, visit:
    Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ 
    Genspect at https://genspect.org/ 
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    • 1 hr 9 min
    Premium: I'm Glad I Was a Girl in the 70s | Meghan Daum

    Premium: I'm Glad I Was a Girl in the 70s | Meghan Daum

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    In today's internet age, so many are encountering the complex effects of cancel culture affording its victims a wide spectrum of implications, from severe career-ending scenarios to minor social ostracism and even family tensions and divisions.
    The digital revolution is not only exacerbating the dynamics between parents and their activist-minded children, but is also dramatically shifting generational dynamics as well. This is further complicated by societal reverence for youth and intellect, often overshadowing the value of life experience and the idea that “with age comes wisdom”.
    The profound influence of the internet becomes evident as we witness the ever-evolving impact of digital tech, transforming the way people engage with each other and the world around them, reshaping not only societal norms but also personal relationships, and fundamentally altering how individuals interact and connect.
    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Meghan Daum reflects with a nostalgia for the freedom and authenticity of past decades. The discussion explores the profound changes shaping our social landscape in contrast with historical contexts of youth culture, the erosion of respect for older generations' experiences, and the adverse effects of prioritizing youthful perspectives over seasoned wisdom.
    Watch our full length episode with Meghan Daum: https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-165 
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    • 3 min
    165 - Meghan Daum Wants Women To Stop Silencing Themselves

    165 - Meghan Daum Wants Women To Stop Silencing Themselves

    Sasha and Stella sit down with the multifaceted Meghan Daum, distinguished author, cultural commentator, and fellow podcast host, for a compelling exploration of societal change, the complexities of modern life, and coping through humor. Known for her incisive commentary and fearless exploration of complex topics, Meghan shares her personal reflections on identity and the central and contentious nature of gender in modern culture.
    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-165 
    Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/  
    Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/  
    Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show  
    Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod 
    For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:
    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching   
    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching 

    To learn more about our sponsors, visit:
    Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ 
    Genspect at https://genspect.org/ 

    This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe 


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    • 1 hr 9 min

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