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Across the personality spectrum, we each offer different giftings, and Type Threes offer us the reminder of holy Hope - the reminder that the race is not over even when it's hard or even if it feels like a marathon. Today we are given hope today afresh as we are joined by author, pastor, and founder of Sandals Church, Matthew Stephen Brown, Enneagram 3 with the refreshing reminders of faith in the midst of constantly scanning for negativity, especially in hard times. If you could use some encouragement and a reminder to stay strong to hold onto your marriage and to faith amidst all the hard work you’re doing, join us for the special of sharing stories and relationship-building tips from Matthew's newest book from Thomas Nelson here.
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It’s so easy to try to get your own way in an argument and even to feel like this is the end goal. Instead of just getting your own way, however, healthy couples learn to look with true diplomacy to figure out what fostering true compromise looks like when you both win, at least a bit. This will not come with a brilliant argumentation case any more than it will come by ignoring an issue and being passive-aggressive. Instead, really great conflict repair will instead come with healthy boundaries, compassion, and diplomacy, and as we finish this series, we address the latter. Learn how to be healthily diplomatic in your marriage right here!

Many couples are frustrated by differing conflict styles and miss getting to resolution because of it. In this mini-episode, Christa assesses how to deal with conflict with someone who is positively-wired in the 2 (the Giver), 7 (the Enthusiast), or 9 (the Peacemaker) personality spaces. In this mini-episode Christa gives both general and type-specific tips for you to relate better with these types in your life and relationship! Come check it out!
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How much emotional pain do couples have to endure before making the healthy changes that often feel so scary to initiate? This is a question many need to ask themselves since it's so vulnerable to break deep patterns of trauma together. Today Christa helps you to work through toxic relationship patterns with London-based psychotherapist and influencer Charisse Cooke as we talk about healing toxic bonding and trauma bonding. You CAN learn to find health and healing again or for the very first time and you're going to learn how right here!
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Have you been wondering how to extend a compassionate hand when you're busy and stressed? Studies show us that people are less likely to show compassion when they're rushing or feeling achievement needs pulling at them, and yet couples do MUCH better when they serve compassion up daily. Today's podcast helps you get regulated so you can become more compassionate together again and teaches you what compassion is really all about! You are healthier, stronger, and more resilient in your body, mind, and spirit when you're helping others with compassion and your marriage gets a needed boost as well. Make sure you tune into this deep dive episode to grab your compassion-boosting specific tips so you can deepen and depend on your love! Listen here!

On this special surprise mini-episode for Swiftie fans and for inquiring minds otherwise, Christa takes you on a journey of finding ways through pain to post-traumatic growth, analyzing through the lens of The Tortured Poet's Department Album (TTPD) from Taylor Swift. Join us for therapeutic lessons, fun, and a few meaningful takeaways for healthy ways to process grief, love, loss, and angst. In this episode we analyze Taylor's vulnerable path forward to healing, adding tips for post-relationship hurt growth healing for you and yours as well! Bring your journal to this pod!
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