Life of a Black Woman Leah

How are the people in your life handling you?  Are you handling you like a diamond when you are more of a pearl?

The of having conversations is to learn to understand and know when to quite.  It's understood that as humans we at times think we have conquered the art of living life. Especially if we feel like we're successful in an area where another is not.  People don't need us preaching to them always. Everyone moves at there own pace in their own time.  If you have a piece of advice to offer, okay give it but at the same time, know when to speak your peace and SHUT UP!!!!

Love is the highest and best expression of self.  It was modeled perfectly through God in the form of Jesus. And though none of us can ever show up like Jesus, we can to develop those things in us that need to look more like him.

Our relationship with God is the most important relationship that we can have in our lives.  God is our creator.  He created us in his image.  I believe that even a God so wonderful as ours created us out of his need and love for us.  After he created this wonderful awesome beautiful world even in his majesty I believe he was lonely.  He wanted relationship, he wanted love, he wanted to be needed.  The exact same things we want from our lives and our relationships as humans.  So why wouldn't we develop our deepest most important relationship with the entity, the God that wanted us most and created us out of his love desire and need for us. 

If you see them doing it, if you heard them saying it... you know what you know and yes it happened.  Never allow you to tell them it didn't. 

Gaslighting is a tactic in which a person or entity, in order to gain more power, makes a victim question their reality.

NEVER LOOSE SIGHT OF YOUR REALITY.

Life hits hard.  So hard that we tend to disconnect our feelings from situations to protect our heart and our sanity.  The danger in doing this is that if we continue along this path we'll get to the point where we don't feel anything anymore.  The love and compassion is on lock along with the pain and sorrow.  When life hits you hard feel the pain cry the tears and then hit it back by opening up to hope and compassion.