10 episodes

Thrive Underwater is a podcast about the mental health challenges facing parents of autistic children. Podcast hosts Shani and Autumn discuss these challenges and offers parents of autistic children tools to help our mental health!

Thrive Underwater Shani and Autumn

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Thrive Underwater is a podcast about the mental health challenges facing parents of autistic children. Podcast hosts Shani and Autumn discuss these challenges and offers parents of autistic children tools to help our mental health!

    S2 | E4 THRIVE THE SUMMER- Caregiver Burnout

    S2 | E4 THRIVE THE SUMMER- Caregiver Burnout

    In this episode of Thrive Underwater, Shani and Autumn discuss the challenges facing parents of autistic children during summer break. Even though summer is such a fun time for everyone, the truth is our mental health can take a back seat.







    Shani and Autumn have a conversation about Caregiver Burnout. Though there are many areas where burnout can creep in, these are the 5 discussed in this episode:







    Lack of ResourcesLack of AutonomyCreativity Brain BurnoutTravelMental Load







    BUT, as always, they don’t leave you without some handy tools! Here are the tools discussed:







    Setting your intention for the dayLowering expectationsCreating a creativity cheatsheetCarving out some “me” timeYOU ARE NOT ALONE!







    Thrive Underwater will return in August for more great mental health validation and tools for our fabulous group of parents!







    Happy Summer!







    DON’T Forget to SIGN-UP for our THRIVE UNDERWATER newsletter for the FREE Thrive the Summer printables at our website:   www.thriveunderwater.com







    RESOURCES:







    SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE: 1-800-273-8255 https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox







    WEB MD Article on Burnout: https://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/guide/caregiver-recognizing-burnout







    THRIVE UNDERWATER/HOLIDAY HITLIST Season 1/ Episode 4: https://www.thriveunderwater.com/holiday-hit-list-episode-4/







    Insight Timer Meditation App – https://insighttimer.com/







    Kritin Neff- https://self-compassion.org/







    Email:  thrive@thriveunderwater.com







    Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thrive-underwater/id1589805568







    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0pd40WJSWGXMPSKu2IA0Hi







    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thriveunderwater/







    Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveunderwatercommunity







    Keep on Thriving!

    • 33 min
    S2 | E3 INTERVIEW WITH STEVE CALVERT

    S2 | E3 INTERVIEW WITH STEVE CALVERT

    Thrive Underwater presents Season 2, Episode 3, an interview with Steve Calvert, the father of an autistic son.

    • 56 min
    S2 | E2 IMPOSTER SYNDROME AS A PARENT

    S2 | E2 IMPOSTER SYNDROME AS A PARENT

    Imposter Syndrome happens to the best of us. What if others find out we are not perfect parents?  Though imposter syndrome is not a diagnosable mental health issue, if gone unchecked, it can become a bigger issue.







    SO…how do we catch imposter syndrome before it gets too out of hand? Be aware of the following:







    Inability to realistically assess your skillsTaking the credit or blame for your child’s behaviorBerating your performance/Self-doubtOverachievingSetting Challenging or unreachable goals and feeling disappointed when you fail.







    As always, we give a list of tools to help kick imposter syndrome to the curb!







    Skit for this Episode: The Imposter Zone







    Resources:







    American Psychological Association : https://www.apa.org/gradpsych/2013/11/fraud







    Very Well Mind:  https://www.verywellmind.com/imposter-syndrome-and-social-anxiety-disorder-4156469







    Insight Timer Meditation App - https://insighttimer.com/







    Kritin Neff- https://self-compassion.org/







    Website: www.thriveunderwater.com







     Email:  thrive@thriveunderwater.com







    Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thrive-underwater/id1589805568







    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0pd40WJSWGXMPSKu2IA0Hi







    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thriveunderwater/







    Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveunderwatercommunity







    Keep on Thriving!

    • 56 min
    S2 | E1 KEEP YOUR RESOLUTIONS AND YOUR SH** TOGETHER!

    S2 | E1 KEEP YOUR RESOLUTIONS AND YOUR SH** TOGETHER!

    New Year’s Resolutions suck. At first, your dreams are so inspiring and exciting, but quickly, reality slaps you in the face.







    In this episode, we talk all about strategies to keep those resolutions AND your shit together! Before we can tackle the “how-to,” we must dial in on why we quit in the first place.  







    There are 5 reasons (or excuses) we use for throwing in the towel.







    Our expectations are too highConfidence (or Competence)InterruptionsMental LoadMotivation







    We don’t leave you hanging! We offer some great tools for overcoming these hurdles!







    Skit for this Episode: The Inside STD







    Resources:







    Huberman Lab Podcast: The Science of Setting and Achieving Goals- https://hubermanlab.com/the-science-of-setting-and-achieving-goals/







    The Science of Making and Breaking Habits- https://hubermanlab.com/the-science-of-making-and-breaking-habits/







    Insight Timer Meditation App - https://insighttimer.com/







    Kritin Neff- https://self-compassion.org/







    Porodomo Technique: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique







    Thrive Underwater, “F**k It Bucket” Episode- https://www.thriveunderwater.com/fu-it-bucket-episode-5/







    Website: www.thriveunderwater.com







     Email:  thrive@thriveunderwater.com







    Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thrive-underwater/id1589805568







    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0pd40WJSWGXMPSKu2IA0Hi







    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thriveunderwater/







    Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveunderwatercommunity







    Keep on Thriving!

    • 1 hr 13 min
    S1 | E6 RELATIONSHIPS

    S1 | E6 RELATIONSHIPS

    DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)  









    https://www.thehotline.org/









     Relationships are hard in the best of circumstances. For parents of autistic children, it can be especially difficult. We know, and that is why we are talking ALL about it.







    We break down 6 areas where relationships can derail:







    Attachment Styles







    Money







    Sex/Alone Time







    Parenting Styles







    Running a Household







    Friendships







    Skit for this Episode: OUT OF THE BLUE- Real Romance







    Resources: ATTACHED - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9547888-attached







                         7 PRINCIPLES OF MAKING MARRIAGE WORK - https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0609805797







                         HOLD ME TIGHT - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2153780.Hold_Me_Tight







    Insight Timer Meditation App - https://insighttimer.com/







    Website: www.thriveunderwater.com







     Email:  thrive@thriveunderwater.com







    Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thrive-underwater/id1589805568







    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0pd40WJSWGXMPSKu2IA0Hi







    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thriveunderwater/







    Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveunderwatercommunity







    Keep on Thriving!

    • 1 hr 4 min
    S1 | E5 FU** IT BUCKET

    S1 | E5 FU** IT BUCKET

    STRONG CONTENT WARNING!







    Listen. There is way too much going on in our lives to give a F*** about everything. We know. That’s why in this episode, we are exploring what we, as parents of autistic children, regularly throw into our F*** it Buckets. It is essential for our mental health we prioritize! We only have so much energy in a day, and our mental health depends on us taking action!







    We also discuss how the Spoon theory and our F*** IT Bucket are a match made in heaven!







    Skit for this Episode: The Society Sisters







    Resources: Spoon Theory - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spoon_theory







    Cussing Meditation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnh9NmU_oKc







    Handwriting Benefits - https://vanillapapers.net/2019/07/29/9-powerful-benefits-writing-by-hand/







    5, 4, 3, 2, 1 Countdown - https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/5-4-3-2-1-countdown-to-make-anxiety-blast-off







    Insight Timer Meditation App - https://insighttimer.com/







    Website: www.thriveunderwater.com







    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thriveunderwater/







    Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveunderwatercommunity







    Keep on Thriving!

    • 41 min

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