11 min

20. Lazy? Unproductive? Stuck? How to Love Your Lowest Self Questions You'll Wish You Asked

    • Society & Culture

If you struggle with changing your life, today’s episode is for you.

Maybe you want to get in shape, change careers, leave (or find) a relationship. Maybe you want a clean house or a well-behaved child or to actually finish writing that book.

You might tell people that these are things you want, you might even snip out pictures and put them on a vision board or write about them in a journal - but are you acting like someone who wants that thing?

Are you sacrificing your chillaxing time to meal prep, or dealing with the discomfort of giving your kid consequences?

Are you waking up early to type that manuscript, or going out on awkward dates to try and find that relationship?

No?

If you’re not, do you feel like crap about this? Do you sit with not just the weight of an unachieved life, but also the shame of knowing that you SHOULD be doing that thing, or being that person, but you’re just NOT?

If you’re in a space where you’re executing goals and changing the landscape of your life – rock on. Those seasons are incredible.

But ya know what other seasons are incredible? The ones where we meet ourselves exactly where we’re at.

The seasons where we decide we’re not gonna hate ourselves for NOT being productive, brave, or ambitious.

How do we actually do that? Listen to today’s episode to find out.

Notes from today:

Order “The Questions You’ll Wish You Asked” here:
https://www.followyourfirecoaching.com/questionsyoullwishyouasked

Set up a discovery session at the bottom of this page:
https://www.followyourfirecoaching.com/melissa-pennel-life-coach

Lastly: go watch “In & Of Itself” on Hulu right now. Don’t read anything about it first. You’ll thank me later.

**

Stay in touch with me (and hear more about how to live your greatest life) at the links below.

www.followyourfirecoaching.com/
Contact Melissa Pennel at Followyourfire@gmail.com
Join my email list here: eepurl.com/dr3Afz
Join the Follow Your Fire Facebook group here: www.facebook.com/groups/116244026470651/

Keep following your fires, my peaches.

If you struggle with changing your life, today’s episode is for you.

Maybe you want to get in shape, change careers, leave (or find) a relationship. Maybe you want a clean house or a well-behaved child or to actually finish writing that book.

You might tell people that these are things you want, you might even snip out pictures and put them on a vision board or write about them in a journal - but are you acting like someone who wants that thing?

Are you sacrificing your chillaxing time to meal prep, or dealing with the discomfort of giving your kid consequences?

Are you waking up early to type that manuscript, or going out on awkward dates to try and find that relationship?

No?

If you’re not, do you feel like crap about this? Do you sit with not just the weight of an unachieved life, but also the shame of knowing that you SHOULD be doing that thing, or being that person, but you’re just NOT?

If you’re in a space where you’re executing goals and changing the landscape of your life – rock on. Those seasons are incredible.

But ya know what other seasons are incredible? The ones where we meet ourselves exactly where we’re at.

The seasons where we decide we’re not gonna hate ourselves for NOT being productive, brave, or ambitious.

How do we actually do that? Listen to today’s episode to find out.

Notes from today:

Order “The Questions You’ll Wish You Asked” here:
https://www.followyourfirecoaching.com/questionsyoullwishyouasked

Set up a discovery session at the bottom of this page:
https://www.followyourfirecoaching.com/melissa-pennel-life-coach

Lastly: go watch “In & Of Itself” on Hulu right now. Don’t read anything about it first. You’ll thank me later.

**

Stay in touch with me (and hear more about how to live your greatest life) at the links below.

www.followyourfirecoaching.com/
Contact Melissa Pennel at Followyourfire@gmail.com
Join my email list here: eepurl.com/dr3Afz
Join the Follow Your Fire Facebook group here: www.facebook.com/groups/116244026470651/

Keep following your fires, my peaches.

11 min

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