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8000 Promises: Cycle Breaking and World Changing through Reflection, Insight and Transformation Adi Tilford
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Adi Tilford, a Jesus-led educator and writer, interviews guests and shares reflective writing as way to intentionally respond with compassion to this complex world. As a survivor of childhood trauma, learning along the way cycle breaker and starting small world changer, Adi invites listeners to discover the invitation to create a life you long to live. Each series is designed to help you reflect on an important topic so that you can make meaning and open yourself to spiritual, mental and life transformations that lead to repair and wholehearted living. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adi-tilford/support
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The Friendship & Attachment Grapple with Spencer Owen
In this conversation, Adi Tilford and Spencer Owen discuss unexpected friendships that formed during the COVID-19 pandemic and the challenges of making and maintaining friendships. They explore the idea of reconstructing religion for those who have experienced spiritual trauma and the need for trauma-informed theology. They discuss the division and polarization in society and the role of the church in promoting love and unity. They also touch on the importance of setting realistic expectations in friendships and the need for inner work and attachment healing. The conversation explores the importance of secure attachment and feedback loops in building healthy relationships. It emphasizes the need for individuals to feel safe within themselves and with God in order to form secure attachments with others. The discussion also highlights the idea that God not only loves us but also likes us, and that building a secure sense of self starts with our relationship with God. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the importance of play and rest in our lives.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and COVID-19 Friendship Stories
07:48 The Challenges of Division and Animosity
14:00 Grapples with Friendship and Loneliness
21:27 The Biblical Perspective on Friendship and Acceptance
26:37 Attachment Styles and Realistic Expectations
29:15 The Importance of Inner Work and Therapy
35:22 Building Secure Attachments and Feeling Safe
45:45 Understanding God's Love and Liking for Us
56:28 The Transformative Power of Felt Safety
01:06:12 Play as a Spiritual Practice and Joining God in His Work
01:09:24 Introduction and Podcast Announcement
01:11:04 Reconstructing Religion for the Hurting
01:11:33 A Trauma-Informed Perspective on the Bible
01:12:01 Ending Each Episode with Clarity and Understanding
Keywords: podcast, support, friendship, trauma-informed, theology, division, unity, expectations, inner work, attachment healing, secure attachment, feedback loops, safety, relationship with God, play, rest
You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling
Watch the Live Video of this Conversation on Facebook
More from Spencer:
The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
Grapple with Forgiveness with Spencer Owen
Grappling with Dreams and Desires and their Fulfillment with Spencer Owen
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
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How to be friends beyond faith differences: A Christian and Agnostic Talk Friendship (S7:E80)
In this episode of '8,000 Promises,' Casey returns for his fourth conversation. Adi, the Christian, and Casey, the Agnostic, delve into the complexities of friendship across differing religious beliefs, exploring whether Christians and agnostics can maintain authentic relationships. They humorously dissect Biblical stories, discuss respectful dialogues, and share personal insights on living out faith authentically. The episode also teases an upcoming discussion on rest and Sabbath before taking a brief hiatus.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Goal
00:40 Discussing Conversion and Friendship
02:30 Respect in Interfaith Friendships
06:12 Living Out Faith Authentically
12:44 Challenges of Understanding Religious Texts
21:09 Humorous Take on Biblical Stories
22:09 The Beloved Disciple and the Race
22:46 Jesus and the Adulterous Woman
24:00 Debate on Ancestry and Divinity
26:05 Heavenly Reflections and Humor
28:19 Crafting Comedy from Scripture
31:38 The Bro Voice and Pop Culture
35:23 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Topics
Keywords: Friendship, Podcasting, Religious belief / Christianity, ConversionAuthentic conversations, Humor / Comedy, Jesus and scripture, Friendship dynamics, Podcasting about faith, Christian podcasts,Exploring conversion in modern faith, Authentic friendships across beliefs, Humor in religious conversations, Jesus in modern storytelling, Faith-based discussions, Religious belief clash, Christian teachings, Agnostic perspectives, Interfaith friendships
8KP Episodes with Casey (Our 8KP Cynic)
From Football to Family:Casey’s (Our 8KP Cynic) Dream Evolution - Series 6
Sitting with a Cynic: A Christian and an Agnostic Figure out Forgiveness (Or do they?) - Series 5
A Christian and an Agnostic Walk into a Bar… Sitting with a Cynic - Series 4
Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
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From Sibling Rivalry to Satisfying Sisterhood: Friendship with ‘Word with the Girls’ (S:7, E:79)
This episode of 8000 Promises features the Evans sisters—Molly, Emily, and Abby—co-hosts of the podcast 'Word with the Girls'. They discuss the dynamics of their sisterly friendship, unexpected friendships formed through life experiences, and how their podcast fosters deeper conversations and relationships. The sisters share insights on how to nurture sibling relationships, addressing challenges in different life seasons, and the importance of creating safe relational spaces. They also discuss summer plans focused on play and reconnecting with both nature and important people in their lives.
00:00 Welcome to 8,000 Promises with the Evans Sisters
01:11 Unexpected Friendships: Molly's Story
03:09 Unexpected Friendships: Emily's Story
04:53 Unexpected Friendships: Abby's Story
07:07 Getting to Know the Evans Sisters
14:07 Defining Friendship and Sibling Bonds
27:44 Navigating Friendship in Different Life Seasons
29:35 Navigating Disappointment in Friendships
30:27 Therapy and Values in Friendships
30:56 Motherhood and Friendships
31:23 Defining Friendship Expectations
32:39 Vulnerability and Depth in Friendships
34:36 Challenges of Finding Community
35:31 Military Life and Community
37:38 Building Deep Connections
48:39 Podcasting and Strengthening Bonds
54:04 Summer Plans and Play
Other Resources:
Steven Furtick on Breaking Mental Barriers, Working Out, and Embracing Your Strengths on the Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast
8KP Episode 54: He’s Always Been Faithful with Guest Writer Molly Evans
You can listen to A Word With the Girls podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/4ma45liWALp3Wv904OxjQb?si=0zAvMlBzRti2xrUO3p6F9Q
Watch our podcast
https://youtube.com/@awordwiththegirls?si=w5JowvjnprYqYknh
IG accounts here
Molly @missmollyviolet
Word With the Girls
Emily @keepmovingwithemily
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
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Embracing Friendship: Overcoming Fear and Finding Joy with Ondi Mejia and Nancy Neufeld (S:7, E:78)
In this episode of 8000 Promises' the focus is on friendship and community. Adi Tilford and her friends Ondi and Nancy, discuss their personal journeys and insights on establishing and maintaining meaningful connections. Ondi, a mother and writer, shares her proactive approach to building friendships, while Nancy, who has faced challenges with social anxiety, speaks candidly about her experiences and progress. The conversation also explores the definitions of friendship and community, the value of consistent engagement, and how these relationships contribute to personal healing. The episode concludes with a discussion on the importance of play and how each plans to incorporate it into their summer.
00:00 Introduction to the Episode
00:43 Meet the Guests: Ondi and Nancy
04:35 Unexpected Friendships
08:55 Defining Friendship and Community
10:40 Engaging in Community
20:17 Personal Challenges in Building Friendships
23:28 Struggles with Social Anxiety
24:48 Ted's Influence and Overcoming Fear
28:01 The Role of Consistency and Community
29:34 Healing Through Relationships
38:15 The Spiritual Discipline of Playing
42:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Keywords: friendship, community, engage,investment in friendships, unexpected friendships, healing through friendships, spirituality and friendships
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To hear more about Heavenly Hustle or read more things like you just heard visit www.abideandwrite.com, or follow along with me on Instagram: @abideandwrite, or Facebook: Abide & Write.
8KP Episodes with Ondi:
Little Yeses Go A Long Way - Season 1
Surprise: God’s Promise for Friendship - Season 2
Your Words Defeat the Enemy (Ignite Insight) - Series 4
From Childhood Dreams to Heavenly Hustle: A Father-Daughter Dialogue with Ondi Mejia and Peter Foster - Series 6
You can connect with Nancy on instagram at my.unphotoshopped.life and on Tiktok at my.unphotoshopped.life and on her website https://myunphotoshoppedlife.com/
8KP Episodes with Nancy:
You are Not as Bad as You Think Because God is Better than you Know - Season 2
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Additional Resources Mentioned:
Invitation to a Journey by Robert Mulholland
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On Friendship: From Sparkling Cider to Spiritual Wisdom with the Nerdy Bible Girls (S7:E77)
Join Adi Tilford, along with her Nerdy Bible Girls co-hosts Tiff Haithley and Jamie Adams, as they dive into a heartfelt discussion on unexpected friendships, the lessons they bring, and the importance of being present in each other's lives. In this episode, they share personal stories of unlikely connections and reflect on maintaining meaningful relationships amidst life's chaos.
Introduction: Welcoming Words
Prayer and Purpose
Unexpected Friendships
Jayme's Tale: Virginia, the Retired Nun
Tiff's Unexpected Friendship
Adi's Story: Wylene, the Elder Mentor
Insights on Friendships and Grieving
Jesus, Friendships, and Compassion
Maintaining and Letting Go
The Depth of Presence
Season of Play
Conclusion: The Value of Friendship
Keywords: friendship, unexpected friendships, growth, change, grieving, letting go, joy, pain, losses, grief, healing, joy, friendship, pain, testimony, play, balance, vulnerability
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Want to connect with Jayme? Email her at Jaymeadams22@gmail.com
What about Tiff? Give her a follow and DM her on instagram! @tiffanyhaifleywriter,
Buy Mrs. Poppish’s Pickles: Barnes and Noble, Amazon
https://www.tiffanyhaifley.com/
Resources Mentioned:
Christine Caine clip about friendship
Parker Palmer- Let Your Life Speak
Do the New You by Stephen Furtick
You have a Stunning Capacity to Do Hard Things! Sadie Robertson Huff & Katherine Wolf
Through the Eyes of a Lion: Facing Impossible Pain, Finding Incredible Power by Levi Lusco
More Nerdy Bible Girl Episodes:
Intro to the Nerdy Bible Girls
Amplify: God Sees & Hears Every ONE
Unpacking Forgiveness: A Journey with the Nerdy Bible Girls
These Dreams We Have: Faith, Dreams and Real Life with the Nerdy Bible Girls S6:E:68
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Born to be Queen Part III: The Golden Crown, A Therapeutic Story by Adi Tilford
In this episode, Adi Tilford shares the third and final part of the therapeutic story called 'Born to be Queen'. The story follows a woman who learns valuable lessons from a gardener after a childhood marked by unwanted experiences in the desert. In part III, the woman embarks on a journey through the desert, facing her fears and discovering her true identity. She eventually finds the golden crown she was given at birth and realizes that she was born to be queen. Adi Tilford also mentions upcoming episodes on the topic of friendship.
Keywords: therapeutic story, healing, Jesus, ministry, life on earth, identity, journey, desert, fear, truth, crown, queen, friendship
If you need to listen:
Part I: The Lost Crown
Part II: Born to Be Queen
Want to Read It: 8000 Promises Blog
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adi-tilford/support
Customer Reviews
Highly Recommend!
First of all, this is a clean podcast I can listen to around my family (and since trauma is sometimes a topic of conversation in our home, my children chime in to share in the truth addressed in these episodes when in ear shot). Regarding the content, Adi addresses diverse topics, exposing her audience to authors, experts, and guests whose experience and professions bring conversation that promote healing. While the power and detail of our stories is valuable, Adi is sensitive to her listeners and protects them from triggering information while still engaging in hard topics. As the host, she shows empathy, humility and genuine care about each topic and guest. Love it!
Refreshing and honest
Adi and her guests have real conversations about things you have probably wondered about yourself. She’s not afraid of tackling difficult topics, with sensitivity and compassion.
Great listen even if you’re not Christian
I must admit that I am very apprehensive to listen to most podcasts that have a religious theme, but this podcast is a really great listen even if you’re not Christian. Adrea is a fantastic host who brings in great guests to discuss hard subjects to talk about. There’s a great flow to the show and each episode gives the listener great personal stories to help them reflect on their own personal journey. Would highly recommend to Christian’s and non-Christian’s alike.
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