1 hr 30 min
All Things Polyamory Q&A | A Conversation With My Husband Live Your F*ck Yes Life
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- Self-Improvement
Is monogamy the only way to build a conscious, loving and lifelong relationship?
I used to believe it was the only way. But as you know, as I shared in episode 101, after 8 years together, both Kev and I moved away from the monogamous framework and stepped into the ethical non monogamous space two years ago.
I know that people have MANY strong feelings around this (and it makes sense! Monogamy is what our society is built around and I definitely had my fair share of concerns and shame spiral around even the thought of considering it for years before we moved in that direction), and I’ve been getting LOADS of questions in my Instagram DMs so I decided to bring on a super special guest — my incredibly goofy and wonderful husband — to dig into what our unique journey into polyamory has looked like.
We are certainly not experts when it comes to polyamory, ethical non monogamy or relationships — you can listen to a bunch of previous podcast episodes around relationships, sex and beyond from the experts — but I do think that almost 10 years of going through the shit with a human entitles us to have some shit to say that’s worth sharing. And hell, we are certainly experts on OUR unique individual experiences in the world of ethical non monogamy and polyamory.
And today on the podcast, we deep dive into some pretty dense topics around relationship longevity, health and beyond and I am THE MOST excited to share this conversation with you all.
Things we discuss on todays episode:
Kevans’ unique perspective around why polyamory and ENM feels aligned for him
How we opened the door to transition from YEARS of monogamy and how we ended up identifying as polyamorous
The difference between affairs/cheating and non monogamy
The multiple umbrellas of non monogamy: swinging, polyamory etc.
Attraction and relationship preferences are a spectrum as much as sexuality & gender is
A deep dive into some of the ups and downs of this journey, both as individuals and as a couple
ENM terms like unicorn hunting, triad vs. throuple, nesting/anchor partner, non hierarchical vs. hierarchical polyamory
Navigating jealousy and insecurities we’ve both experienced in our journey
Boundaries, communication and agreements & the path to figure that shit out being MESSY AF
All things fantasy/kink, how polyamory isn’t really so different than monogamy, ridiculous banter between the two of us and so much more.
Is monogamy the only way to build a conscious, loving and lifelong relationship?
I used to believe it was the only way. But as you know, as I shared in episode 101, after 8 years together, both Kev and I moved away from the monogamous framework and stepped into the ethical non monogamous space two years ago.
I know that people have MANY strong feelings around this (and it makes sense! Monogamy is what our society is built around and I definitely had my fair share of concerns and shame spiral around even the thought of considering it for years before we moved in that direction), and I’ve been getting LOADS of questions in my Instagram DMs so I decided to bring on a super special guest — my incredibly goofy and wonderful husband — to dig into what our unique journey into polyamory has looked like.
We are certainly not experts when it comes to polyamory, ethical non monogamy or relationships — you can listen to a bunch of previous podcast episodes around relationships, sex and beyond from the experts — but I do think that almost 10 years of going through the shit with a human entitles us to have some shit to say that’s worth sharing. And hell, we are certainly experts on OUR unique individual experiences in the world of ethical non monogamy and polyamory.
And today on the podcast, we deep dive into some pretty dense topics around relationship longevity, health and beyond and I am THE MOST excited to share this conversation with you all.
Things we discuss on todays episode:
Kevans’ unique perspective around why polyamory and ENM feels aligned for him
How we opened the door to transition from YEARS of monogamy and how we ended up identifying as polyamorous
The difference between affairs/cheating and non monogamy
The multiple umbrellas of non monogamy: swinging, polyamory etc.
Attraction and relationship preferences are a spectrum as much as sexuality & gender is
A deep dive into some of the ups and downs of this journey, both as individuals and as a couple
ENM terms like unicorn hunting, triad vs. throuple, nesting/anchor partner, non hierarchical vs. hierarchical polyamory
Navigating jealousy and insecurities we’ve both experienced in our journey
Boundaries, communication and agreements & the path to figure that shit out being MESSY AF
All things fantasy/kink, how polyamory isn’t really so different than monogamy, ridiculous banter between the two of us and so much more.
1 hr 30 min