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Art of Spousing is for marriages that what to move from being mundane to becoming masterpiece relationships. Hosts James and Lisa Duvall share truths and lessons learned from their 30 years of marriage and over a decade of teaching, coaching, and speaking on marriage.

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    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 5.0 • 29 Ratings

Art of Spousing is for marriages that what to move from being mundane to becoming masterpiece relationships. Hosts James and Lisa Duvall share truths and lessons learned from their 30 years of marriage and over a decade of teaching, coaching, and speaking on marriage.

    Trust Builders & Busters in a Marriage Relationship

    Trust Builders & Busters in a Marriage Relationship

    In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships.  The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesHope Ride For FreedomSponsor James for Hope Ride '24Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.
    Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousing
    Other episodes mentioned:From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle GrahamShifting Gears for CommunicationConflict: The Opportunity for Unity10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    • 27 min
    From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham

    From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham

    In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage.

    Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. 

    Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples.
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterWalking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing")
    Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman
    The Noble Marriage Resources:Website: thenoblemarriage.comIG: @thenoblemarriageFB: thenoblemarriageYT: thenoblemarriage
    Connect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    • 34 min
    10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

    10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

    In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage.
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesCues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication
    Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousing
    Other episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of Spousing
    Connect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.
    Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!

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    • 22 min
    Greg & Julie Gorman: Tools for Couplepreneurs

    Greg & Julie Gorman: Tools for Couplepreneurs

    In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
    COUPLEPRENEUR
    Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanGreg and Julie Gorman
    Married For a Purpose Resources:Website: marriedforapurpose.comIG: @marriedforapurposeFB: marriedforapurpose
    Books:What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving MarriageMarried for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for CouplesTwo Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your MarriageWhat I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About MenGentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms
    Connect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    • 34 min
    Season Four Preview

    Season Four Preview

    Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead.
    James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing.
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
    Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousing
    Other episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of Spousing
    Connect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.
    Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!

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    • 18 min
    Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

    Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

    Welcome to the Art of Spousing Podcast! We're thrilled to have you here as we dive into today's topic: in-laws, or as we like to call them, "in-loves." This is a significant aspect of marriage that requires careful navigation and setting boundaries.
    In this episode, we'll share practical strategies to strengthen your relationship with your in-laws and create a harmonious family dynamic. We believe that by implementing these strategies, you can foster a loving and supportive environment that allows your marriage to thrive.
    First and foremost, setting boundaries is crucial. We'll guide you through the process of discussing and agreeing on boundaries with your spouse, including visits, holiday plans, and involvement in major decisions. By establishing clear expectations, you can maintain a healthy balance between your in-laws' influence and your own married life.
    Navigating relationships with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, but patience and understanding are key. We'll share insights on practicing empathy and seeing things from their perspective. By approaching these relationships with love and respect, you can build a strong foundation for lasting connections.
    We'll also discuss the importance of presenting a united front with your spouse when dealing with in-law issues. Together, you'll learn effective communication strategies for addressing concerns and finding common ground. We'll provide practical tips for maintaining a positive outlook and appreciating the unique contributions your in-laws bring to your life.
    Throughout this episode, we'll emphasize the significance of seeking God's guidance in your relationship with your in-laws. We'll explore the power of prayer, wisdom, and forgiveness as essential components of building healthy and thriving connections.
    Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast. If you find this content valuable, please share it with others who may benefit from it. Don't forget to rate and review our podcast to help us reach more listeners like you. Stay connected and continue nurturing your marriage to new heights. Until next time!
    Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
    Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousing
    Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting Practising the Art of Spousing
    Connect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com
    Website: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

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    • 23 min

Customer Reviews

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29 Ratings

29 Ratings

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Rock stars!

I love this podcast and these precious people! The content is so good and so practical. God’s truth is woven through every episode! Love it! Thank you!!

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The real deal!

Just met this couple and they rock! Their podcast is filled with down to earth practical hints and hacks to a better marriage. Don’t let their youthful appearance fool you! With close to 30 years of experience they know what is involved in The Art of Spousing!

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James and Lisa drop some great marriage pearls of wisdom in a fun and authentic way. You get a real sense for who they are as a couple as well as an opportunity to gain some practical tips for your own marriage.

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