Bawdy Storytelling Dixie De La Tour

Today Double Teamed Podcast's Cami & Niki talk about their recent journeys with kink & power exchanges, along with answering some listener questions centered around prioritizing partners, restructuring FWBs, and letting someone know how you feel. Hope you enjoy!
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Have you ever thought about Eroticizing your Coulrophobia? Author, Educator and ‘Super Nova of Kink’ Midori offers a masterclass in negotiation to a fan and young clown fetishist - and this fear scene will give you the willies! As Midori and her lucky pupil Ron don their rainbow wigs & giant clown shoes and prepare to co-top 2 eager submissives in the Shibari conference’s dungeon, she teaches him the importance of creativity and clear boundaries. Spoiler Alert: What’s the secret to surprising your victims at a Shibari conference? Don’t use Rope. #Shibari #RopeBondage #ClownScene
 
Song: ’Funhouse’ (Pink)
 
Kink l Dungeon | Clown l Rope Bondage l Shibari l Balloon Cage l Feminine Dominance l l Kink Event | Consent Conversation l Assumptions l Topping l Dynamic Rope l Clown Co-Top l Negotiation l Interrogation l Rainbow Wig l Kimono | Negotiator l Fear of Clowns l It l Mirror l Fellate l Play Piercing l Medical Supplies l Needles l Negotiation Masterclass l Laughter l Fish l Clown Makeup l Japanese l Whip Cream l Scare l Fear Scene l Mindfuck l
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Trailblazing educator, sexologist, artist, and irritant to banality, Midori founded Rope Dojo and ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Intensive. She penned the first English instruction book on Shibari titled, "Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage" in 2001, paving the way to the popularity of rope. Dan Savage calls her the "Super Nova of Kink," while others affectionately call her Auntie Midori for her cool, tell-it-like-it-is, funny, reality-based teaching. She is also the author of "Wild Side Sex," "Master Han's Daughter," and "Silk Threads.” She also does Creative Living Coaching and Private Sexological Consultations, and has the BEST Patreon in existence. 
 
Midori’s Links:
 
You can learn, laugh and enjoy her special online classes, events and art at www.patreon.com/PlanetMidori
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MidoriReallyMidori
Creative Living Coaching and Private Sexological Consultations: ask@planetmidori.com
Classes, articles, art, events - currently all on www.patreon.com/planetmidori FetLife: Midori IG: @PlanetMidori
Twitter: @PlanetMidori Episode links:
 
LIVE EVENT: We’re BACK in San Francisco on Friday, September 22nd, kicking off Folsom Street Fair Weekend with a 2-Show K!nktacular! True Stories from Race Bannon, Mollena Williams - Haas, #ProTip: You can See BOTH SHOWS with the 2 Show Ticket! (available thru either link)
 
On Friday, September 22nd in San Francisco:
• At 7 PM: a Curated MainStage Bawdy Storytelling at 7 PM - with legends like Mollena Williams - Haas, Race Bannon, McKenning Wood, Phoenix Mandel, and music by Kat Robichaud of Misfit Cabaret.
Tickets for our (Curated) Bawdy Storytelling on Friday, 9/22 at 7 PM:  
https://tinyurl.com/BawdyFolsom
 
At 10 PM, it’s BawdySlam, where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 minute K!nky Story for Fun & Prizes.  Tickets for BawdySlam at 10 PM: https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamFolsom
 
WORKSHOP:
‘How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling’ is now a One Day Workshop, and it’s happening in 2 weeks. This Live and In-Person Storytelling Workshop is happening on Sunday, October 1st in SOMA, San Francisco. Dixie will teach you her incredibly easy method to rock that job interviews, excel at public speaking, to feel more at ease on dates, and stand onstage and deliver a standing ovation worthy chapter from your life. This method is so valuable, because once you learn how, you’ll know the secret Forever.
Only 2 spots left so Register Now at
https://HTBFInPersonSF.eventbrite.com
 
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PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I’m offe

Are you doing it wrong forever, or just wrong tonight? Hillbilly Drag Queen Jubilee confesses to being a ‘Lily dippin, fairy flipping, dick kissin’ gay boy’ - but before that, she was Joe, a Midwestern Fraternity President who majored in HomoSuppression. But when a series of Southern Comfort-soaked college hookups go astray, Jubilee learns to accept her true sexual identity to finally become the flamboyantly real Drag Persona who stands on Bawdy’s stage. And Dixie talks Touring the Live Show, learning to use ChatGPT, and getting an in-person dose of Body Positivity at a Big Fat Pool Party.
 
Song: ’Drag Queens & Limosines’ (Mary Gauthier)
 
Drag l Power Dynamics | Sorority Sister l Fraternity Brother l Safety l Losing Your Virginity l Hollywood Lied l | Carrie Underwood l Slut-Shaming l AfterCare l Respect l Cheating | Gatorade Vodka l Women’s Pleasure l Church / Steeple | Ballerina l Femme Fatale l Boss Bitch l Gay l Lesbian l Queer l Peach Schnapps l Menstruation l Esophagus Technique l Dorms l Freshman l Be Yourself l Boat Shoes l Magic l
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Jubilee is the most creative, funniest, highest-kicking hillbilly drag queen in San Francisco. She’s won titles such as Miss Cowgirl 2022 and Oaklash’s Worst Dressed 2019. She starred in the critically acclaimed stage shows Harry Poofter and the Sorcerer’s Rhinestone and Harry Poofter and the Chamber of Secretions.

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Remember, new customers get $5 off Lume’s Starter Pack with code DIXIE at https://lumedeodorant.com/
 
 
LIVE SHOWS: We’re kicking off Folsom Street Fair Weekend with a 2-Show K!nktacular!
 
7 PM: a Curated MainStage Bawdy Storytelling at 7 PM - with legends like Mollena Williams - Haas, Race Bannon and more, and music by Kat Robichaud of Misfit Cabaret:
 
Tickets for our (Curated) Bawdy Storytelling on Friday, 9/22 at 7 PM:  
https://tinyurl.com/BawdyFolsom
 
10 PM: Followed by BawdySlam, where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 minute K!nky Story for Fun & Prizes. 
 
Tickets for BawdySlam at 10 PM: https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamFolsom
 
#ProTip: You can See BOTH SHOWS with a 2 Show Ticket! (available thru either link)
 
Dixie’s Live and In-Person Storytelling Workshop: is happening on Sunday, October 1st in SOMA, San Francisco. Dixie will teach you her incredibly easy method to blueprint your words to prepare for job interviews, public speaking, to feel more at ease on dates, and best of all, to stand on stage and deliver a standing ovation worthy piece of your life. Once you learn how, you’ll know the secret Forever!
Only 4 spots left so Register Now at
https://HTBFInPersonSF.eventbrite.com
 
PRIVATE COACHING: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I’m offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discove

Would you fly 3000 miles for ‘strange’ sex? Kinky, queer, poly sex educator Trixie Lamonte loves anonymous sex, but they’re way too social and know too many people - a one night stand won’t work at home. So this frustrated extrovert decides to travel across the country to visit a brand new city with a high-ranked queer nightclub, and just to be safe, dons a disguise. Things are working out: Genderqueer hotties on the dance floor? Check. An invite to hook up with a nonbinary supermodel? YES! It’s all going well until someone blows their cover…. #GayestOfTheGay #ProstethicVsBio
 
Song: ’Body was Made’ (Ezra Furman)
 
Queer l Trans | NonBinary | Resilient Identity l Anonymous Sex l Travel l Myers-Briggs l Grindr l Scruff | Bumble l Hinge l Gay Male l Femme l Gender Neutral Bathroom | David Bowie l Lady Gaga l Safer Sex | Roleplay l Bat Mitzvah l Restraints l Body Parts l 90’s Music l Queer Nightclub l Spice Girls l Squirting l Nipple Clamps l Bio Cock l Energizer Bunny l Switch l Building Community l
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Trixie Lamonte is a rebel in the streets and freak in the sheets: Professional sex educator, workshop facilitator, performer, writer, ritualist, relationship and confidence coach, inspirational speaker, and host of Gender Blender play parties. Trixie is well known for shaking their ass for justice, rebel rousing gender norms, and being delightfully playful. Trixie's work has taken them all over the US and internationally with a focus on intersectionality, commitment to working from a liberation lens, and creating communities across diverse cultural backgrounds. Trixie is proud to be kinky, queer, poly, and fabulous. Trixie infuses joy and creativity into all aspects of life. You can find out more at www.polyexcellent.com   

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Bawdy Storytelling is BACK! We're kicking off Folsom Street Fair Weekend with a 2-Show K!nktacular: A big curated rockstar Bawdy Storytelling at 7 PM (check out that lineup!) followed by BawdySlam at 10 PM - where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 minute K!nky Story for Fun & Prizes. 
Spread the word, y;all!
 
Tickets for our (curated) Bawdy Storytelling:  https://tinyurl.com/BawdyFolsom
Tickets for BawdySlam: https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamFolsom
 
See BOTH SHOWS with a 2 Show Ticket! (available thru either link)
 
Alert: A recent Patreon financial glitch really hurt us (a glitch meant that some creators - like Bawdy - lost up to 20% of their patrons. Help us keep Bawdy going: Please consider a donation (of any amount) to Patreon or through a one-time donation. Bouncing back from the Pandemic is a tough battle but we’re still here, and we hope to keep producing, archiving and sharing these true stories with you for a long, long time.
Every dollar you send keeps us going, please help.
 
Our donation links are:
 
BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy
Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling
Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling
Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour
And THANK YOU!
 
And Patreon members will get free livestream tickets to our upcoming live shows in San Franciso at the $10/month level - and as a Bawdy Patreon member, your ongoing membership ensures that Bawdy can continue. Join Bawdy

Do you believe that over-the-knee spankings are the lubricant of sexual discipline? Father Ebenezer Johnson breaks the seal of confession to tell us the story of Amy, a friend whose lifelong fantasies feature religious roleplay, Gregorian chants, and the catholic clergy. Will this elaborate Exorcist-inspired scene absolve Amy’s sins? And Dixie’s summertime work/play celebration this week involved a roadtrip (in Edna the Minivan) to Sex Geek Summer Camp. Was it worth 28 hours behind the wheel? #SisterGertrude #BirthdayGift #Sinner #Saint #BaseInstincts #SeduceTheGardener
 
Song: ’The Origin of Love’ (Mika)
 
Religious Roleplay l Institute of Higher Learning | Spiritual Orgasm | God’s Gift l Priest Frock l Vessel of God l Sexual Discipline l Theological Sexual Positions | College l Coed l Expelled | God’s Perfection l Fantasy l Craigslist Casual Encounters | Russian l Thorn Birds l The Exorcist l Fight the AntiChrist l Casual Sex l True Love l Open Relationship l Gregorian Chants l Spanking l Break Character l Upcoming Tour l Sex Geek Summer Camp l Thought Leader l
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Father Ebenezer Johnson was born and raised in Sodom, Alabama, and is a professor for the Department of Religion Sexual Development and Implementation at St. Christopher's College in Gomorrah, Utah.
 
His book, "Did Mary Have A Spiritual Orgasm Birthing Jesus?" is a best seller. He has an advanced degree in theological sexual positions, and has been on the cover of Undressed Priests three times (so far).

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KEEP THIS PODCAST GOING: Are you a fan of Bawdy Storytelling’s podcast and live shows? Please consider a donation (of any amount) to Bawdy. Don’t let the censors win…it’s been a tough battle and it’s still going but we’re still here, and we hope to be producing, archiving and sharing these true stories with you for a long, long time.
Every dollar sent helps Dixie and her team continue this very important work. #DontLetThemEraseUs
 
Our donation links are:
 
BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy
Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling
Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling
Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour
And THANK YOU!
 
What’s the Best way to support Bawdy? It’s through our Patreon. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your ongoing membership ensures that Bawdy can continue. Join Bawdy’s Patreon now and you’ll get exclusive Patreon-only content, and my eternal gratitude. Become a Member now at
https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy
 
My forthcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at
https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe
 
What is Substack?
Substack is an email newsletter platform (made up of text, audio, video, etc) known for its hands off approach to censorship. While there are still some publishing guidelines (no porn, hate speech or harassment, for example), the platform’s lack of gatekeeping has attracted both ground-breaking journalists and some seriously controversial writers”. https://blog.hootsuite.com/what-is-substack/
 
Enroll for my next storytelling workshop! Get on our mailing list now to find out when registration opens:
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PRIVATE COACHING: Want to work one-on-one with me? I’m currently helping people to develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, write book outlines, and even coaching for personal branding. I want to help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about! I can help you communicate with clarity, give you the framework to ace that intimidating interview (and land your dream job), discover your own story (many people say working with me is faster and more effective than therapy)… Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, We’ve got this. I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let’s make it happen!

What would compel a kinkster to become electrified in the bedroom (and Is vaginal lubricant conductive)? Queer Poet & Storyteller Blythe Baldwin loves Electrical Play, although Violet Wands are way out of her budget. But when her girlfriend demands some ‘really serious nipple clamps’, Blythe stumbles across a more affordable e-stim device online. Soon Blythe and her girlfriend are shocked and surprised, and their new toy delivers the warm champagne tingles and knifelike zaps of their dreams. Taco already! Plus an embarrassed Dixie learns something new about in-person events and makes an emergency trip to the Fire Department - and the sexy firemen there teach her a thing or two about lube and a tiny, tiny cousin to the Jaws of Life. #CradleIt #Safeword #AppleProductFromHell
 
Song: ’Danger! High Voltage’ (Electric Six)
 
Queer | Lesbian l Electricity l LGBTQIA+ l e-Stim l Violet Wand | Kink | Shock | Lacrosse l Sensation Play | JT’s Stockroom l BDSM l Nipple Clamps l Young Frankenstein l Neon Wand l Sports Medicine l Catcher l Rimming l Spooning l True Love l Trans Rights l Shut Up and Write l Buzz l Edna the MiniVan l Body Image l Zap | Body Contact Probe | Glass Electrodes l Submissive l Wartenberg Wheel l Ozone l Safeword l Lube l Buttplug l Vibrator l Dave Matthews l Conductive l Nipple Piercing l
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Blythe Baldwin is a poet, storyteller, community organizer, and film maker living in Oakland, California.  She has participated in LitQuake's LitCrawl and has performed slam poetry and storytelling for 12 years throughout the Bay Area and beyond.  Blythe has spun yarns at several storytelling events in the Bay Area including: The Shout, Story Showdown, and Bawdy Storytelling.  

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And for a limited time, listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast will receive a free month of Majestic Membership (their premium tier) when they download the Feeld app for the first time. Head to https://feeld.co/bawdy and access one free month of Majestic Membership (pro tip: please Allow 24 hours for this to activate). Remember, that’s https://feeld.co/bawdy - and I can’t wait to meet you on Feeld!
 
Please Help: Are you a fan of Bawdy Storytelling’s podcast and live shows? Please consider a donation to Bawdy; Don’t let the censors win…it’s been a tough battle but we’re still here, and we hope to be archiving and sharing these true stories with you for a long, long time. Every dollar helps Dixie and her team continue to do this very important work. #DontLetThemEraseUs
 
Our donation links are:
 
BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy
Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling
Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling
Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour
And THANK YOU!
 
What’s the Best way to support Bawdy? It’s through our Patreon. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your ongoing membership ensures that Bawdy can continue. Join Bawdy’s Patreon now and you’ll get exclusive Patreon-only content, and my eternal gratitude. Become a Member now at
https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy
 
My forthcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at
https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe
 
Shut up and Write is a national event that meets online and in-person. Is there one near you? #BodyDoubling
Website: https://shutupwrite.com/
meetup.com : https://www.meetup.com/topics/shut-up-write/
 
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