Bawdy Storytelling Dixie De La Tour

My friend, has life gotten you so down that you’ve forgotten that you have Superpowers? Bay Area-based writer, performer, and educator Tatyana Brown is battling break-ups, job loss and the Sads; so should she really given up on sex at this young age? Hoping to jumpstart her libido, she heads to a play party and when a beautiful woman says “I could go for some strap-on sex,” Tatyana’s lightbulb moment happens. Before you can say Polyamorous Clown Car, she’s instigating a tournament where dozens of sexy badasses are competing in multiple heats for a naked audience. Sometimes you have to Go for the Gold to get your mojo back! #Instigator #Shenanigans #SlowClap #MakeItWeird
 
Song: ‘Girls Just Wanna have Sex’ (Mazie)
 
About the Storyteller:
 
Tatyana Brown is a Bay Area-based writer, performer, and educator. She has toured nationally, performing and facilitating workshops for almost 10 years. Her work has appeared on NPR's Snap Judgment and she has taught at Yale University, Indiana University, Duke, and many more. She’s been on the Bawdy stage since the very beginning and loves to spend time with people who are far, far sluttier than she can currently be. 
 
Queer l Polyamorous l Play Party l Strap-On l Break-Up l Connection l Kindness l LGBT l Empathy l Sex Drive l Oakland l Sex Party l Genderqueer l Communication l Public Sex l Boundaries l Sacred l Pool Party l Human Pyramid l Orgy l Toy Bag l Go-Go Boots l Witty Banter l Blowjob l Deepthroat l Hot Tub l Performance l Napoleon l Audience l Judges l Rejection l Name Your Desire l Slow Clap l Floor Exercises l Multiple Positions l Camp Counselor l Dismount l Rookie l Applause l
 
Episode links:
 
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Is this the End? Folks, I’m still considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. That means there’s less than a month’s worth of episodes to go. 8 Years is a long time and Podcasting is a lot of work, so I may pause or end this thing. I wonder: should put my energy to better use. Should I write a book? Start creating online courses? Sell pics of my feet?
 
If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. If you want these stories, let me know. This decision will affect both of us. And if you listen and love this thing, please make a One-time or Ongoing Donation to keep the Podcast going.
 
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Email address is  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com

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Ongoing Support:
Better yet, Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.
 
It’s at
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Sign up now and get the Replay of the Portland BawdySlam! (Plus the Portland curated show is up on Patreon, waiting for you)
 
How can I help?
 
Story Coaching: I’d love to work with you on your personal story, because Storytelling is essential to your work, dating and social life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, storytelling for job interviews, etc). I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating

When you’re incapable of an emotional connection, can hookups fill the gap? When Nonbinary Polyamorous Storyteller Nurse Comedian Ex-Nun Kelli Dunham loses multiple partners to cancer, she looks for community in a Brooklyn LGBT Grief Support Group, and ends up loafer-deep in anonymous sex among the scrubby pines of Fire Island. Plus, Dixie talks Sex Geek Summer Camp, Bawdy in Portland and her new How to Be Bawdy virtual workshop. #GriefSex
 
“We must make love in between the bombs” - Paul Monette
 
Song: ‘F*ck the Pain Away’ (Peaches)
 
About the Storyteller:
 
Kelli Dunham is the nonbinary ex-nun polyamorous storytelling nurse comedian that’s so common in modern Brooklyn. Kelli has appeared on Showtime and the Discovery Channel, PBS Stories From the Stage, the Moth Mainstage, the Cinderblock Comedy Festival, the Women in Comedy Festival, and nationwide at colleges, Prides festivals, fundraisers, at oh so many nursing conferences and even the occasional livestock auction. Kelli's latest show, Second Helping, is coming to Ithaca, NY this week (July 12th) to Ann Arbor Michigan on August 2nd and OshKosh, Wisconsin on August 16th.
 
Hate live shows? Second Helping with Kelli Dunham, Kelli's hilarious and earnest new podcast–inspired by all the questions she gets about asking for, receiving and learning how to accept help– is produced by Kinehora Production and debuting early this fall.  Sign up to be the very first to know when it premiers!
 
You can also find Kelli on substack, youtube, instagram, tiktok and facebook.
 
Grief l Gay l Nature l Queer l Anonymous Sex l Hookup l Cruising l LGBT l Twink l Death l Raw l Play Party l Dungeon l Loss l Public Sex l Emotionally Devastated l Fire Island l Lookout l Bottoms Up l Condom l Lube l Buttplug l Dildo l Penis l Anal Hook l Human l Scholarship l Mental Health l Budget Cuts l Meat Rack l Subway l Appetizer l Wilderness l Lesbian l CisGender l Healing l Beach l Star Trek l
 
Episode links:
 
‘How to Be Bawdy’ Storytelling Workshop - learn Dixie’s complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour.
 
Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She’s taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too.
Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling', a 6 week hands-on storytelling intensive. It starts next week!
You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try our your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting.
'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly.
With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends.
 
WHEN: Mondays, July 22 - August 26th, 2024
Time: 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT (8:30 - 10:30 PM EDT)
PLUS
Weekly Office Hours: Wednesdays, 5:30-7:30 PST
(Optional weekly hours for custom coaching, Q&A, story advice & more)
WHERE: Online, so that you can attend from anywhere in the world
 
And coming in August: How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (live and in-person!)
 
The Dixie Ramble: My Substack ’The Dixie Ramble’ is starting next week. Substack is a great way to receive audio, video and written work from me. You can subscribe to The Dixie Ramble at
https://subst

 
Has a bad breakup ever made you think ‘the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else’? Author and Ethical NonMonogamist Kevin A Patterson is feeling a bit lost and confused, so he grabs his Bang bag and orchestrates his own gender non-specific traveling hand orgy. For one entire day, he schedules tag team handjob deliveries, because making people feel good, feels good. So much driving, so many g-spots and vaginas…and as the clock counts down, the competition is getting fierce. Who will rank #1 in orgasms on the dry erase board?
 
Song: ‘Trophy’ (Charli XCX)
 
About the Storyteller:
 
Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing Ethical NonMonogamy since 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. 
 
In April of 2015, Kevin started Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models was part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. To continue that discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. Along with co-writer Alana Phelan, Kevin launched a sci-fi novel series, For Hire, Operator that centers characters of color as well as other marginalized identities.
 
Want more of Kevin?
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/
Website: https://www.kevinapatterson.com/
 
Group Sex | Ethical NonMonogamy l Polyamory l Race l Open Relationship l Sex Education l Philadelphia l Orgy l Bruises l Powderpuff Girls l Threesome l Tag Team l Handjob l Road Trip l Fists of Fury l Excel Spreadsheet l Wrestling l St. Andrews Cross l Fuck Truck l Craftsman Toolchest l Hockey Puck l Breakup l Hands On l POC l Play Party l
 
Episode links:
 
This Friday, June 21st is our Portland, Oregon LIVE Bawdy (2 shows!) AND it’ll be LIVESTREAMed
 
2 individual back-to-back shows:
 
7:30 PM: Tickets for
Bawdy Storytelling (the curated show):
https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated
 
10:30 PM: Tickets for
Tickets for BawdySlam (Tell YOUR story - and Win Prizes!)
https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamPDX

(Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option)
 
At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous curated sex and storytelling show, with polished & curated stories, original music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 
 
And at 10:30 PM, Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Put your name in the hat to tell your own true 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes!
 
Performers for the 7:30 PM Curated Bawdy include:
 
• Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour
• Sex Geek & Relationship Coach Reid Mihalko
• Dance Naked & Plan V's Eleanor O'Brien
• Everywhere is Queer's Charlie Sprinkman
• Black Man of Trans Experience & VanLifer, Rocky Lane
• Music by Mark Growden
• Play Bang-O to make New Friends - & Win Prizes
• Win Prizes from Le Wand & B-Vibe
• Win Prizes from Uberlube & Lovely Planet
• Sexy Cocktails & Food available
Join us for the Best First Date EVER Bawdy can help you find your People!  
In Review:
Friday, June 21st, 2024 (7:30 & 10:30 Bawdy shows) At Curious Comedy Theater
5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland, OR 97211  
Important Question:
I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. It’s been over 7 years now… Is this thing on? I wanna hear from you…my email is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
 
If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. Now, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I’m wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way.
 
The Financial costs to produce a podcast are a bit part of my indecision. If you want to ensure this podcast continues,
Please make a one-time Donation t

Have you ever cried because you hate the body you’re in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola’s online Dom. Soon her submissive assignments begin to battle the negative self-talk imprinted on her by magazines, bullies, social media and family. What a difference a year - and being showered with love - can make to your self-esteem! And a recent PNW transplant asks: We know that Bawdy can get you laid…but can Bawdy help you love your new city and make the right friends? #BodyImage #LonelinessEpidemic
 
Song: ‘Chunky’ (Bruno Mars)
 
About the Storyteller:
 
Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.
In addition to her educational projects, Lola has brought her unique brand of sex-positive sex education to brands such as Shag in Williamsburg BK, Spectrum Boutique, B-Vibe, Le Wand, Blush, Freya, Womanizer, and Spencers Gifts.
 
Dirty Lola’s Sex-Ed-A-Go-Go is happening on Saturday, June 22nd in Brooklyn NY. Tickets at
https://www.stellartickets.com/o/brooklyn-art-haus--2/events/dirty-lola-at-bah/
 
Body Image | Fat l Kink l Submission l Sir l Brat l Nipples l Dominance l JR Ewing l Nudes l Chubby l Divorced l Brooklyn l Southern Drawl l Daily Task l Confidence l Pics l Phone l Twitter l Titty Tuesday l Naked l Crying l Trust l OOTD l Hasbro l Texting l Husband l Confidence l Affection l Slut l Own Worst Enemy l Whipped l Kink Device l Daddy l Businessman l Monogamous l Shame l Kindness l Self Love l
 
Episode links:
 
LIVE SHOW AND LIVESTREAM: If you like this Award-Winning Podcast, we’ve got good news: There ain't nothing in the world like being right there at a live Bawdy event.... I guarantee it.
 
Bawdy Storytelling is in Portland, Oregon this week
At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 
Tickets are available for Friday, June 21st, and they’re selling fast.
 
Ticket Links:
Bawdy Storytelling, the Curated Mainstage show, at 7:30 PM:
https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated
 
Performers include:
 
• Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour
• Sex Geek & Relationship Coach Reid Mihalko
• Dance Naked & Plan V's Eleanor O'Brien
• Everywhere is Queer's Charlie Sprinkman
• Black Man of Trans Experience & VanLifer, Rocky Lane
• Music by Mark Growden
• Play Bang-O to make New Friends - & Win Prizes
• Win Prizes from Le Wand & B-Vibe
• Win Prizes from Uberlube & Lovely Planet
• Sexy Cocktails & Food available
Join us for the Best First Date EVER Bawdy can help you find your People!
Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Come to BawdySlam Portland (our 10:30 PM story slam) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes!
 
Tickets for BawdySlam at 10:30 PM:
BawdySlam
https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamPDX
Get up and Tell YOUR story!

(Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option)
 
In Review:
Friday, June 21st, 2024 (A 7:30 & a 10:30 Bawdy show) At Curious Comedy Theater
5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland, OR 97211  
The Shameless Sex Podcast’s Unleashed Tour is coming to Portland
Sunday, June 16th at 7:30 PM
Special Guests include Dirty Lola, Dixie De La Tour and Shameless Sex’ Amy Baldwin & April Lambert
Tickets at
https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/92352410/shameless-sex-podcast-portland-hawthorne-theatre
 
Important Question:
I am considering ending the Bawdy po

My God, that Leatherman is so hot - but why is he limping? In this vintage 70’s story, Leather & Kink Legend Race Bannon take you on a private tour of his first Gay Bathhouse, and this story is a doozy! Join us as we venture into Man’s Country, a private membership gay men’s club featuring 3 stories of wild adventure, including a theater, gym, restaurant, dance hall, sex shop, an orgy room, lockers, private suites for on-premises sex, and of course, its famous whirlpool and baths. In this story, 19 year old Race meets an muscular, smooth older man in leather vest and chaps and soon they’re playing alone, surrounded by toys, gear and restraints. Leather & Kink dynamics are important - and yet sometimes, “the f*****g is the thing,” isn’t it? #TrimYourToenails #TalentedHole
 
Song: ‘I wanna be your Slave’ (Maneskin)
 
About the Storyteller:
 
Race Bannon is a Leather & Kink ICON - he’s an organizer, writer, publisher, educator, commentator, leader, speaker, and activist in the LGBTQ, leather/kink, polyamory, and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He is an author, widely published writer, active speaker, community organizer and project leader, and has received numerous national and local awards, the latest of which was The Academy SF 2022 Diane Jones Solidarity Award. You can currently see him in a new online series, On Guard Cigar Salon.
 
You can find links to Race’s writings, projects, and social
media here: https://linktr.ee/bannonrace
 
And read more about Man’s Country in the book:
https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Country-More-Than-Bathhouse/dp/1955826412
 
Gay | Kink l Leather l Dominant l Submissive l Bathhouse l Leatherman l Fisting l Feet l Foot l LGBTQIA l Orgy l Grease l BDSM l Shower l Puppy Pile l Sling l Naked l Chicago l AssPlay l Mustache l First Time l Older Man l Muscles l Pain Play l Thong l Smorgasbord l Commitment l Gay Baths l Glory Hole I Moans l Toys l Gear l Slave l Vintage l Magic Wand l Slut l Crisco l Chaps l Backroom l
 
Episode links:
 
Bawdy is coming to Portland, Oregon!
Bawdy Storytelling is coming to Portland for a 2 show night! It’s at Curious Comedy Theater in Portland.
 
Tickets now available for Friday, June 21st, and they’re selling fast.
 
Bawdy Storytelling, the Curated Mainstage show, at 7:30 PM:
https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated

BawdySlam (where you can tell YOUR story) at 10:30 PM
https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamPDX

Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option!
 
Bawdy Storytelling's first Portland show since 2016 is happening at Curious Comedy Theater - Folx, you like our Award-Winning Podcast, but there ain't nothing in the world like a live Bawdy.... I guarantee it.

At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 
 
Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Come to BawdySlam Portland (our second PDX show, at 10:30 PM) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes!
 
In Review:
Friday, June 21st, 2024 (A 7:30 & a 10:30 Bawdy show) At Curious Comedy Theater 5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd
Portland, OR 97211

 
URGENT:
I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. Is this thing on?
Do you love Bawdy? I need to hear from you, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I’m wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way (and going out of pocket isn’t feasible anymore)
If you want to ensure this podcast continues, Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!
Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entir

Did you know that there’s an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2 talented Nashville musicians who were inspired to write sex-positive songs after listening to Every.Single.Episode of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. Nashville was definitely a highlight of my recent Cross Country to East Coast Tour, and finally, you too can hear a custom song written just for Bawdy. #ILoveCustomSongs
 
Song: ‘Bawdy, if you’re feelin’ Naughty’ (Wet Bread)
 
About our Songwriters:
 
Melody Walker and Lizzy Ross are both celebrated songwriters in the indie folk and Americana scene who decided they had far hornier songs to write than their previous mainstream projects would allow for. They had spent so many years not wanting to seem like “those kind of bisexuals”: you know, the lusty, insatiable, wanton kind of women who would start a band just to advertise their goods to a captive audience of other certified sluts and poly queerdos. But when Melody turned Lizzy onto her favorite podcast Bawdy Storytelling and then they found out Dixie was coming to Nashville, it was all over for their good reputation. They decided to risk it all to debut their new duo WET BREAD. 
 
Learn more about BERTHA (Melody Walker’s Grateful Drag cover band) at
https://www.gratefuldrag.com/
Or
https://www.melodywalker.com/bertha
 
Instagram:
Follow Melody Walker at
https://www.instagram.com/melodywritessongs
 
And Lizzie Ross is at
https://www.instagram.com/lizzyross/
 
Episode links:
 
Bawdy is coming to Portland, Oregon!
 
PORTLAND, OREGON:  Bawdy Storytelling is coming to Portland for a 2 show night! 
Tickets now available for Friday, June 21st, and they’re selling fast. Grab yours at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated
Bawdy Storytelling's first Portland show since 2016 is happening at Curious Comedy Theater (who have been dreamy to work with so far). Folx, you like our Award-Winning Podcast, but there ain't nothing like a live Bawdy.... 
At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 
Then at 10:30 PM, join us for BawdySlam, where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 Minute Story for fun and prizes. 
 
In Review:
Friday, June 21st, 2024 At Curious Comedy Theater 5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd
Portland, OR 97211
The Bawdy Storytelling Mainstage show (curated) is at 7:30 PM BawdySlam (where you can tell YOUR story) is at 10:30 PM Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option.  
Do you wanna get onstage at this show? There’s 2 ways to do that:

Send me your story pitch for the curated Bawdy. I’m particularly looking for Queer/POC/Alternative lifestyle storytellers for this show.
Send me your story ASAP to BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
Come to BawdySlam (at 10:30 PM) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win prizes!  
URGENT:
I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. Is this thing on?
Do you love Bawdy? I need to hear from you, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I’m wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way (and going out of pocket isn’t feasible anymore)
If you want to ensure this podcast continues, Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!
Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting