34 episodes

We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? These are weekly raw, honest, heartfelt conversations about all areas of life: Feminism, Family, Motherhood, Spirituality, Religion, Entrepreneurship, Business & so much more.

Choices: Moving the Conversation Forward with Monica Cox and Friends Monica Cox

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 3 Ratings

We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? These are weekly raw, honest, heartfelt conversations about all areas of life: Feminism, Family, Motherhood, Spirituality, Religion, Entrepreneurship, Business & so much more.

    Is There a Possibility for a Third Party to Win the Election in the USA? with Abigail White Part One

    Is There a Possibility for a Third Party to Win the Election in the USA? with Abigail White Part One

    "The best path I see for reaching a space where we're no longer beholden to people three times our age comes from the young voters taking a stand and doing so consistently."
    Topics Discussed:

    Impact of Social Media on Perception: Monica discusses the often exaggerated reactions on social media to natural events like eclipses and how stepping away can provide clarity and reduce anxiety.


    Mindset of Abundance vs. Scarcity: Exploring how the lens through which we view our lives—either as abundant or constrained by external forces—shapes our daily experiences and choices.


    Financial Independence and Economic Inequality: Insights into achieving financial security regardless of broader economic conditions, and how some individuals leverage natural cycles like new moons to foster personal and financial growth.


    Political Disillusionment and Systemic Change: A deep dive into the frustration with political systems, the ineffectiveness of expecting a single leader to bring about change, and the reality of governmental structures.


    Cultural Influence on Politics: The conversation touches on how American culture's fascination with superheroes influences unrealistic expectations of political leaders.


    Comparative Political Systems: Monica shares her experiences living in the UK, discussing the differences in political engagement and accountability between the UK and the US.


    Role of the Judiciary in Democracy: Discussion on the significant impact of the Supreme Court and lifetime judicial appointments on American laws and daily life.


    Youth Engagement in Politics: Encouraging young voters to consistently engage in political processes, emphasizing that even small actions can lead to significant societal shifts.


    Efficacy of the Two-Party System: A critical look at the limitations of the two-party system in the US, the potential for third-party candidates, and the importance of broadening political awareness beyond mainstream choices.


    Media and Political Narratives: Analysis of how media biases and misinformation can shape public perception of political figures and issues, stressing the importance of fact-checking and independent research.

    "I look around and I see their bias, their bigotry, their hate and their prejudice, and I'm over that."
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    "You cannot deny that it's not really the politicians we elect who run the system; it's the big corporations backing them. We're just voting in a face, not actual change."
    Hello, beautiful souls! In today's episode we kicked things off with a lighthearted laugh about the chaos that sometimes surrounds eclipse seasons—yes, they happen every year, and no, they aren’t the end of the world. I shared how stepping back from social media helped me stay grounded amidst the hype.
    Then, we shifted gears to a more introspective discussion about abundance and scarcity. How do you view your life? Are you driven by external circumstances or do you shape your own destiny? It's all about embracing personal responsibility and choosing happiness every single day.
    As the conversation flowed, politics took center stage. We unpacked the disillusionment many feel with the political system, the ineffectiveness of believing in a 'crystal dust'-sprinkling superhero, and the sobering reminder that high school government classes might have been more useful than we thought. We questioned the superhero mentality that so many Americans fall for, expecting one person to fix all.
    I shared insights from my time living in the UK, highlighting the stark differences in political engagement and system accountability. The chat got real as we discussed the charismatic yet challenging realities of leaders like Obama and the systemic constraints they face.
    We also tackled the critical role of the Supreme Court and how lifetime

    • 32 min
    Exploring Balance in Modern Life if That's Even Possible with Joy Lechner Part Two

    Exploring Balance in Modern Life if That's Even Possible with Joy Lechner Part Two

    "Everyone's chasing, chasing something. And once you figure out that it's just the pure joy in creating your life, you will get to probably even better than what you're trying to chase."
    Topics Discussed
    Challenges of Modern Living: Discussing the unrealistic expectations placed on individuals, particularly women, in terms of productivity and multi-tasking.
    Personal Growth and Healing: Insights into personal development through therapy, coaching, and self-reflection.
    Parenting in Modern Times: Addressing the complexities of raising children in a privileged society and teaching them valuable life skills.
    Mental and Emotional Wellness: Exploring the importance of mental health, stress management, and giving oneself permission to rest.
    Empowerment Through Responsibility: Encouraging taking radical responsibility for one’s happiness and life choices.
    Community and Support: The significance of community support in personal and parenting roles.
    "I mean, it just comes down to the radical responsibility, right? Because I was that person who had it all and still wasn't happy."
    We're diving deep into the whirlwind of modern life and how we juggle the hats of being parents, professionals, and individuals striving for personal growth. We laughed, we got real, and we unpacked some heavy truths about the pressures we face every day. From debunking the myth of 'having it all' to embracing the messiness of life, we covered it all.
    Whether you're a busy mom trying to find a moment of peace or someone seeking a deeper understanding of self, this chat was packed with heartfelt insights and practical advice. Remember, it's all about the choices we make and finding joy in the journey!
    "I'm doing tango, not for any of the reasons, just it lights me up."
    Timestamps
    02:00 - The illusion of doing it all and community living
    04:00 - Embracing simplicity and authenticity in personal healing
    06:00 - The dichotomy of abundance and real-life challenges
    08:00 - Childhood responsibilities and learning through experiences
    10:00 - Personal anecdotes on life coaching and overcoming people-pleasing
    12:00 - The power of love and connection within families
    14:00 - Pursuing joy and personal interests authentically
    16:00 - Societal pressures on achievements and individual paths
    18:00 - The healing journey and embracing personal joy
    20:00 - The realities of parenting and asking for help
    22:00 - Closing thoughts and personal reflections on healing and medicine
    24:00 - The importance of personal intuition in healing and life choices
    26:00 - Discussion on different healing modalities and personal fit
    28:00 - Concluding remarks and reflections on expectations and surrendering
    30:00 - The role of modern medicine and personal empowerment
    "Exactly. And I think too, bringing the children into it, people are always like, God smacked. They're like, your kids do what? I'm like, yeah, my six-year-old unloads the dishwasher because he's part of the household, right?"
    Move the conversation forward on SM:
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    Connect with Joy:
    Joy Lechner - https://www.instagram.com/joywellnessfertility/
     

    We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? Alos, anything written or said about diet and mental health are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, therapist, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualif

    • 33 min
    Intentional Living: From Cancer Recovery to Balancing Motherhood, Business & Personal Growth with Joy Lechner Part One

    Intentional Living: From Cancer Recovery to Balancing Motherhood, Business & Personal Growth with Joy Lechner Part One

    "I tend to be more like, yes, I'm going to do that with you. Like that's more valuable than anything I can be doing."
    Intentional Living: From Cancer Recovery to Balancing Motherhood, Business & Personal Growth with Joy Lechner Part One
    Topics Discussed
    Balancing life, motherhood, and business during a healing journey
    The impact of personal health challenges on family dynamics and parenting
    Strategies for maintaining joy and gratitude amidst adversity
    The role of mental health and self-care in successful entrepreneurship
    Creating intentional family interactions and managing work-life boundaries
    Hey beautiful souls, Monica here! In today’s vibrant chat, Joy and I dove deep into the waters of healing, motherhood, and juggling the entrepreneurial spirit. We unpacked the layers of managing a business while nurturing a family, all through the lens of Joy’s inspiring cancer recovery journey. It’s all about the balance, folks!
    Whether it’s finding that precious five minutes of fun to uplift the spirits or setting boundaries to stay present with our little ones, we covered the gamut of making every moment count. Join us as we laugh, reflect, and maybe shed a tear or two, but most importantly, as we discover how to truly live in the moment.
     
    Timestamps:
    02:00 - Discussion on balancing life, motherhood, and business during Joy's cancer recovery.
    04:00 - The impact of Joy's healing journey on her family life and parenting style.
    06:00 - Strategies Joy used to maintain a positive environment for her children despite health challenges.
    08:00 - The importance of being present and creating quality time with family.
    10:00 - Challenges of managing a business as a mother and entrepreneur.
    12:00 - Reflections on personal growth and changes in business management over the years.
    14:00 - The role of self-awareness and honesty in personal and professional life.
    16:00 - How past experiences and family influences shape current business and parenting practices.
    18:00 - Joy discusses the integration of fun and health activities into family life for healing.
    20:00 - The significance of mental health awareness and management in overcoming personal challenges.
    22:00 - Joy's approach to work-life balance and the intentional use of technology.
    24:00 - Insights on disconnecting from work and being fully present at home.
    26:00 - The benefits of setting specific times for work and family activities.
    28:00 - The challenges and solutions for maintaining boundaries between work and personal life.
    30:00 - Importance of modeling healthy behavior and technology use for children.
    32:00 - Reflecting on how personal challenges like cancer can lead to profound life changes and improvements.
    34:00 - The transformative impact of Joy's journey on her approach to life and parenting.
    Move the conversation forward on SM:
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    Connect with Joy:
    Joy Lechner - https://www.instagram.com/joywellnessfertility/
     

    We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? Alos, anything written or said about diet and mental health are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, therapist, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional.
    Music by: Coma-Media Bounce

    • 34 min
    Blind Faith? Why We are Believing Books Written by Men Without Fact-Checking & More Insightful BS with Kim Arneson & Abigail White Part 2

    Blind Faith? Why We are Believing Books Written by Men Without Fact-Checking & More Insightful BS with Kim Arneson & Abigail White Part 2

    We're diving headfirst into the wild world of TikToks & Reels that the conversation needs to be pushed forward! Guided by, ME, the ever-entertaining Monica Cox and her partners-in-chat, Kim Arneson and Abigail White.
    We tackled a buffet of clips with the kind of sarcastic wit and sharp insights that could only come from a group that eats controversy for breakfast. From squabbling over science and spirituality to unpacking the baggage of personal purpose, each reel was a springboard into discussions that were as deep as they were hilarious.
    Kim and Abigail added their own flavors of fun and feistiness, ensuring there was never a dull moment. By the end of it, not only had we ridden a rollercoaster of emotions, but we also came away questioning everything from our life choices to why we ever thought watching just one TikTok video was enough. It was all in good fun and perfectly captured the essence of our zany, enlightening podcast shenanigans!
    Links to original clips: https://www.tiktok.com/@meredyth_with_a_why/video/7248630493699247402?lang=en https://www.tiktok.com/@glenismark/video/7345358641559506177 https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2xihRPRXS9/?igsh=YzY0NDAyMHBraTZx https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0QS3w6sfNP/?igsh=NHl3cnR1d3E5Mnl3
    Topics Discussed:
    Debate on Evolution and Creation: A discussion about the validity of evolution versus creation, emphasizing strong personal beliefs and the confrontation with scientific consensus.
    Critique of Believing in Science Blindly: The conversation challenges the acceptance of scientific facts without personal verification, questioning the blind faith placed in both religious and scientific authorities.
    Science as a Method of Inquiry: Monica critiques the notion that science definitively proves truths, instead highlighting its role in continuously testing and questioning hypotheses.
    Personal Experiences with Spirituality and Science: Monica shares her personal journey of integrating spiritual experiences with scientific understanding, reflecting on how these views shaped her approach to life and knowledge.
    Skeptical Views on Pandemic Science: There is a critical examination of the scientific responses to the COVID-19 pandemic, discussing the influence of biases and the public's misunderstanding of science.
    Energy Reading and Its Clash with Medical Science: The discussion includes a detailed account of an energy reading session where the effects of medications like Ozempic on the energy perception of organs were explored.
    Entrepreneurship as an Expression of Purpose: The dialogue shifts to how entrepreneurship can be a dynamic and evolving path that aligns with one’s personal purpose, challenging conventional career norms.
    Fluidity and Evolution of Personal Purpose: Monica delves into the idea that one’s purpose is not static but evolves over time and through experiences, advocating for openness to change and growth.
    Move the conversation forward on SM:
    https://www.instagram.com/monicacox.choices/
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    Connect with Kim & Abigail on IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamkimarneson/
    https://www.instagram.com/breathoflife_healer/ 
     
    We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? Alos, anything written or said about diet and mental health are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, therapist, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified profess

    • 28 min
    The Importance of Personal Discernment in Consuming Spiritual Content: Doomsday Predictions & More with Kim Arneson & Abigail White Part 1

    The Importance of Personal Discernment in Consuming Spiritual Content: Doomsday Predictions & More with Kim Arneson & Abigail White Part 1

    Topics Discussed:
    The impact of doomsday predictions on personal well-being
    Evaluating the authenticity of spiritual gurus and healers
    The marketing pitfalls in spiritual and healing communities
    The importance of personal discernment in consuming spiritual content
    Reflections on societal collapse and rebirth scenarios
    We're diving headfirst into the wild world of TikTok's & Reels that the conversation needs to be pushed forward! Guided by, ME, the ever-entertaining Monica Cox and her partners-in-chat, Kim Arneson and Abigail White. We tackled a buffet of clips with the kind of sarcastic wit and sharp insights that could only come from a group that eats controversy for breakfast.
    From squabbling over science and spirituality to unpacking the baggage of personal purpose, each reel was a springboard into discussions that were as deep as they were hilarious. Kim and Abigail added their own flavors of fun and feistiness, ensuring there was never a dull moment.
    By the end of it, not only had we ridden a rollercoaster of emotions, but we also came away questioning everything from our life choices to why we ever thought watching just one TikTok video was enough. It was all in good fun and perfectly captured the essence of our zany, enlightening podcast shenanigans!
    Links to original clips: https://www.tiktok.com/@meredyth_with_a_why/video/7248630493699247402?lang=en https://www.tiktok.com/@glenismark/video/7345358641559506177 https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2xihRPRXS9/?igsh=YzY0NDAyMHBraTZx https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0QS3w6sfNP/?igsh=NHl3cnR1d3E5Mnl3
    Move the conversation forward on SM:
    https://www.instagram.com/monicacox.choices/
    https://www.facebook.com/alisa.cox.39
    Connect with Kim & Abigail on IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamkimarneson/
    https://www.instagram.com/breathoflife_healer/ 
     
    We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? Alos, anything written or said about diet and mental health are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, therapist, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional.
    Music by: Coma-Media Bounce

    • 27 min
    Personal Accountability in a Connected World with Abigail White "I don't think all the sheep have to become shepherds. I think the sheep just need to wake the f**k up."

    Personal Accountability in a Connected World with Abigail White "I don't think all the sheep have to become shepherds. I think the sheep just need to wake the f**k up."

    "I don't think all the sheep have to become shepherds. I think the sheep just need to wake the f**k up."
    Topics Discussed
    The complexities of societal evolution and individual roles
    Understanding personal and communal responsibilities in modern times
    The impact of leadership and the concept of 'waking up' in society
    Discussions on environmental and societal sustainability
    The balance between personal happiness and societal expectations
    Move the conversation forward on SM:
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    Connect with Abigail on IG: 
    https://www.instagram.com/breathoflife_healer/ 
    "And I'm not saying into the same belief system, but into the knowledge that the way we're treating the planet isn't healthy, the way we're treating our bodies isn't healthy, the way we're treating our fellow human beings isn't healthy."
    We've got a no-holds-barred discussion that'll make you rethink your place in the cosmos—or at least in your own community! Together, they unpacked the hefty suitcase of societal roles, personal accountability, and the not-so-small task of waking up to our environmental and social responsibilities. And let me tell you, it was a wild ride through the realities of 'sheep waking', shepherd leading, and the everyday grind that keeps our world spinning.
    Monica and Abigail didn't just stop at world-saving antics; they dove headfirst into what it means to be happy in a world that's obsessed with messiahs and entrepreneurs. With a dash of sass and a whole lot of real talk, they explored how everyone doesn't need to lead the flock to make a difference. Sometimes, just being the best version of yourself is the revolution we need. So, buckle up, beautiful souls, because this episode is not just a podcast—it's a wakeup call to live, laugh, and maybe even lead a little (or not, you do you!).
    "If you all were engineers, we would be naked. There'd be no clothes. There would be no food grown. We need different levels of awareness."
    Timestamps:
    02:00 - Discussing the evolution of society and personal roles
    04:00 - The need for personal accountability and waking up
    06:00 - Reflections on leadership and the shepherd-sheep analogy
    08:00 - Delving into environmental awareness and societal responsibilities
    10:00 - The importance of diverse roles in a functioning society
    12:00 - Examining personal happiness versus societal expectations
    14:00 - Entrepreneurship and the varying paths to personal fulfillment
    16:00 - The concept of personal growth without becoming a 'messiah'
    18:00 - How personal changes affect wider community dynamics
    20:00 - The realistic challenges of living up to societal ideals
    22:00 - Acknowledging the importance of personal peace without full understanding
    24:00 - Strategies for dealing with personal and societal pressures
    26:00 - Emphasizing the need for individual choice in life decisions
    28:00 - The balance between achieving personal goals and societal contribution
    30:00 - Understanding the limits of personal influence and the concept of 'enough'
    32:00 - The role of personal understanding in societal evolution
    34:00 - Recap and reflections on the discussion
    We’re here learning and growing alongside you as we move the conversation forward together from the BS that’s crushing authentic voices and keeping many in a loop of self-destruction. We’re here to make better choices consciously and truly understand the connection to our subconscious mind. We’re seeking the questions no one is daring to ask and are here to listen to answers with an open mind & loving heart - are you willing to do the same and help move the conversation forward? Alos, anything written or said about diet and mental health are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, therapist, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qua

    • 27 min

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Infertile Mom ,

Refreshing & Not One Sided

Love the fact Monica is really just asking questions, “moving the conversation forward” & not trying to prove that one point is right (even though you can tell she’s leaning towards one side a little😜) Guest are straightforward & powerful!! Such a great new fresh podcast!!

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