Coffee Chat with Amber & Lisa

Amber Weigand-Buckley

What does it mean to be a woman of influence in the everyday of life's raw, good, bad, and ugly? Join Amber Weigand-Buckley and Lisa Burris Burns, authors of the #1 Amazon Bestseller and multi-award-winning book Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success (Bold Vision Books), for coffee and a messy bun conversation. Each week, we'll talk about how things we'd rather keep hidden can prevent us from moving forward in purpose. You'll receive insight and encouragement to be the world-changing woman God created you to be. No makeup, no pretense required. To find out more, go to www.coffeechatladies.com. Like, subscribe, download, and visit @coffeechatladies on social media.

  1. The Bounce Back: Rising Stronger After Life Knocks You Flat with Christina Custodio

    10/25/2025

    The Bounce Back: Rising Stronger After Life Knocks You Flat with Christina Custodio

    In this edition of Coffee Chat, hosts Amber and Lisa welcome Christina Custodio, a professional photographer, author, and speaker, to share her powerful story of faith during a family crisis. Christina recounts the harrowing experience of her son Isaiah's sudden severe brain hemorrhage during football practice, the emergency surgery that saved his life, and their road to recovery. Through this ordeal, Christina discusses the depth of her reliance on God, the support of her community, and the lessons in faith, trust, and resilience that she and her family learned. This heartfelt conversation delves into the emotional, spiritual, and practical challenges of navigating a life-changing event while maintaining hope and joy. 00:00 Welcome to Coffee Chat 00:07 Introducing Christina Custodio 00:58 Christina's Journey into Writing 02:06 A Mother's Worst Nightmare 06:38 The Miraculous Recovery 09:14 Life After the Surgery 10:28 Balancing Family and Faith 18:50 The Impact on Siblings 20:30 Supporting Each Other Through Difficult Times 21:09 Finding Joy in Helping Others 22:49 Lessons in Reliance on God 27:06 The Power of Prayer and Letting Go 32:34 Embracing Diversity and Unity in Faith 36:05 The Role of Pain and Suffering in Spiritual Growth 37:29 A Mother's Journey of Faith and Trust 39:53 Seeking and Feeling God's Presence Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    50 min
  2. Embracing the Simple Things of Homestead Living and Heirloom Faith with Maureen Miller

    10/18/2025

    Embracing the Simple Things of Homestead Living and Heirloom Faith with Maureen Miller

    From Award-Winning Novels to Highland Cows: A Conversation About Simplicity, Heirlooms, and Faith with Maureen Miller Grab your favorite cup of coffee (or peppermint tea!) and settle in for this soul-stirring conversation with novelist and homesteader Maureen Miller, aka "the flower girl herself." Amber and Lisa dive deep with Maureen about her award-winning time-slip novel Gideon's Book, but this chat goes way beyond just talking books. We're talking highland cows (yes, really), geriatric farms, greenhouse disasters involving white flies, and why sometimes you just need to eat box mac and cheese even when you're a homesteader. From spinning wool with drop spindles to performing surgery on grandkids' stuffies, from the spiritual depth of farming to why handwritten notes still matter in our disposable world—this conversation will make you want to slow down, pull your grandma's china off the shelf, and remember what really matters. Fair warning: This episode might make you want to grow potatoes in your backyard, write more letters, and definitely think twice before grabbing those paper plates. And if you've ever wondered what it costs to raise a highland cow or why a Bible survived a tornado on a piano... well, you'll just have to listen. In this episode: The 16-year journey to write Gideon's Book (including starting completely over!)What homesteading really looks like (spoiler: it's not always Instagram-perfect)Why we need to be better stewards of the heirlooms God has given us—both the stuff AND ourselvesChiefs football, Taylor Swift speculation, and Leading Ladies 2.0 at Walmart!Come for the book talk, stay for the life-giving reminder that sometimes the simple things are the most sacred things. Chapter Breakdown00:00 - Welcome & Kansas City Chiefs Love The girls kick things off with that Flower Girl song, football banter, and why Kansas City lets famous people live normal lives (we're looking at you, Travis and Taylor) 04:00 - Big Announcements: Leading Ladies is at Walmart! Amber and Lisa share exciting news about Leading Ladies 2.0 hitting Barnes & Noble and Walmart—produce aisle book signings, anyone? 05:00 - Meet Maureen Miller: Award-Winning Novelist & Homesteader Introducing the magnetic flower girl herself and the incredible story behind her award-winning debut novel, Gideon's Book 06:00 - The 16-Year Journey: From Whisper to Published Novel How God whispered "the Bible by the bed" in 2007, why Maureen started completely over, and what it took to bring this time-slip story to life 08:00 - What is Gideon's Book Really About? Time slips, Gideon Bibles in hotel rooms, adoptive mothers, birth mothers, and a beautiful tribute to how God's Word transforms lives 11:00 - Homesteading During COVID: Finding Silver Linings What life looked like on Selah Farm during lockdown, walking the country roads, and choosing gratitude in hard seasons 14:00 - The Reality of Homesteading (It's Not All Instagram Perfect) Overgrown greenhouses, white fly infestations, and why Maureen calls it a "geriatric farm"—spoiler: she's doing something right! 18:00 - How Much Does a Highland Cow Cost, Anyway? The real talk about raising cattle, why Amber can't fit one in h Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    50 min
  3. Rediscover Joy & Reclaim Purpose After Divorce with Natasha Harris Butler

    07/05/2025

    Rediscover Joy & Reclaim Purpose After Divorce with Natasha Harris Butler

    In this episode, hosts Lisa and Amber sit down with Natasha Harris Butler. Natasha is now navigating life as a single mother to her three-year-old son while building her private practice as a therapist, and she's just released her first book. The conversation centers around Natasha's new devotional, "Anchored by Grace: Prayers for Keeping an Undivided Heart After Divorce" - a 30-day resource for anyone walking through difficult seasons. Rather than shying away from hard topics, the hosts create space for honest discussion about taking those things that bring shame and laying them out in the light, because transparency disarms the enemy's ability to use our struggles against us. Natasha opens up about how God showed up in practical ways during her divorce - including waking up one morning to find attorney fees in her account when she had no idea how the money got there. These are the kind of real-life provisions that can only be attributed to God's kindness in the midst of pain. The episode explores themes of grief as the loss of our vision for the future, the importance of finding community rather than isolating, and understanding that our broken places aren't sources of shame but spaces where God's light can shine brightest. Throughout the conversation, Natasha shares her heart for creating purpose from her pain and maintaining integrity for her son's sake. This is a tender, honest conversation about resilience, faith, and God's faithfulness in the messy, grace-filled journey of life when it doesn't go according to plan. Timeline: 00:00 - Welcome and introductions - podcasting from scaffolding in the almost-finished studio  01:00 - Meeting Natasha Butler Harris - watching young women grow up and do "grown woman things" 03:00 - Introducing "Anchored by Grace: Prayers for Keeping an Undivided Heart After Divorce"  04:00 - Taking shame out of the shadows - laying struggles in the light to disarm the enemy  06:00 - Natasha's journey - waiting 40 years to marry, the excitement and devastation of divorce  08:00 - Memorializing God's faithfulness - learning to record how God shows up  10:00 - Broken vessels and God's light - how brokenness becomes a place for God to shine  13:00 - God's practical provision - mysterious attorney fees and financial miracles  16:00 - Learning surrender - trusting God with parenting decisions and co-parenting  18:00 - God's faithfulness in divorce - breaking stigma around hard seasons  20:00 - Writing the book - from personal prayers to encouraging others in practice  22:00 - Where to find "Anchored by Grace" - Amazon vs Barnes & Noble  24:00 - Closing prayer for those walking through difficult seasons 25:30 - Final advice - find community, don't isolate, no shame in reaching out Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    29 min
  4. Can Your Biggest Heartbreak Become your Greatest Ministry with Adrienne Story

    06/23/2025

    Can Your Biggest Heartbreak Become your Greatest Ministry with Adrienne Story

    Join Amber, Lisa, and special guest Adrienne Story in this heartfelt episode of Coffee Chat. Together, they discuss the profound experience of navigating grief, particularly through infant loss. Adrienne shares her touching journey of losing children, dealing with profound grief, and finding ways to honor her losses while still embracing new joys. They also tackle topics such as the unhelpful things people say, the stages of grief, and the importance of faith and support during trying times. Whether you're walking through a season of loss or looking to support a loved one, this episode offers compassionate insight and hope. 00:00 Welcome Back to Coffee Chat 00:47 Celebrating Achievements and Sharing Updates 02:38 Introducing Adrian and Discussing Grief 05:36 Personal Stories of Loss and Grief 09:09 Adrian's Journey Through Grief 16:52 Navigating Pregnancy After Loss 21:34 Coping with Subsequent Losses 36:30 A Mother's Intuition and Reassurance 36:45 Facing Complications and Divine Reassurance 37:30 The Third Pregnancy and God's Reassurance 39:29 Family Expansion and Unexpected Blessings 39:56 Adrian's Journey: Pregnancy Amidst Family Struggles 40:50 Medical Challenges and Support System 43:52 Naming Significance and Family Bonds 45:41 Grief and Joy: A Mother's Dual Experience 46:46 Navigating Grief and Finding Purpose 51:46 The Reality of Grief and Supportive Words 01:06:28 Redeeming Moments and Helping Others 01:12:19 Final Thoughts and Praye Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    1h 18m
  5. Flowers Find a Way: Special Audio Preview of Amber’s New Devotional

    05/10/2025

    Flowers Find a Way: Special Audio Preview of Amber’s New Devotional

    Instead of our regular live coffee chat this week, we're thrilled to share something special - the audio introduction and first chapter from Amber's new devotional, "Flowers Find a Way: Resilient Blooms of Relentless Faith." Settle in with your favorite beverage as you listen to "A Legacy in Petals" (the introduction) and "The Defiance of Holy Blooms" (Day One). This preview captures the heart of Amber's 30-day devotional about finding hope and growth in difficult circumstances. Through the metaphor of flowers pushing through concrete, Amber explores how we can maintain our softness and authenticity while breaking through life's hardest moments. As she shares in the book, "The concrete doesn't stand a chance against a flower that refuses to stay buried."  Coffee Chat Live with Amber & Lisa will return next week, but we hope this audio excerpt provides encouragement and a meaningful preview of what the full devotional offers. 📖 "Flowers Find a Way" is available now in print wherever books are sold. Get $3 off by following the Flowers Find a Way link at coffeechatladies.com☕ We'd love to hear what resonated with you from this preview!  Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    10 min
  6. Is Trauma Holding You Back? Can One Healing Prayer Really Set You Free? With Pastor Randy Burns

    05/03/2025

    Is Trauma Holding You Back? Can One Healing Prayer Really Set You Free? With Pastor Randy Burns

    In this deeply moving episode of Coffee Chat, hosts Lisa and Amber welcome their first-ever male guest, Pastor Randy Burns. With over 37 years of pastoral ministry experience and 26 years as a professional counselor, Randy brings profound insights into understanding trauma, the healing process, and how faith intersects with mental health. This conversation moves beyond theory when Randy leads Amber through a powerful healing prayer experience, demonstrating how God's presence can bring refreshment, clarity, and restoration. Whether you're carrying your own wounds or supporting loved ones through theirs, this episode offers practical wisdom for the journey toward wholeness. Chapter Notes:Introduction to Randy Burns (0:00-5:00)Randy Burns joins as the podcast's first male guestBackground in pastoral ministry (37 years) and counseling (26 years)Brief personal history on Randy's education and callingUnderstanding Trauma (5:00-15:00)Defining trauma as emotional overload, crushed spirit, or brokennessHow trauma can be experienced directly or witnessedThe impact of religious trauma and church experiencesHow unresolved trauma shapes our perception of GodSin as a Symptom (15:00-22:00)Looking beyond behaviors to underlying needs and woundsMinistry in challenging environmentsCreating safe spaces in church communitiesThe Healing Journey (22:00-32:00)Healing as a non-linear, layered processThe birthday party analogy - God addressing each stage of lifeHow sensory triggers connect to past traumaKnowing when you're ready to address past woundsMinistry with Unresolved Trauma (32:00-40:00)Can wounded people effectively minister to others?Setting healthy boundaries in helping relationshipsSelf-care practices for those in ministryThe "not the lifeguard on duty" principleHealing Prayer Experience (40:00-60:00)Randy guides Amber through a healing prayer sessionGrounding techniques and becoming presentCreating space to hear God speak to specific needsAmber's personal revelation and emotional releaseClosing Reflections (60:00-66:00)Simplified steps for healing prayerThe importance of having others walk with us through traumaDaily refreshment through God's presenceContact information and wrap-upGuest Bio: Randy Burns has served in pastoral ministry for 37 years and counseling for 26 years. He holds a master's degree in pastoral counseling and is a minister in one of Kansas City's most challenging neighborhoods. Randy brings a unique perspective on healing, combining professional expertise with personal experience and spiritual wisdom. Have Questions? Email Pastor Randy at leerb7@gmail.com.  Thank you for taking the time to like, subscribe, share, and comment. Visit leadingladies.life to find out more. Also, follow @leadingladieslife on social. Amber & Lisa are authors of the multi-award-winning book, Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success, which dives into the power of community and empowering women of faith to rise up and make a difference, using our gifts and faith to shine brightly in the world. Watch the Facebook Live edition on our YouTube Channel @coffeechatladies .

    1h 9m
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What does it mean to be a woman of influence in the everyday of life's raw, good, bad, and ugly? Join Amber Weigand-Buckley and Lisa Burris Burns, authors of the #1 Amazon Bestseller and multi-award-winning book Leading Ladies: Discover Your God-Grown Strategy for Success (Bold Vision Books), for coffee and a messy bun conversation. Each week, we'll talk about how things we'd rather keep hidden can prevent us from moving forward in purpose. You'll receive insight and encouragement to be the world-changing woman God created you to be. No makeup, no pretense required. To find out more, go to www.coffeechatladies.com. Like, subscribe, download, and visit @coffeechatladies on social media.