51 episodes

Amrita and Andrew are ”platonic life partners,” artistic co-conspirators, and parents to a good baby.

In 2024: Season 2 will reflect on one year of parenting as friends, and *lots* more. We will turn the lens to re-imagining the ways in which people relate to one another in the modern world: whether in family, community, partnership, or romance.

Season 1 documented our path from friends to family as we decided to become parents. All the juicy backstory you could ask for.

”Season 0” is the first 41 episodes that preceded this over the years: foundational and central, fun and ridiculous. Without these episodes -- exploring freelancing, and living life off the beaten path -- there is no ”us.”

Faced with making an unconventional choice that has the potential to bring you joy? Don’t Think Twice!

Don’t Think Twice Amrita Vijay & Andrew Stephens

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    • 5.0 • 12 Ratings

Amrita and Andrew are ”platonic life partners,” artistic co-conspirators, and parents to a good baby.

In 2024: Season 2 will reflect on one year of parenting as friends, and *lots* more. We will turn the lens to re-imagining the ways in which people relate to one another in the modern world: whether in family, community, partnership, or romance.

Season 1 documented our path from friends to family as we decided to become parents. All the juicy backstory you could ask for.

”Season 0” is the first 41 episodes that preceded this over the years: foundational and central, fun and ridiculous. Without these episodes -- exploring freelancing, and living life off the beaten path -- there is no ”us.”

Faced with making an unconventional choice that has the potential to bring you joy? Don’t Think Twice!

    Season 1, Part 10: Family Ties

    Season 1, Part 10: Family Ties

    We've come full circle in our tale of preparing for co-parenting: FAMILY. Andrew and Amrita's biological families will be fused together by this new baby -- what will that look like for a platonic couple? How will our very different religious and cultural upbringings come into play for our new family unit?
    Host Marina Weiss helps bring this series home.
    Want more updates from our nontraditional family? Let us know what you'd like to see from future episodes!

    • 34 min
    Season 1, Part 9: Sex and Romance

    Season 1, Part 9: Sex and Romance

    We're nearing the end of our Baby Episodes! But we can't leave without confronting how sex and dating will work in Amrita and Andrew's new roles as friends raising a child together.
    Host Marina Weiss does a little after-hours therapy and guides us in an open and vulnerable conversation about our ideal romantic partners, and how they might fit into our unconventional family. We all learn a lot. 

    • 39 min
    Season 1, Part 8: It’s Different for Boys

    Season 1, Part 8: It’s Different for Boys

    In this week's exploration of nontraditional family, we look at a male perspective on parenthood.
    Andrew sits down with our friend JR Andre - an educator and school administrator who is on the pathway to parenthood along with his husband. 
    We talk gay fatherhood, navigating relationships with the women involved in the process, and the importance of queer community and queer legacies.

    • 34 min
    Season 1, Part 7: It’s Different for Girls

    Season 1, Part 7: It’s Different for Girls

    On our journey to explore nontraditional family, we're taking a couple episodes to explore the gendered issues around the decision to have children (or not). This week, an episode very close to Amrita's heart.
    Special guest Ciara Pressler is an accomplished author and entrepreneur, and also confidently child-free.
    We talk cultural taboos, feminism, the wildly shallow dating pool, and the double-edged swords that affect moms and childfree women alike.  
    Next week: Andrew's turn!

    • 37 min
    Season 1, Part 6: The Business (and Law) of babymaking

    Season 1, Part 6: The Business (and Law) of babymaking

    We've gotten a lot of questions about the legal aspects of our platonic coparenting situation, and there's plenty to discuss!
    We get into the finer points of tax policy for self-employed parents -- plus, our experience with the fabulous Chosen Family Law Center, who are helping us iron out a co-parenting agreement for unpartnered parents. (Which tbh, all sorts of parents could probably benefit from).
    Our host Marina Weiss gamely braves this jaunt into the practical realities of chosen family.
     

    • 30 min
    Season 1, Part 5: Pregnancy feels and facts

    Season 1, Part 5: Pregnancy feels and facts

    Things are chugging along. Now that the baby's cooking, how has it been?
    BFFs Amrita and Andrew steer through the pregnancy as friends, finding new ways to care for one another, and maintain boundaries. 
    We also have several notes about the raggedy-ass American health care system....especially as uninsured freelancers. Yikes.
    Host Marina Weiss asks all the right questions and comments as we go.

    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
12 Ratings

12 Ratings

eriasmara ,

So happy to get a link to your podcast

Your latest episode is a beautiful commentary on friends. Way back when I too contemplated having a relationship similar to yours but big life events intervened and I was caught up in AIDS activism. Nonetheless I still ruminate what it would have been like……I look forward to listening to your next podcast and the journey both of you have undertaken.

newspeak67 ,

Refreshing

How refreshing to hear honest, interesting, nudging conversation. Love you guys.

CelizLA ,

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