In this EC therapy session, the client’s voice is not audible, but you can still follow along as John verbally reflects the client’s statements: What do we expect to get out of our relationships, and then get resentful when we don’t get it. You have to let go. Even if you are working on the level of manipulation, you have to give the impression of letting go, of not clinging, in order to not drive the other person away. But for ultimate psychological healing, you must move to authentic letting-go, not looking to the future, or hoping for reconciliation. You need to go to the feelings behind the compulsive behavior. A short EC Processing session concerning loneliness. Getting the energy from the inside that we seek from others.
For a complete explanation of the Emotional Clearing Process please refer to DEEP CLEARING by John Ruskan on Amazon books.