Advancing Authors: Writer Coaching Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Despite the fact that most of our writing schedules are our own personal goals, we often tell ourselves we are “behind” at them, or we think that other writers are further ahead than us.

Our brains love to tell us that “we are behind,” as though they are just stating the obvious. When actually, there is no universal measuring stick to tell us where we should be in our progress.

Being ‘behind,’ or ‘ahead,’ in writing is simply our own thoughts, not a fact of the world.

We believe that thinking, “We are behind,” will light a fire under us to get writing, but it does the exact opposite and makes us write less.

Here’s how you can start to notice this thought pattern so you can get ahead in your writing.

https://www.blockbusterya.com/post/behind-in-writing

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

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Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

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In this podcast, we answer listener-submitted questions like;


How can I stop being distracted by social media?
What is the difference between YA and Middle Grade?
How can I overcome my fear of failure?
What if I can’t pick a story idea?

Tune in for the answers or read the blog: https://www.blockbusterya.com/post/listener-qa-1

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

Jingle:

Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3788-funkorama

License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

For all writers (especially first-time authors), the desire to write competes with the desire not to write.

This often looks like a short period of time where you write consistently, immediately followed by a long period where you find yourself not writing as much as you want to be.

In your head, you find yourself thinking thoughts like,


"I work better in the morning; I’m just going to rest tonight instead.”
“I had a long day, and I want to relax.”
"I worked all day; I want a break."

So you take a break instead of writing.

It feels great in the moment, but afterwards, you berate yourself for it. You end up feeling miserable, and you're angry at yourself for giving in.

What’s actually going on here is that not that you don’t want the book badly enough or that you don’t have a good enough reason to write, it’s that you have competing desires.

But the more you push against your desires, the more you are creating a combative relationship with yourself. You will never get to the finished novel in this kind of relationship – because it’s forced and miserable.

In this podcast and blog, learn why the fastest way to get that finished novel is by loving that part of yourself that doesn’t want to write.

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

Jingle:

Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3788-funkorama

License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Do you know someone who makes writing hard for you? Are you constantly trying to tip-toe around their desires, or getting frustrated with their lack of understanding?

Writing can certainly be difficult when you spend the whole time wishing that this person was different, feeling guilty about upsetting them, or trying to write and do everything else at the same time.

I’ve come across two kinds of “challenging” people when it comes to writing. There is the person who can feel abandoned because of the time you spend writing, and the person who can feel threatened or inadequate because of your writing.

In this podcast and blog, learn how you can stop feeling guilty, angry, and anxious, and how to make your writing (and relationships) more effective.

https://www.blockbusterya.com/post/when-writing-is-affecting-your-relationships

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

Jingle:

Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3788-funkorama

License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Hi writers! I'm super excited to announce a new group program I'm launching called Advancing Authors.

I get a kick out of the name because I look at it like the anti-writing retreat.

The problem with writing retreats is they tell us that our lives are somehow a problem that need to be escaped from.

But you do not need to hide away from your life in order to write. Your life is not the problem. Your mindset is the problem.

In Advancing Authors, we teach you the tools to grow your self-confidence, to manage your calendar, to stop people-pleasing, and to reprogram your brain so it works with you and not against you.

We teach you lifelong skills for living your best life. Combined with individual writing tips along the way that will make your story stand out among the crowd.

You do not have to give up your job, your sleep, your family, or your sanity to be a writer. You can be that writer now – let us show you.

Sign up for the waitlist at https://www.blockbusterya.com/advancing-authors

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

Jingle:

Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3788-funkorama

License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Do you want to write or publish a novel because you think it will prove something about yourself?

Do you want a novel because you secretly believe you are not good enough as you are?

You’re not alone. Many writers, including myself, try to write books to feel better about ourselves.

But it doesn’t work.

Thinking that you aren’t good enough without a published novel puts way too much pressure on yourself to write a novel. You end up failing and proving yourself true that you are worthless. So to try and feel better, you bully yourself into writing. But this just makes you feel terrible and makes writing incredibly difficult.

The only way to write a novel (and to learn how to feel good about yourself) is to see yourself as worthy now.

This is some of the hardest and most profound work. Learn how you get started in this podcast episode.

https://www.blockbusterya.com/post/self-worth

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© Blockbuster YA Author Coaching LLP

Created and produced by Tiana Warner and Stephanie Warner

Jingle:

Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3788-funkorama

License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/