45 episodes

This podcast is about revealing and explaining, to women, the male perspective and thought processes in regards to romantic, flirtatious, and sexual male – female interactions. Topics discussed will include but are not limited to dating, relationships, and marriage. The objective of this podcast is to pull back the curtain on how men think, how men operate and what men desire, so women can more easily, efficiently, and successfully navigate the terrain of their love life. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whatizhethinking/support

What Iz He Thinking Alexander B. Stevens

    • Society & Culture
    • 3.9 • 8 Ratings

This podcast is about revealing and explaining, to women, the male perspective and thought processes in regards to romantic, flirtatious, and sexual male – female interactions. Topics discussed will include but are not limited to dating, relationships, and marriage. The objective of this podcast is to pull back the curtain on how men think, how men operate and what men desire, so women can more easily, efficiently, and successfully navigate the terrain of their love life. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whatizhethinking/support

    Ask Alex: Dating Single Mothers

    Ask Alex: Dating Single Mothers

    Single Mothers

    Single Fathers

    Double Standards

    Who is more Accepting of Kids

    PreSelection

    Wing Woman


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    • 30 min
    Ask Alex: Better to Wanted or Needed?

    Ask Alex: Better to Wanted or Needed?

    In this episode of the podcast, Alexander B. Stevens and his panel of guests, Rayus J, Karl, and JT, continue their captivating discussion exploring love, relationships, and dating. First, they tackle the topic of whether men want to be needed in relationships, or if only being wanted but not needed is good enough. The conversation continues with a discussion on dating based on potential versus current reality. The panel introduces dating based on projection, which goes beyond potential and shows tangible evidence of progress toward goals.

    Throughout the episode, the group highlights mutual support's importance in a successful relationship, inspiring each other's growth. They address avoiding shallow thinking, missed opportunities, and women's role in motivating men's growth.



    In this episode, you'll learn about:


    Men's desire to be desired
    Men's need to be needed
    Dating expectations at different life stages
    The difference between projection and potential in relationships
    The significance of bringing value to a partnership
    Avoiding shallow thinking and missed opportunities
    The role of women in motivating men's growth



    Don't miss this compelling discussion unraveling the complexities of dating and empowering you to make informed decisions in matters of the heart.




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    • 32 min
    Ask Alex: Right Person Wrong Time

    Ask Alex: Right Person Wrong Time

    "Sometimes it's not that two people aren't right for each other, it's more like the timing wasn't right."  (Jasmine V.)
    In this ASK ALEX Q & A episode, I team up with 3 other gentlemen and we take a trip down memory lane and discuss our experiences with relationships and dating in our late teens and early 20s. We also share what advice we would give to our younger selves about dating. In the main segment of the episode, we break down the topic of mixed signals in relationships. We explore the scenario of a man stating that he cares for, is attracted to, and sees a future with a woman, but believes the timing is not right. The question is, can a man truly feel this way and still not contact her? We discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from pride and lack of wisdom to simply not being ready for a relationship. We also suggest that it is important to be aware of mixed signals and to keep an open mind about the possibility of reconnecting in the future. Overall, this episode provides valuable insights and advice on how to navigate mixed signals and mixed feelings in relationships. Listen as we explore and discuss the nuances of this topic!

    #relationshipadvice #dating #timing






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    • 26 min
    Selfish = Single

    Selfish = Single

    "Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness" (Napolean Hill).  "If selfishness is the key to being miserable, then selflessness must be the key to being happy!" (Joyce Meyer). At the beginning of this season, we discussed reasons why you are single. In this episode, we close out the season by tackling another reason why you arent in the LTR you desire (or your current relationship is toxic), which is selfishness. If you want to know why selfishness is a productive quality man (and healthy relationship) repellant or if you want to know the mindset you should adopt instead of selfishness, this is the podcast episode for you!


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    • 22 min
    Opposite SEX Friendships

    Opposite SEX Friendships

    “‎Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.” ~ G. Randolph ~. In this episode of the podcast, we discuss what a real friend is, if men and women can truly be platonic friends, why women are more welcoming to opposite-sex friendships than men, and the ulterior motives some people secretly have when they get in opposite-sex platonic friendships.  If you ever wanted to know the answer to any of these questions, this is the episode for you!


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    • 37 min
    The 7 Biggest Misconceptions About Men

    The 7 Biggest Misconceptions About Men

    "Attempting to get at truth means rejecting stereotypes and cliches" (Harold Evans).   There are many stereotypes and generalizations about men and how we think and act that are exaggerated, at best, or just plain untrue, at worst.  In this podcast episode, we discuss the largest misconceptions and incorrect stereotypes that women and society as a whole have about men, with over half a dozen different successful married men.  If you are wondering if you are living your life according to faulty generalizations about men OR if you are looking to discover a more complete truth about men and how we think and act, this is the podcast for you!


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    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

3.9 out of 5
8 Ratings

8 Ratings

Kinso ,

Entertaining

Entertaining and brutally honest takes. I’m not the target audience for this but it definitely provides a perspective on gender roles that’s worth a listen.

CHIDiAM ,

Mind provoking

Great episodes to drive your mind to think about relationships - no matter where you are or desire to be within your relationship journey.

DuncanMinutz ,

Entertaining!

I enjoy listening to ABS keeping it real! Love it or hate it, it’s 100% honest.

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