Unshackled Love: Parenting in Faith Bruce and Kaila Payne

In this episode, Bruce is reflecting on Fatherhood and what it means to him. He invites you to their dining room table as all NINE little Paynes join the conversation to reflect on their favorite family traditions and give some honest feedback to their dad about areas he can grow. Scripture References:"As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him." (Psalms 103:13)"Endure suffering as discipline: God is dealing with you as sons. For what son is t...

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila address their children's many accomplishments and the drive for wanting to be the best by giving your best and, as parents, the importance of having expectations for effort. Scripture Citations“A slacker’s craving will kill him because his hands refuse to work.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭21‬:‭25‬ ‭CSB‬‬)“There is profit in all hard work, but endless talk leads only to poverty.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭14‬:‭23‬ ‭CSB‬‬)“Don’t you know that the runners in a stadium all race, but ...

In this episode, to commemorate Mother's Day, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of the role of moms in a family, the impact their moms have made in their lives, and Kaila shares her purpose as a mom raising her children into adults. Scripture Citations“About this time, a man and woman from the tribe of Levi got married. The woman became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She saw that he was a special baby and kept him hidden for three months. But when she could no longer hide him,...

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila answer some of their most frequently asked questions by others and give a little bit of insight into their lives as parents of nine and how they have had to adapt to meet the needs of their family.FREE EVENT: Controlling your Chaos (Sign-up)[01:45] What kind of car do you drive?[04:09] Did you always want a lot of kids?[07:59] When do you get "you" time?[12:34] How do you do vacation?[18:38] How do you cook/grocery shop?[24:17] How do you manage everyone's sch...

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the busyness of their schedule and open up about the vulnerability that comes from being busy and tired, when you feel like you’re running on fumes and have very little to give. Life can weigh you down, but it doesn't have to if you keep your eyes fixed on Jesus who rejuvenates our souls. Episode 10: Q&A Form[01:06] Intro: Busy Schedules[04:32] Being Obedient when Tired[06:48] Elijah at Mt. Carmel[09:53] The Crash[16:42] Refueling with Jesu...

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about how they have shifted their perspective on parenting to reflect God’s love for sinners as they raise children who are being tempted by the devil and the cravings of the world. They talk about the importance of keeping your own spiritual walk strong, how to show God’s love and grace through patience and understanding, while making sure that we are being a living example of what it means to have a relationship with Jesus. [01:45] Parenting throug...