104 episodes
Building A Cooperative Co-Parenting Partnership Together Sai Gonzalez
-
- Kids & Family
-
-
5.0 • 1 Rating
-
Welcome to the "Positively Inspired CoParenting" podcast, hosted by Sai Gonzalez and featuring Rick Hartley. This podcast brings a transformative approach to cooperative co-parenting, based on Sai and Rick's personal journey of turning challenges into a harmonious and nurturing environment for their children. It's time to get past the old, failed relationship to make room for a brand-new cooperative co-parenting partnership / relationship. Your children will thank you forever for doing so.
Rick experienced a tumultuous childhood due to his parents' dysfunctional co-parenting after their divorce when he was just 8 years old. This traumatic experience shaped his perspective on the importance of a healthy co-parenting relationship, though he initially struggled to implement this in his own life.
Rick and his first wife divorced after 8 years, leaving their two children to navigate the fallout of a troubled co-parenting relationship. During this time, neither Rick nor his first wife fully understood the concept of positive co-parenting, which led to further challenges and stress for their children. Sai, as their stepmom, witnessed firsthand the negative impacts of this dysfunction.
After Rick and Sai divorced following 14 years of marriage and two children of their own, they knew their approach to co-parenting had to change. Determined to prioritize their children's well-being, they worked tirelessly to create a new dynamic that was supportive and stable. Initially living apart, Rick moved back into the family home after three years, creating a unique roommate-style arrangement that brought immense joy to their kids, sparing them the stress of moving between homes.
During this 10-year period, they developed an innovative co-parenting framework, one that isn't commonly discussed by traditional co-parenting programs. Their strategy focuses on building a new relationship post-divorce, emphasizing self-responsibility regardless of the other parent's behavior. This approach primarily supports clients where both parents are committed to the work but also includes processes for situations where one parent refuses to participate. With more than 40 years of combined experience, from the perspective of both a child in a co-parenting situation and as co-parents themselves, their podcast and programs offer invaluable insights and practical advice.
Join them as they share their journey, strategies, and the lessons they've learned, along with inspiring success stories from parents who have transformed their co-parenting dynamics. Their goal is to support a community that values their kids' well-being above all else.
Subscribe now to gain access to their unique strategies and practical advice, and join a community dedicated to making co-parenting a positive and enriching experience for everyone involved.
-
Financial Management in Co-Parenting (Part 2)
Can effective budgeting make your co-parenting journey stress-free?
Amy and Brian's regular financial check-ins and use of a shared spreadsheet allowed them to manage expenses smoothly, reducing stress and creating a stable environment for their children.
Title: Financial Management in Co-Parenting - Budgeting and Handling Expenses Jointly and Fairly
Part Two: Advanced Strategies for Effective Financial Management in Co-Parenting
🎙️Podcast Episode Summary: Master Advanced Financial Strategies for Co-Parenting 🌟👨👩👧👦
Are financial disagreements still adding stress to your co-parenting relationship? Discover how advanced financial strategies and clear communication can transform your co-parenting journey in part two of our "Positively Inspired Co-Parenting" podcast series.
In this episode, we share two compelling stories that highlight the profound impact of cooperative financial management. Follow Amy and Brian as they navigate the complexities of budgeting for their daughter's summer camp with thoughtful planning and mutual support. Contrast their experience with Sam and Laura's struggle to manage expenses separately, leading to conflict and distress for their son, Jack.
Learn practical, advanced strategies for fostering a collaborative approach to financial management, ensuring a stable and nurturing environment for your children. Don't miss these valuable insights that could make a significant difference in your co-parenting relationship.
Tune in now to part two of our series on financial management in co-parenting and take the next step towards a harmonious co-parenting partnership. 🎧✨ -
Financial Management in Co-Parenting (Part 1)
Why showing up for Your kid's games can make or break Your Co-Parenting Journey.
Karen and John's united presence at David's basketball games boosted his confidence and made him feel supported, showcasing the noticeable benefits of a cooperative financial arrangement.
Title: Financial Management in Co-Parenting - Budgeting and Handling Expenses Jointly and Fairly
Part One: Setting the Foundation for Financial Management in Co-Parenting
🎙️Podcast Episode Summary: Reduce Stress and Build Stability: Financial Management for Co-Parents 🌟👨👩👧👦
Are financial disagreements adding stress to your co-parenting relationship? Discover how clear communication and joint financial planning can transform your co-parenting journey in our latest episode of the "Positively Inspired CoParenting" podcast.
In this episode, we share two compelling stories that highlight the profound impact of cooperative financial management. Follow Karen and John as they navigate the challenges of budgeting for their son's basketball season with open dialogue and mutual support. Contrast their experience with Jake and Emily's struggle to manage expenses separately, leading to tension and distress for their daughter, Sarah.
Learn practical strategies for fostering a collaborative approach to money management, ensuring a stable and nurturing environment for your children. Don't miss these valuable insights that could make a significant difference in your co-parenting relationship.
Tune in now to part one of our series on financial management in co-parenting and take the first step towards a harmonious co-parenting partnership. 🎧✨ -
Educating Relatives on Co-Parenting Dynamics (Part 2)
Title: Educating Relatives on Co-Parenting Dynamics - Guiding Extended Family on Their Roles and Boundaries
Part Two: Maintaining Healthy Relationships with Extended Family
🎙️Podcast Episode Summary: Strengthen Your Co-Parenting with Extended Family Support: A Must-Listen Episode 🌟👨👩👧👦
Welcome back to the "Positively Inspired CoParenting" podcast! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deeper into the critical role of extended family in co-parenting dynamics. Discover how proactive communication and inclusion can transform family relationships and create a nurturing environment for your children.
Through the compelling stories of Emma and Jake, and Mike and Sarah, we reveal the stark contrasts between effective communication and its absence. Emma and Jake's thoughtful monthly newsletters kept their extended family informed and engaged, fostering a supportive network that made family gatherings joyful and harmonious. Conversely, Mike and Sarah’s lack of communication led to misunderstandings and tension, disrupting their children's celebrations and well-being.
Tune in to learn actionable strategies for maintaining healthy relationships with extended family members, ensuring your co-parenting efforts are supported and your children feel loved and secure. This episode is packed with practical tips and inspiring stories that will empower you to build a cohesive and positive family dynamic. Don't miss out on these valuable insights—listen now and transform your co-parenting journey! 🌟👶 -
Educating Relatives on Co-Parenting Dynamics (Part 1)
Title: Educating Relatives on Co-Parenting Dynamics - Guiding Extended Family on Their Roles and Boundaries
Part One: Understanding the Role of Relatives in Co-Parenting
🎙️Podcast Episode Summary: Unlock Harmonious Co-Parenting: How to Guide Extended Family Dynamics 🌟👨👩👧👦
Welcome to the "Positively Inspired CoParenting" podcast! In this must-listen episode, we uncover the transformative power of clear communication and boundary-setting in co-parenting, emphasizing the crucial role of extended family members. Through the compelling stories of Linda and Sarah, we demonstrate how proactive steps can create a supportive environment for children.
Linda’s story showcases the triumph of effective communication with her brother Alex, turning a potentially tense holiday into a joyous, conflict-free celebration, ensuring her daughter Emma feels secure and loved. Conversely, Sarah’s experience highlights the detrimental impact of unresolved family tensions on her daughter Lily’s well-being, stressing the necessity of involving and educating relatives about co-parenting dynamics.
Tune in to learn practical strategies for fostering understanding and cooperation within your extended family, ensuring your children thrive in a positive, nurturing environment. This episode is a treasure trove of insights and actionable advice for any single or divorced parent striving to build a harmonious co-parenting partnership. Don't miss out on these valuable lessons that could transform your family gatherings and strengthen your co-parenting journey. 🌟👶 -
The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co Parenting Disputes (Part 2)
Title: The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co Parenting Disputes: How Mediation Can Be Used Effectively When Conflicts Arise
Part Two: Implementing Mediation Agreements and Handling Non-Compliance
🎙️ Podcast Episode Summary: The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co-Parenting Disputes: Ensuring Compliance and Cooperation 🌟👨👩👧👦
In this essential episode of "Positively Inspired CoParenting," we continue exploring the role of mediation in resolving co-parenting conflicts, focusing on implementing agreements and handling non-compliance.
Story 1: Sara and Mike’s Successful Implementation of Mediation Agreement Sara from Boston and Mike from Denver find themselves in constant conflict over their son Ethan’s schedule. Mediation helps them create a balanced plan for academics and soccer. They implement the agreement successfully, leading to seamless coordination and a happy, balanced life for Ethan. This story highlights the positive impact of commitment and cooperation.
Story 2: Lisa and Tom’s Struggle with Non-Compliance Lisa from Atlanta and Tom from Seattle struggle with Tom's inconsistent adherence to their mediation agreement. Tom’s failure to follow the visitation schedule leaves their daughter Emma feeling let down and affects her emotional well-being. This story underscores the challenges of non-compliance and the importance of commitment to mediation agreements.
Tune in to learn how effective implementation and adherence to mediation agreements can transform co-parenting dynamics, ensuring a stable and supportive environment for your children. Discover how prioritizing your child's well-being through cooperative solutions can make a significant difference. 🌟👶 -
The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co-Parenting Disputes (Part 1)
Title: The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co-Parenting Disputes: How Mediation Can Be Used Effectively When Conflicts Arise
Part One: Understanding the Mediation Process in Co-Parenting
🎙️ Podcast Episode Summary: The Role of Mediation in Resolving Co-Parenting Disputes: Practical Insights for Harmonious Parenting 🌟👨👩👧👦
In this insightful episode of "Positively Inspired CoParenting," we explore the transformative power of mediation in resolving co-parenting conflicts, focusing on real-life applications and practical strategies.
Story 1: Mia and Jordan’s Extracurricular Activities Dispute Mia, from New York, and Jordan, from Chicago, struggle to balance their daughter Ava’s academics and extracurricular activities. Mia emphasizes academics, while Jordan values Ava's soccer involvement. Their differing priorities lead to tension until they try mediation. With the mediator's help, they find a balanced schedule that allows Ava to excel both academically and on the soccer field, demonstrating the importance of communication and compromise.
Story 2: Brian and Laura’s Living Arrangements Dispute Brian from San Francisco and Laura from Seattle face ongoing conflict over their son Ethan’s living arrangements. Brian wants equal time, while Laura prefers a primary residence. Without mediation, their disagreements persist, causing emotional distress for Ethan. This story highlights the missed opportunity for harmony that mediation could provide.
Tune in to learn how mediation can help co-parents navigate conflicts, ensuring a supportive and stable environment for their children. Discover how prioritizing your child’s happiness through cooperative solutions can transform your co-parenting journey. 🌟👶