100 episodes
RECONNECTED MARRIAGE PARTNERS | Christian Marriage, Build Connection, Intimacy, Quality Time, Living Abroad Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists
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5.0 • 4 Ratings
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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while running a household away from your support system?
Do you have a longing desire to feel seen, heard & valued but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Do you wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments or misunderstandings that drain your energy?
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life and the additional stress and challenges of living abroad, it can seem even more daunting…but it doesn’t have to be!
Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple of African descent and parents of three. After relocating 3 times over the course of 13+ years of marriage, we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face as they navigate life abroad. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood in a new environment because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy while raising a family (and living far away from family).
Yet, through it all and despite the unexpected life challenges we faced along the way, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned and continue to learn on this journey.
Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast!
In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more beneficial and productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship.
You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you carve out more quality time together so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center.
If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place!
We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire…no matter where you live!
For questions/inquiries/coaching:
-Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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EP 106 \\ Struggling With Your Mental Health? Here Is A Special Letter & Message For You
Hi friend!
Are you struggling with your mental health during this season of your life? Are you feeling overwhelmed by mental health challenges at this point in time?
Does this sound familiar?
You find yourself in a place you really don’t want to be…
It feels like a battle is taking place…
Not around you… not on the outside… but right on the inside...
The battle of the mind.
It feels like you are in a prison not a physical one but in this case…a prison of your thoughts… a prison you so badly want to get out of…
Friend, if this sounds like the place where you find yourself, I want you to know that you’re not alone.
I have been where you are. I see you. I know this word describes what you deeply desire:
“FREEDOM”
I am here extending my hand to you, sitting with you, thinking about you...
About to present something to you…
A letter…a special letter.
A letter born out of my pain…
A letter I wrote during one of the toughest moments of my life as I struggled with my mental health…and thoughts that I so badly wanted to run away from…
A letter I wrote as I thought about you…your pain…and what you could be going through...
A letter I wrote during a challenging period in my life…when I found myself in a place that felt more like a prison…
Just like you…a prison of my thoughts
And now, I want to read that letter to you as I think of you and many others that have found themselves in this prison at this time of the year…
A prison so familiar...
Tune in to listen to this episode to find out more plus grab some encouragement along the way!
Sending love, prayers, and comfort your way…
I pray this episode blesses you.
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Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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EP 105 \\ Staying connected as a couple while dealing with the challenges in life
Hi friend!
When we look at the state of the economy, rising interest rates, high cost of living, or when we encounter personal challenges like job loss or health issues...the list can go on and on, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond to these challenges can either strengthen our marriages or result in us drifting apart from each other. Here is the reality: Challenges of life don’t stop when one gets married…but we can choose to stay as a united team instead of a divided team in marriage despite the challenges that may arise. This is why we will be sharing 5 powerful tips for staying connected as a couple while dealing with life's challenges.
Ready to know more?
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
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EP 104 \\ Building a Thriving Marriage While Caring for Children With Disabilities with Kristin & Todd Evans
Hi friend!
Building a strong and thriving marriage takes hard work. Now, adding a child makes it feel even more challenging. For married couples caring for a child or children with disabilities, a thriving marriage can seem impossible. Research has shown that these couples face unique and intense stressors and are at increased risk for divorce. The additional challenges, responsibilities, and grief can take a toll.
In this enlightening episode, our special guests, Kristin and Todd Evans will be taking us on a journey as they share their knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to the title of their new book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.
So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic for today.
Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW and Todd Evans, Phd, MA, are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church, camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling.
You can connect with Kristin and Todd Evans by visiting their website where you will find out more about their resources and their book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.
https://disabilityparenting.com/
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Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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EP 103 \\ Are Parents Causing Disconnection In Your Marriage? 3 Questions To Ask To Find Out (And What To Do About It)
Hi friend!
Disconnection in marriage can occur for various reasons. One of them could be as a result of our other important or close relationships. What if there was one relationship that could be hurting your marriage and affecting your connection with your spouse? What if this involved the relationship with your parents? Want to know more? In this episode, you will discover 3 questions to ask to find out if your parents are really causing a disconnect between you and your spouse...and what to do about it.
Alright, ready, set, tune in to listen to find out more:)
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Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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EP 102 \\ STOP Avoiding Conflict In Your Marriage. Try These 3 Hacks Instead! (Part 2)
Hi friend!
Are you tired of avoiding conflict or engaging in conflict avoidance in your marriage, an action that further creates distance between you and your spouse? Are you struggling to have that difficult conversation with your spouse? If so, this episode is for you. Get ready to discover 3 hacks to try instead of avoiding conflict in your marriage. These are actionable strategies that could bring you closer as a couple and strengthen your connection in marriage.
Curious to find out?
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
Related episodes:
EP 101 \\ STOP Avoiding Conflict In Your Marriage. Here Are 3 Reasons Why (Part 1)
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Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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EP 101 \\ STOP Avoiding Conflict In Your Marriage. Here Are 3 Reasons Why (Part 1)
Hi friend!
Are you avoiding a difficult conversation with your spouse because you want to avoid conflict? Maybe you don’t like conflicts and would rather zone out or tune off or walk away or avoid that difficult conversation. Facing conflicts may feel uncomfortable, so engaging in conflict avoidance may seem like the safer route to take or is it? When we choose to avoid difficult conversations in our marriages, it may seem harmless but it affects marriages. If you’re wondering how, then tune in to listen to discover 3 reasons why you need to stop avoiding difficult conversations or engaging in conflict avoidance in your marriage.
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Thank you and stay connected!
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Customer Reviews
Informative and Valuable Podcasts for a strong and stable marriage
This is an informative and valuable podcast that will produce a strong and stable marriage.
The content of this podcast is needed for times like this when marriages are not stable. Information and experience from Dr. Ebun and David will help keep marriages strong.
God bless your family and ministry.
May couples who listen to Happy African Family Podcasts find new purpose, strength, and meaning for their marriages in Jesus’ name.
Pastor Steve and Lillian
Very insightful
I found this podcast very enriching and full of great truths. It’s lighthearted and easy to follow but yet so deep. Thank you so much for sharing these gems that are sure to impact marriages for the best. I can’t wait to hear more and I am looking forward to your next episodes
Banke Ahove
Awesome work and excellent presentation. Looking forward to future podcasts.