How Much Do Words Matter‪?‬ Kindness Moves

How Much Do Words Matter?



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Lois Paula: Whether you're hoping to heal the world or heal yourself, this podcast is here for you to highlight how kindness moves.



Nan: Yes, how kindness moves you to take action, you yourself, or just makes you feel something so good it's contagious. You might have been touched by a simple act of kindness, you might want tips on how you can act now in your community, or you just love the feeling of doing good.



Lois Paula: Welcome to Kindness Moves, the podcast brought to you by INC Media. We're your hosts, LP and Nan.



Nan : Right. Well LP, I'm really excited because we have another special episode today and the topic for today is we're talking about words. You know from childhood, many of us are taught to speak politely. You know, for example, we say, we're taught to say “Thank you” say “Please” or you know, ask someone “How are you.?” In general, we're taught to use kind words and avoid the bad ones, right? But it's something that becomes kind of second nature. So when we look back at our childhood and, and we think about the words that were spoken to us; maybe the words that we read or even heard, how, how much of an impact did that really make?



Lois Paula: Right. It's major. Words have an impact. Whether it's something that we say, whether it's something that we write, wherever we publish it, wherever we put it out–words have an impact. And you mentioned the words we read and I think we don't realize, a lot of us, that that's another avenue for us to receive words right?  Some of us are visual and so that reinforces what we're ah listening to right? We see it so that it reinforces what we're hearing, so to say, we read it. But you know when we think about it, ah, even from our earliest days of childhood until now–the words that were spoken to us, the words that we have read or the words that we ourselves have said, they all have shaped who we are and our experiences. They've all impacted one another.



Nan : Right. I totally agree and, you know, that entire spectrum of words, you know, good and bad and everything in between has had such an impact you know? And, and that's why I can't wait to jump in today's conversation. You know, not only do we have an interesting topic as I mentioned earlier, we also have some great guests joining us today. Ah, so first we meet an author who has published a children's book entitled Mr. Awesome Great Day and she currently has another one in the works. So please welcome Rachelle De Dios.



Rachelle: Hi 



Nan: Hi Rachelle.



Lois Paula: You like going by Rach right? 



Rachelle: Yeah, most of my friends call me that and you guys are my friends and everyone listening so.



Lois Paula: Hi Rach. Thanks so much for joining us today. And I think you are our first guest on Kindness Moves who has actually had a book published. Congratulations to you, that's extremely amazing. You know it's such a great accomplishment just in itself. Um, and I'd love, we'd love to know–how did this all start? So can you tell us a little bit just about your journey from um, you know, childhood up until now, you're a published author. How did this all start?



Rachelle: Awesome. Ah, thank you so much for having me and thank you for the kind words. Um, yeah to be honest with you guys I never thought I would create a book, write a book. That was never in the cards for me. But I think the whole, you know, story that I created, and I made, I didn't realize how much it meant to me and when I started to see my story kind of unfold in my life with, you know, some things that I felt about growing up and how I really wanted attributes to be known more than our titles or attribut...