10 episodes

Ever wonder what happened to the kids in the 90’s that could never get out of the closet...maybe trapped in there with old field hockey sticks and uniforms? Stories of flannels and baby white tank tops? Maybe a few “oops, I swear I was just tipsy stories..." It’s mid-life and you finally get the courage to say the words...yep, I’m queer… now what?! Welcome to a podcast about midlife and FINALLY out of the closet! Meet Alex, a human who finally got the words, non binary and transgender, at 40 years old and Kim, at 42 was finally able to say, I'm here and I'm queer.

How To Be Queer‪!‬ Alex Vaughan and Kim Salvaggio

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 18 Ratings

Ever wonder what happened to the kids in the 90’s that could never get out of the closet...maybe trapped in there with old field hockey sticks and uniforms? Stories of flannels and baby white tank tops? Maybe a few “oops, I swear I was just tipsy stories..." It’s mid-life and you finally get the courage to say the words...yep, I’m queer… now what?! Welcome to a podcast about midlife and FINALLY out of the closet! Meet Alex, a human who finally got the words, non binary and transgender, at 40 years old and Kim, at 42 was finally able to say, I'm here and I'm queer.

    Hetero-WHAT?!

    Hetero-WHAT?!

    Kim and Alex discuss new language, acknowledge Transgender Awareness Month in November, and the energetic state of the world in queerness.



    Sponsored by Out Front Magazine. Contact for sponsorship.


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    • 47 min
    International Pronouns Day!

    International Pronouns Day!

    Join Kim (she/her) and Alex (they/them) for a conversation about pronouns, the future of workforces and the energetic realness of allyship. Just showing up, being willing to risk what you think you know...do you dare?! I mean, it is almost Halloween. ;)



    If you are interested in sponsoring, please reach out to Maggie or Addison at Out Front Magazine for details! Link below.

    Sponsored by Out Front Magazine



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    • 50 min
    October Queer Magic

    October Queer Magic

    Welcome back everyone! We're back with partnered with Out Front Magazine, a Denver-based queer publication available nationwide!

    Tune in with Kim (she/her) and Alex (they/them) as they share about queer magic, coming out stories, LGTBQ history and some Top Gun tickles. Someone please help them understand what is happening with Tom Cruise. #lgbtqpodcast



    Out Front Magazine

    www.outfrontmagazine.com


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    • 51 min
    Pronouns and Practice

    Pronouns and Practice

    Kim and Alex drive further into pronoun usage, gender identity and experience in the workplace…

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    • 59 min
    Interview with Cristina Michaels!

    Interview with Cristina Michaels!

    Kim and Alex get to interview Cristina Michaels (she/her/hers)! from Healing Roots Acupuncture, founder of Queer Dance Project and author of The Adventures of Vaginoplasty: A Trans Woman's Guide to Healing (link below).

    Cristina has a comprehensive 25 years experience in the rehabilitation of dancers, sports injuries, veterans and the psycho-emotional care of patient's. Some of her many specialties is in queer and transgender care, traumatic brain injuries, and psycho- emotional care. Pain management and sports injuries are all too familiar, since specializing in Sports Injury and dry needling while in her graduate program. Cristina identifies as a transgender female, she loves teaching dance and Qigong in the evening at her dance studio Queer Dance Project.

    If you have questions contact Cristina at 720-443-2966 or cristinahealingroots@gmail.com

    Healing Roots Acupuncture:

    https://healingrootsacupuncture.com

    Queer Dance Project:

    www.queerdanceproject.com

    Purchase Cristina's book! 

    The Adventures of Vaginoplasty: A Trans Woman's Guide to Healing

    Email Kim and Alex at: howtobequeerpodcast@gmail.com

    How To Be Queer is partnered with Out Front Magazine-- visit them at www.outfrontmagazine.com

    For inquiries, email: howtobequeerpodcast@gmail.com


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    • 1 hr 15 min
    Interview with Melissa Giberson, author of "Late Bloomer: Finding My Authentic Self at Midlife"

    Interview with Melissa Giberson, author of "Late Bloomer: Finding My Authentic Self at Midlife"

    Kim and Alex have the pleasure of speaking with Melissa Giberson, author of Late Bloomer: Finding My Authentic Self at Midlife (Releasing on August 8, available for pre-order through Amazon!) ORDER NOW!!!!

    Melissa Giberson is a middle-aged suburban wife and mother of two kids, solidly planted in the life she’s always wanted. Yet she longs for something more—something she can’t quite put her finger on until, one day at the Y, she finds herself mesmerized by the sight of a naked woman and asks herself for the first time: Am I gay?

    This revelation sends Melissa on a head-spinning journey of self-discovery, one that challenges everything she thinks she knows about herself, forces her to decide exactly how much she’s willing to risk for authenticity, and shakes the foundations of the family she’s fiercely determined to shield from the kinds of wounds she sustained during her own childhood. Torn between her desire to be true to herself and her desire to protect her children, she is consumed by fear and conflicting emotions—and when her husband unexpectedly serves her divorce papers, her confusion only deepens.

    Adrift in uncharted waters, Melissa finds fragments of understanding and peace in unexpected places—in a conference room in Israel, a small fishing village in Cape Cod, and at a yoga retreat center—that help her deconstruct her preconceptions about faith and identity and begin to construct a new framework for her life. Over the course of her ten-year journey, she finds hope, love, and more courage than she ever knew she was capable of, and she gradually assembles the puzzle that is her—the real her.

    Tune in to the interview and join the fun. Find Melissa Giberson at www.melissagiberson.com

    In collaboration with Out Front Magazine https://www.outfrontmagazine.com Amplifying queer voices since 1976


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    • 1 hr 12 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
18 Ratings

18 Ratings

AprilSweat1005 ,

Thank you!

Such an informative podcast!

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