I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics

I am a moderate Democrat with an Independent partner (who nominally has supported Donald Trump)- and a vociferous, Left-leaning family (who think Donald Trump and his supporters are evil). At times over the last six years I've had bruising conflicts with my partner but also felt increasingly alienated from my Left-leaning family and friends and the way they have judged others whose politics differ from theirs. I love them all- but this is hard. I feel trapped, caught in the middle, and mystified. I have found practical guidance and solace from Dr. Jeanne Safer and all those she interviewed via this podcast and her book. I have implemented all these strategies and things have improved. Love has flourished. It's still kind of hard. I admire the couples and friends in the podcast for being who they are and for rising above the partisan fray, as I am doing. I am forever grateful for Dr. Safer's book, which I have read and re-read. The podcast is particularly beautiful and poignant because you hear the friends and partners telling their own stories. So many thanks.

Every single American ought to listening to this. Loved the various types of relationships chosen to be presented. Well crafted. The points made are functional for all relationship types and conflict topics, not only marital and political. Quick and easy listen - great for subway rides! Thank you for creating content on such a necessary topic to be addressed in today’s America. Excited to read the book!

Hearing the stories of the friends and couples that differ politically has been incredibly helpful. The way their differences are dealt with and the love and respect they still have for each other is enlightening. Love this podcast! Thank you for all you’ve done.

If everyone would take a moment to listen to this podcast I truly believe the world would be a nicer place to live, especially in the United States during this election time.