Called to Marriage Thomas & Marcia

In this episode of 'Called to Marriage,' we delve into the significance of finding contentment and simplicity amidst the busyness of life. Beginning with a scripture from Ecclesiastes 4:6, we reflect on its meaning and relevance to our current season of life, which is characterized by living simply and making financial sacrifices. We share our personal experiences of choosing to live on one income, downsizing our home, and the challenges and joys that come with these decisions. We address the societal pressures that often lead to dissatisfaction and compare our journey to others, highlighting the importance of contentment and the dangers of succumbing to FOMO (fear of missing out). Furthermore, we discuss the importance of having a strong vision for the future to navigate life's challenges confidently and the role of sacrifice in achieving long-term goals. We emphasize that life is seasonal, and understanding this can help foster contentment and gratitude in every stage of life. Throughout the episode, we encourage our listeners to embrace their current season, find joy and contentment in the simple things, and remember that personal growth and character development are just as important as material success. We wrap up the episode by inviting our listeners to engage with us through comments and feedback, expressing our gratitude for their support and love.



00:00 Opening and Scripture Reflection

00:45 Embracing Simplicity and Contentment in Life

03:42 The Joy of Living Within Your Means

07:30 The Long Game: Sacrifice Today for Comfort Tomorrow

13:33 The Importance of Vision in Navigating Life's Seasons

17:19 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action


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What are you waiting on the Lord for? How are you waiting? What is your attitude and posture toward God in delay? Thomas and I answer these questions for ourselves on this episode. We are waiting, hoping, and praying for another baby. Feel free to agree with us in prayer 🙏🏾 😊 but we are genuinely grateful to and content with God and all He has given us. Be encouraged, and may God’s PERFECT will be accomplished in all of our lives.

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Key Qualities to Look for in a Christian Marriage Partner



In this episode hosts Marcia and Thomas discuss essential qualities to look for in a potential Christian marriage partner. They emphasize that choosing a spouse aligned with Christian values and beliefs is crucial for a harmonious and fulfilling marriage. The episode outlines seven key qualities, including being a Christian with shared biblical values, adaptability, selflessness, faithfulness, a vision for the future (especially for men), and respect (particularly important for women to have towards men).

Marcia and Thomas illustrate the importance of these qualities through practical examples and biblical references, stressing that these traits contribute to a strong, unified marriage that reflects Christ's relationship with the church. They encourage listeners to seek and develop these qualities within themselves and in their potential partners.



00:00 Welcome & Introduction: The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner

02:07 The Foundation of Faith in Marriage

12:11 Adapting and Compromising: Key Qualities for a Successful Marriage

18:55 The Impact of Adaptability on Family Dynamics

23:50 The Importance of Self-Sacrifice in Marriage

25:34 Embracing the Mind of Christ for a Stronger Union

25:39 The Significance of Being a Believer in Marriage

28:13 Demonstrating Selflessness: A Key to Marital Success

31:18 The Role of Commitment and Faithfulness in Marriage

36:30 Seeking a Partner with Vision: Guidance for Women

39:22 Respecting Your Partner: A Foundation for Marriage

45:51 Concluding Thoughts on Marriage and God's Glory

Summary of qualities to look for in a potential spouse:
1. Equally yoked (not just a professing Christian, but shared/biblical values)
2. Flexible/Adaptable
3. Self-sacrificing
4. Committed/Faithful
Bonuses:
*A man with a strong vision or devotedly seeking
*A woman who respects and admires you

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After a few lovely years in our last apartment, we have decided to move! Some would consider it a downgrade, but we consider it a great move for us in this season! God has prospered us, and we are trusting Him in our new place and in this new season! We are just sharing some life updates for testimony and posterity sake.

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Counsel is important for life in general, and especially when making one the the most important decisions of life, which is who to marry. On this episode, we discuss the value of counseling at every stage of a relationship, whether simply interested in someone, actually seeing someone, about to get married, or married for several years. The Bible said that in the multitude of counselors there is safety, so we conclude that it is wise to get counsel from family, godly friends, seminars, workshops, books, and so forth as you navigate your romantic relationship life.

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Lessons we’ve learned from Charlie
1. The activity of the flesh causes visceral reactions in us. We should apply grace but also discipline! (00:43)
2. We are made to be moving constantly! (9:06)
3. From a young age, we have the capacity for extreme focus and diligence (17:10)
4. We are born with courage that we should work to protect. Fear hinders you. (Release your inhibitions!) (22:00)
5. *bonus* Eating habits are learned. (24:55)

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