Make More Love Ellen Dorian

In this episode of "Make More Love," Ellen starts with a personal story about the importance of health screenings, tying it into the broader theme of Living the Good Life.
Part 1: Examples of Modern Masculinity
Ellen uses the TV show "Ted Lasso" as a lens to discuss modern masculinity, highlighting characters who embody vulnerability, empathy, and personal growth. The show serves as a backdrop to explore characters' personal growth, relationships, and struggles.
Part 2: Relating Show Themes to Previous Podcast Episode
Ellen connects the show to themes discussed in her previous podcast episode, including extended adolescence, modern parenting, and evolving beliefs about masculinity. She discusses modern vs. traditional coaching styles and parental figures depicted in the show.
Part 3: Character Analysis
1. Ted Lasso:
- Strengths: Compassionate, optimistic, emotionally open.
- Weaknesses: Avoids deeper personal issues, impacting personal growth and effectiveness.
2. Coach Beard:
- Strengths: Wise, knowledgeable, cornerstone of the team's success.
- Weaknesses: Lone wolf, private life, reluctant to seek help.
3. Roy Kent:
- Strengths: Traditional alpha athlete with emotional intelligence and vulnerability.
- Weaknesses: Anger management issues, struggles with productive expression of anger.
4. Jamie Tartt:
- Strengths: Talented, evolves from self-centered to team player.
- Weaknesses: Arrogance, raw talent initially alienates others.
5. Higgins:
- Strengths: Fantasy father figure, supportive.
- Weaknesses: People pleaser, struggles with telling truth to power.
6. Nate Shelley:
- Strengths: Dramatic transformation, valuable team member.
- Weaknesses: Insecurity, resentment, negative transformation.
7. Dani Rojas:
- Strengths: Eternal cheerleader, positive.
- Weaknesses: One-dimensional, parallels Ted's positivity issues.
8. Isaac McAdoo:
- Strengths: Leadership potential, eventually embraces role.
- Weaknesses: Imposter syndrome, high expectations isolate him.
9. Trent Crimm:
- Strengths: High integrity, role model for modern masculinity.
- Weaknesses: Not explicitly discussed.
Part 4: Respectful Portrayal of Women
Ellen praises the show for normalizing gender equality and portraying women in positions of power without emphasizing female exceptionalism.
Part 5: Key Lessons from Ted Lasso Characters
1. Embracing Vulnerability and Humility: Ted's authenticity and willingness to admit mistakes.
2. Championing Your Partner: Roy's empathy.
3. Commitment to Personal Development: Jamie's journey from arrogance to humility and team player.
4. Confidence Without Arrogance: Coach Beard's not showing off his knowledge unless invited.
5. Self-Worth: Nate's struggle with self-worth and its impact on relationships and personal growth.
Key Takeaways:1. Modern Masculinity in Action: Characters illustrate empathy, vulnerability, and strength, offering practical applications for listeners.
2. Success Through Attraction, Advocacy, and Investment: Prioritizing meaningful connections and investing in others' growth.
3. Inner Mental Game: Confronting insecurities, embracing vulnerability, and committing to self-improvement for stronger relationships and success.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar...

In this episode, Ellen delves into the dangerous myths of manhood that are undermining relationships, set against the backdrop of three pivotal societal trends reshaping expectations of men.
Part 1: Redefining Adulthood
We discuss the American Psychological Association's extension of adolescence to age 25 and its implications for young men's responsibilities and societal expectations. We also explore how historical and modern mentoring practices can aid in navigating adulthood.
Part 2: Parenting Approaches
This segment delves into the shift from traditional 'Command and Control' parenting to more aspirational, hands-on parenting styles. We examine how these modern approaches may delay self-reliance and independence among young men, including real-world anecdotes from the workplace.
Part 3: Cultural Expectations in Flux
We explore the evolving expectations of manhood, contrasting traditional roles with modern ideals that emphasize empathy, emotional intelligence, and self-care. The discussion highlights the generational differences in perceptions of what constitutes the 'good life' and successful manhood.
Part 4: Three Shifts in Masculine Roles
We discuss transformative shifts in how men can evolve from traditional roles towards a more modern, collaborative approach:
Shift from Pursuing to Attracting: Changing from aggressively seeking to creating an inviting presence that draws positive relationships and opportunities.Shift from Protector to Advocate: Moving from shielding loved ones to supporting their aspirations and celebrating their successes.Shift from Provider to Investor: Transitioning from the sole financial provider to a collaborator in a joint venture where both partners contribute and benefit equally.
Key Takeaways:Adjusting Adult Maturity Expectations: Recognize that full maturity extends into the mid-twenties, requiring adjustments in our expectations for young men's roles in relationships and society.Modernizing Masculine Roles: Balance traditional masculine roles with modern values, fostering both strength and vulnerability in today's men.Evolving from Traditional to Collaborative Roles: Encourage men to engage more deeply in their relationships through collaboration and mutual support, moving beyond the roles of sole providers and protectors.
Call to Action:Join the conversation about modern masculinity and relationships in our Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook, or reach out directly via email for a one-on-one dialogue. Also, don't miss the chance to book a free Relationship Reset Call with me to address your specific relationship needs.
Closing Thoughts:As we navigate these shifting expectations and masculine role models, remember that understanding and adapting to new roles can lead to richer, more fulfilling relationships and personal growth.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
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In today's episode, we're peeling back the layers on how the words we say can either nourish or damage our relationships. Join us as we explore the analogy of apple seeds and toxic words, discuss the real-life consequences of negative language, and provide you with tools to cultivate a more loving and supportive partnership.
Part 1: The Power of Words
The introduction to the concept of words as seeds that can grow into something beautiful or toxic in our relationships.
Part 2: Perception and Reality
A discussion on how the words we use shape our perception of our partners and how those perceptions can solidify into our reality.
Part 3: Conscious Communication
Tips on how to shift from harmful language to nurturing conversations and an introduction to the Conscious Communication Script.
Key Takeaways:Like apple seeds, toxic words can poison relationships when used thoughtlessly.Our language creates our reality—mindful communication fosters a better understanding and stronger connection.Change the script of your dialogue from destructive to constructive to reignite passion and intimacy.
Call to Action:Don't let negativity take root in your relationship. For those looking to detox from harmful communication habits, Ellen offers a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call, a chance to lay out actionable steps toward a more loving relationship.
Closing Thoughts:Words are powerful, and when used with intent, they can transform the dynamic of your marriage and your life.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show
Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com
Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105
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In this episode, Ellen delves into the importance of creating adventures, appreciating individual styles within relationships, and making memories with your partner. From watching eclipses in Austin, Texas, to capturing moments through photography, Ellen shares insights on enhancing your romantic connection.
Part 1: Shared Adventures
Ellen discusses the benefits of shared experiences and encourages listeners to engage in adventures with their partners, highlighting how it can strengthen bonds and provide a much-needed break from the work grind.
Part 2: Individuality and Connection
The value of maintaining individual approaches in a relationship is explored, as Ellen shares her and her husband's differing photography styles and how it brings them closer.
Part 3: A Container for Shared Memories
The concept of a reverse bucket list is introduced as a way to cherish and remember life's special moments, with a practical method of using a Google Calendar for regular reminiscing.
Key Takeaways:Shared adventures can significantly deepen your connection with your partner.Embracing your individuality can enrich your relationship, offering new ways to connect and admire each other.Creating shared memories is a powerful way to bond, and keeping a reverse bucket list can help preserve those special moments.
Call to Action:Reflect on your adventures and shared moments. Join the conversation in our Passionate Partners Insider Community or share your thoughts privately by emailing Ellen. If you're seeking more tailored advice, book a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to brainstorm ways to revitalize your partnership.
Closing Thoughts:Cherish the moments that bring you and your partner together and remember that personal growth and relationship development go hand in hand. Keep exploring, connecting, and creating memories.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show
Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com
Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105
Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com
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Join Ellen Dorian in a powerful episode of Make More Love, where she dismantles the myths about men's emotional intelligence and lays out a blueprint for creating a culture of respect in relationships. She shares a poignant real-life encounter and offers actionable advice for entrepreneurial men looking to harmonize the demands of business with the desires of a fulfilling partnership.
Part 1: Shattering Stereotypes
Ellen shares an insightful breakfast encounter that turns the tables on the stereotype of men as relationship-inept, highlighting the genuine and profound discussions men have about their emotional struggles.
Part 2: Creating A Culture of Respect At Home
Drawing parallels between company culture and relationship dynamics, Ellen presents five key principles to instill a culture of respect at home, emphasizing presence, gratitude, and sharing the mental load.
Part 3: Cultivating Self-Respect
The conversation culminates in the crucial role of self-respect, underscoring that a man's internal esteem sets the stage for healthier, more respectful relationships.
Key Takeaways:Men are emotionally intelligent and invested in their relationships.Respect can and should be cultivated deliberately within a relationship, much like a positive company culture.Self-respect is essential for relationship success and must be nurtured alongside respect for one's partner.
Call to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to take active steps toward building respect in their relationships and offers a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized guidance. Listeners are invited to join the P3 Insider's Community or reach out directly via email for further support.
Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes the transformative power of respect and self-regard, advocating for a proactive approach to relationship improvement that mirrors the dedication men show in their businesses.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show
Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com
Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105
Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com
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In today's episode, Ellen Dorian takes a step away from the usual relationship frameworks and systems to directly address listeners' questions. This intimate session provides insight into Ellen's extensive experience with a variety of relationship dynamics, her inclusive coaching approach, and the philosophy behind her unique method. She also shares personal anecdotes to illustrate the complexity of balancing privacy with professional visibility.
Part 1: Inclusivity in Relationship Coaching
Ellen explains her work with a diverse array of relationship structures, emphasizing her support for the LGBTQIA+ community and dedication to all forms of love and connection.
Part 2: Listener Questions Answered
Addressing why the podcast may seem heteronormative and the focused support for male business owners.The distinction between Ellen's coaching and other relationship advice, including her stance against popular but potentially limiting labels.
Part 3: Ellen's Personal Insight
A candid response to a colleague's question about Ellen's online presence offers a window into the respectful balance she maintains between her private life and her professional role as a coach.
Key Takeaways:Relationship dynamics are unique and require personalized coaching approaches.Effective relationship advice should transcend social media trends and popular paradigms.Respecting a partner's choices is fundamental to a healthy relationship, even in the public eye.
Call to Action:Visit relationshipresetcall.com to schedule a free Relationship Reset call with Ellen.Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community for exclusive content and support.Reach out directly to Ellen with your stories, questions, or feedback via the community, social media, or email.
Closing Thoughts:Ellen encourages listeners to engage with the community, share the podcast with someone who may benefit from it, and reminds everyone that making more love, both in life and marriage, is the ultimate goal.
Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" 
Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show
Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com
Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105
Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com
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