37 min

Is Divorce a Failed Marriage? (Elisheva Liss‪)‬ Hope to Recharge

    • Mental Health

In part 1 of this 2 part episode with our returning guest Elisheva Liss, we discuss the views shared and seen by ourselves and society regarding divorce. Elisheva is a licensed psychotherapist whose training is in marriage and family therapy, and also treats individuals and couples. You can listen to previous episodes with Elisheva here and here.
Sometimes divorce is necessary and sometimes the topic is broached because of frustration and stress. When working it out for legitimate reasons becomes impossible, the stigma and perception may be too much to bear. Still, giving it another shot at making peace is often the best option if not only to be certain that you gave it your all and face regret later.
If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!
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Connect with Elisheva: http://elishevaliss.com
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Topics Discussed:
Unconditional vs conditional loveInvesting emotionally in your partnerForging love and feeling safeHot conflicts vs cold conflictsRecreating passion—————————————————————————
Resources Mentioned:
Amazon: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
Amazon: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
Amazon: If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late by James J. Sexton
Amazon: Hold On, But Don't Hold Still by Kristina Kuzmic
Elisheva's Blog Posts Mentioned:
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/why-are-there-so-many-more-divorces-nowadays
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/why-saying-divorce-is-not-an-option-can-actually-hurt-marriages
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/separation-is-not-always-step-one-to-a-divorce
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Quotes:
“Very often people change in ways that are so profound. And so irreversible .” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“We kept dating because there was no reason to say no to each other.” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“In a healthy relationship what's going on, is we are investing” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“If I do something wrong, I lose your love.? No. it depends how wrong the thing you did was.” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge—————————————————————————
If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!
There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today.
http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1
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Interested in joining our monthly Mastermind?
Find out more info here! http://www.hopetorecharge.com/Mastermind
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Suicide Hotlines:
USA: 1-800-273-8255
USA Crisis (Text): 741-741
Canada: 1-833-456-4566
United Kingdom: 116-123
Australia: 13-11-14
International Suicide Hotlines:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Connect with us!
Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/
Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2079694042156503/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/
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3 WAYS THAT YOU CAN HELP THE PODCAST:
1) Subscribe via iTunes and leave a review. It costs nothing. https://podcasts.a

In part 1 of this 2 part episode with our returning guest Elisheva Liss, we discuss the views shared and seen by ourselves and society regarding divorce. Elisheva is a licensed psychotherapist whose training is in marriage and family therapy, and also treats individuals and couples. You can listen to previous episodes with Elisheva here and here.
Sometimes divorce is necessary and sometimes the topic is broached because of frustration and stress. When working it out for legitimate reasons becomes impossible, the stigma and perception may be too much to bear. Still, giving it another shot at making peace is often the best option if not only to be certain that you gave it your all and face regret later.
If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!
—————————————————————————
Connect with Elisheva: http://elishevaliss.com
—————————————————————————
Topics Discussed:
Unconditional vs conditional loveInvesting emotionally in your partnerForging love and feeling safeHot conflicts vs cold conflictsRecreating passion—————————————————————————
Resources Mentioned:
Amazon: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
Amazon: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
Amazon: If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late by James J. Sexton
Amazon: Hold On, But Don't Hold Still by Kristina Kuzmic
Elisheva's Blog Posts Mentioned:
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/why-are-there-so-many-more-divorces-nowadays
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/why-saying-divorce-is-not-an-option-can-actually-hurt-marriages
https://www.elishevaliss.com/post/separation-is-not-always-step-one-to-a-divorce
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Quotes:
“Very often people change in ways that are so profound. And so irreversible .” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“We kept dating because there was no reason to say no to each other.” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“In a healthy relationship what's going on, is we are investing” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“If I do something wrong, I lose your love.? No. it depends how wrong the thing you did was.” @Elisheva Liss @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge—————————————————————————
If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!
There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today.
http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1
—————————————————————————
Interested in joining our monthly Mastermind?
Find out more info here! http://www.hopetorecharge.com/Mastermind
—————————————————————————
Suicide Hotlines:
USA: 1-800-273-8255
USA Crisis (Text): 741-741
Canada: 1-833-456-4566
United Kingdom: 116-123
Australia: 13-11-14
International Suicide Hotlines:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Connect with us!
Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/
Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2079694042156503/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/
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3 WAYS THAT YOU CAN HELP THE PODCAST:
1) Subscribe via iTunes and leave a review. It costs nothing. https://podcasts.a

37 min