Hope to Recharge

Matana Poupko Jacobs

The intention of this show is to bring hope and community to those who are personally struggling with depression and anxiety or has a loved one who is struggling with depression and anxiety. Each week we will hear from those who have personal experience dealing with mental health issues as well as experts in the mental health world; from therapists and doctors to healers. We want to be your support system by sharing real stories and proving that community is vital to recovery. Together we can break the stigma around depression and anxiety and bring HOPE to the world.

  1. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): When Someone You Love Has BPD (Meg Rowley) Pt4

    JUN 30

    Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): When Someone You Love Has BPD (Meg Rowley) Pt4

    In this fourth episode of our Borderline Personality Disorder Awareness Month series, Matana welcomes back DBT therapist Meg Rowley for a powerful and practical conversation on supporting loved ones with BPD. After exploring diagnosis, the recovery journey, and core DBT skills in previous episodes, today’s discussion turns the spotlight on family members and caregivers—and the vital role they play. Together, Matana and Meg unpack: How to support someone with BPD without enablingWhy regulating your own emotions is the first stepThe power and nuance of validation (plus what NOT to say)How to set healthy boundaries with compassionWhat to do in crisis moments—and what not to doPractical skills families can use immediatelyHow therapy, self-care, and radical acceptance help loved ones stay grounded This episode is a must-listen for parents, partners, siblings, and close friends looking to support a loved one with BPD—while also protecting their own mental health. You’ll walk away with clarity, actionable tools, and renewed hope. Resources Mentioned: Family Connections (NAMI/NIMH)TARA (Treatment & Research Advancements for BPD)Emotions MatterThe importance of personal therapy and distress tolerance You can support your loved one—and yourself—by leading with compassion, clear limits, and the powerful tools of DBT. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Connect with Meg: mrowleydbt@bhbehavioralassociates.com https://www.bhbehavioralassociates.com/meg-rowley-lcsw ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    56 min
  2. Unlocking the Power of IFS in Healing Trauma (Rikki Jacobson Davies)

    JUN 9

    Unlocking the Power of IFS in Healing Trauma (Rikki Jacobson Davies)

    Rikki Jacobson Davies, a therapist specializing in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and trauma therapy shares her journey into the field, the evolution of trauma understanding, and the importance of hope in healing. Rikki explains the principles of IFS, its relationship with other modalities like EMDR, and the significance of integrating different therapeutic approaches for holistic healing, the complexity of trauma and the need for personalized therapeutic strategies. Rikki delves into the intricacies of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, exploring how individuals can engage with their trauma without needing to know the exact source of their pain. She discussed the importance of experiential knowing, the role of self in healing, the distinction between healing the pain versus the narrative of trauma and the individual journey of healing, emphasizing that it is a lifestyle choice rather than a quick fix. There is a complex relationship between compassion and accountability in the context of healing, particularly when dealing with harmful behaviors. There is significant importance of compassion, values, and the dialectical approach in therapy, emphasizing the need for therapists to guide clients towards meaningful goals and the challenges of addiction, the neuroplasticity of the brain, and the significance of finding the right practitioner. Rikki shares insights on books that have influenced her understanding of trauma and healing, advocating for a more complex and multifaceted approach to healing that honors individual experiences. As a private clinician and sought-after lecturer, Rikki developed a unique approach to navigating and healing from complicated, confusing, and painful relationships. She speaks the language of relational trauma and teaches advanced clinicians to understand it and navigate it for themselves and their clients. Rikki has spent more than a decade developing programs and training people in positions of influence, all aimed at creating institutional, communal, familial, and psychotherapeutic cultures that foster safety and respect. Her collaborations ranged from community leadership and educational institutions to therapists and leaders in the mental health community. The trainings and workshops she created have been delivered in over 20 institutions and organizations, reaching thousands of people throughout Israel, Europe, and the United States. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Connect with Rikki: rikki@relationalresilience.com www.relationalresilience.com ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 48m
  3. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): Unpacking the DBT Toolbox (Meg Rowley)

    06/04/2024

    Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): Unpacking the DBT Toolbox (Meg Rowley)

    In our 3rd part in our series on Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Meg again joins us. Discover the toolset available to help manage BPD with Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). DBT's core principles, techniques, and applications can be used and included mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and radical acceptance. Critically important is emphasizing the importance of mindfulness as a foundational skill in DBT, serving as a gateway to other techniques. The "TIP skills" (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation) as effective tools for quickly reducing physiological arousal during moments of crisis. Emotion regulation emerges as another crucial component of DBT, focusing on understanding, experiencing, and expressing emotions in healthy ways. Meg explains the concept of "wise mind" and shares practical techniques for modulating emotional intensity, such as paced breathing and opposite action. Another tool is interpersonal effectiveness, which involves acquiring skills for assertiveness, effective communication, and boundary-setting in relationships. Meg introduces the "DEAR MAN" technique (Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate) as a structured approach to making requests and resolving conflicts respectfully. Radical acceptance is discussed as a key aspect of distress tolerance, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and embracing reality, even when it is difficult or painful. Meg and explores how radical acceptance allows individuals to move beyond resistance and toward meaningful change. These skills and many more, empower individuals to make informed choices, take control of their lives, and cultivate resilience in the face of adversity. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Connect with Meg: mrowleydbt@bhbehavioralassociates.com https://www.bhbehavioralassociates.com/meg-rowley-lcsw ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m
  4. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): The Path to Recovery with DBT (Meg Rowley)

    05/26/2024

    Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): The Path to Recovery with DBT (Meg Rowley)

    Diving deep into the world of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) we explore its comprehensive approach to mental health treatment. In this second part in our BPD series with Meg Rowley, we cover various aspects of DBT, including its structure, modes of treatment, and the intricate skills involved. Meg provides insight into the therapeutic process, emphasizing the importance of commitment and dedication to DBT's multifaceted approach and touch upon the roles of individual therapy, skills groups, coaching, and consultation teams in DBT, highlighting the intensive nature of the treatment and its focus on behavioral change. Meg is deeply committed to guiding individuals through the journey of healing and transformation and reflects on the significance of family involvement in supporting loved ones undergoing DBT and the profound impact of Marshall Linehan's visionary approach to mental health treatment and provides a comprehensive overview of DBT and its transformative potential for individuals seeking to overcome emotional challenges and build a life worth living. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Connect with Meg: mrowleydbt@bhbehavioralassociates.com https://www.bhbehavioralassociates.com/meg-rowley-lcsw ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 17m
  5. Understanding the Origins & Impact of BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder (Meg Rowley)

    05/21/2024

    Understanding the Origins & Impact of BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder (Meg Rowley)

    Meg Rowley is a seasoned therapist specializing in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). With over a decade of clinical experience, Meg brings a wealth of knowledge, compassion and dedication to helping individuals navigate the complexities of borderline personality disorder (BPD) with her experience, insight and practical advice. As a firm believer in empowerment and resilience, Meg's expertise provides invaluable insights and tools for understanding and managing BPD by exploring the role of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) in treatment, the challenges of phone coaching, and the evolution of DBT over time. Meg explains the origins of BPD, the impact of trauma, and the intersection of BPD with other mental health conditions and sheds light on reducing stigma, supporting loved ones with BPD, and the transformative potential of individuals with this diagnosis to demystify BPD and offer hope and understanding. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Connect with Meg: mrowleydbt@bhbehavioralassociates.com https://www.bhbehavioralassociates.com/meg-rowley-lcsw ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m
  6. BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder Awareness Month - Everything You Need To Know

    05/17/2024

    BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder Awareness Month - Everything You Need To Know

    During Mental Health Awareness Month we continue to tackle the stigma around the term BPD, "borderline personality disorder" and explore how it affects diagnosis and relationships. Through real stories and expert advice we will learn about the traits of BPD and how therapies like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) can help manage its challenges. Our goal is to challenge misconceptions and foster empathy for those living with BPD and offer a beacon of hope, emphasizing the journey toward understanding and healing. By unpacking the complexities of BPD we can promote awareness and support for individuals navigating this often misunderstood disorder. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    13 min
  7. From Paralysis to Hiking Across Spain (Courtney Runyon)

    04/12/2024

    From Paralysis to Hiking Across Spain (Courtney Runyon)

    Courtney Runyon faced paralysis and betrayal but overcame both with the power of resilience. She found solace in humor, using laughter as a tool to uplift herself and others. Embracing vulnerability and imperfections, Courtney emphasizes adaptability and creativity in turning setbacks into opportunities, such as shifting her goal from running a marathon to hiking across Spain. Through practicing gratitude and cherishing both the good and bad moments, she highlights the temporary nature of life's challenges and the opportunities they offer for growth. Courtney's story underscores the importance of taking responsibility for emotions, practicing empathy, surrendering to what cannot be controlled, and maintaining integrity as essential steps towards resilience and personal empowerment. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— Links mentioned: Courtney's Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dS4HZS_d9LA Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 3m
  8. The Resilience Framework: Understanding and Uncovering the Source of Wellbeing (Terry Rubenstein)

    02/08/2024

    The Resilience Framework: Understanding and Uncovering the Source of Wellbeing (Terry Rubenstein)

    Terry Rubenstein is a mother, grandmother, author, podcaster, thought leader, educator and charity founder and a unique pioneer in the field of mental wellbeing and resilience with a remarkable backstory. Over the course of fifteen years, she developed the Resilience Framework, which has impacted countless people across multiple demographics, sectors and platforms. Terry shares her own experiences and challenges with mental health and delves into what resilience is, her own relationship with it, and its profound significance in her journey. The Resilience Framework offers many applications across different contexts, in how resilience relates to other ideas as is the innateness of wellbeing in humans, healing and its stages, the intelligence of and logic behind the psychological system, and much more. As we unravel resilience and its many applications, there are insights on where it can be found. Terry's organization, iheart, focuses on young people and employs the Resilient Framework, an instruction manual that explains how our minds work and where the source of wellbeing lies, helpful in activating resilience in young people and families. If you need more support in your mental health journey we offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better! There is no substitute for a listening ear. Get Your Free 30 Minute Consultation Today. http://www.hopetorecharge.com/1on1 ————————————————————————— *Connect with Terry:* iheart Website: http://iheartprinciples.com Contact: terry@iheartprinciples.com *Read Terry’s book:​​* Exquisite Mind - How Three Principles Transformed My Life, and how they can Transform Yours ( https://www.amazon.com/Exquisite-Mind-Principles-Transformed-Transform/dp/1780929544 ) ————————————————————————— Sponsors: https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge Betterhelp.com is the world’s leading provider of online therapy. Their mission is to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, and convenient, so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere. Head to https://Betterhelp.com/hopetorecharge for 10% off your first month of services. IMPORTANT: Be sure to click this link in order to get the 10% off code. As a BetterHelp affiliate, we may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase products or services through the links provided. https://Maxifyz.com/ Maxifyz.com provides doctor formulated, lab certified, USA grown high quality CBD oils, tinctures and 100% legal Hemp products to reduce anxiety and stress, provide muscle relaxation and help to get a better night’s sleep. Use coupon code HOPE to get 10% off your order plus free shipping. Connect with us! Website: https://hopetorecharge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matanajacobs/ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-to-recharge/id1464788845 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/00AIhRZOxKNOvenz32gGeK Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_DkYMcco7pSrkKk6wU5p7w Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/hope-to-recharge/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min
4.9
out of 5
97 Ratings

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The intention of this show is to bring hope and community to those who are personally struggling with depression and anxiety or has a loved one who is struggling with depression and anxiety. Each week we will hear from those who have personal experience dealing with mental health issues as well as experts in the mental health world; from therapists and doctors to healers. We want to be your support system by sharing real stories and proving that community is vital to recovery. Together we can break the stigma around depression and anxiety and bring HOPE to the world.

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