Lead(H)er Talks: Things we wish we knew Rev. Dr. Shannon E Karafanda and Coach Elaine Robinson Beattie

Join us for a special episode of Lead(H)er Talks focused on Leading Up. Rev Dr Shannon and Coach Elaine will discuss the challenges and opportunities that arise when leading those in higher positions or with more authority. We'll explore strategies for effectively communicating with leaders, building trust, and leading from behind. We will share their personal experiences and offer actionable tips for working with and leading up to achieve success in any organization. Tune in for this insightful conversation about how to successfully lead up and drive positive change from within!



Show notes:




Leading up….


Leave your assumptions at the door.
Hone your delivery for communication that comes through loud-and-clear.
Boost your chances of hearing 'yes' to your ask.
Get comfortable with feedback (on both sides of the table)
Set the tone in your 1:1s.
Share your impact the right way.




Know your boss
How you can help them? - Be a servant. Books:The Servant as Leader and Give and Take; Videos: Gravitas Ted Talk


Get your $tuff done.

Tune in to Episode 9 of Lead(H)er Talks for an insightful and informative discussion about communicating with men. Coach Elaine and Rev Dr Shannon will share their experiences and perspectives on what they wish they knew about how to communicate with men, and offer tips and strategies for effective communication. We'll explore topics like active listening, nonverbal communication, the differences in communication styles between men and women, and how to navigate difficult conversations. Join us for a candid and engaging conversation about building stronger relationships with the men in our lives!



Some notes about this episode:


What's the point?
What's the problem?
What do you want them to know?

Give time for processors to think through the conversation beforehand. Let them know how long you need and what outcome you're looking for.

Books: Difficult Conversations: How to discuss what matters most and Crucial Conversations: tools for talking when the stakes are high.

Videos: Crucial Conversations


Contact us at these links: Coach Elaine Beattie and Rev Dr Shannon E Karafanda

On this episode of Lead(H)er Talks, Elaine Robinson Beattie and Reverend Dr. Shannon Karafanda discuss the 10 characteristics that are essential for anyone looking to become a good leader. Whether you are a seasoned leader or new to a leadership role, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips. The hosts will cover topics like self-awareness, emotional intelligence, effective communication, accountability, and more. Listen to learn how to enhance your leadership skills and become the leader you aspire to be. Tune in to Lead(H)er Talks to start your journey towards leadership success!



Things we cover

Integrity - Ethical Leadership by Dr. Walter Fluker

Delegation - "You have to take off the cape and delegate!" -

Communication -  Multi-mode and multi-gen

Self awareness - We all have blindspots

Gratitude - Thank you notes!!!

Learning agility - Always keep learning.

Influence - John C. Maxwell says, “Leadership is influence, nothing more, nothing less.” 

Empathy - “Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another and feeling with the heart of another.” – Alfred Adler.

Courage - Courage is the ability to face pain, danger, or difficulty, either physically or mentally. It is the mental or moral strength to overcome fear and persevere in the face of obstacles or adversity.

Respect - "Everyone, no matter their job or position, deserves to be treated with respect and dignity." - Catherine Pulsifer





Coach Elaine

On this episode of Lead(H)er Talks, Coach Elaine Robinson Beattie and Rev Dr. Shannon Karafanda discuss the importance of Psychological Safety in the workplace. They will what Psychological Safety is and its impact on team performance and employee well-being. The episode will cover how leaders can develop a supportive work culture where team members can express their ideas, concerns, and feedback without fear of judgment or retribution. Listen to gain some practical tips and strategies to boost the Psychological Safety of your team and create an environment that fosters trust, communication, and productivity. Tune in now to Lead(H)er Talks for this insightful conversation!



Coach Elaine: https://elainerobinsonbeattie.com/

Pastor Shannon: https://shannonkarafanda.com/



Based on info from The Psychological Safety Playbook: Lead More Powerfully by Being More Human by Karolin Helbig and Minette Norman 

On this episode of Lead(H)er Talks, Coach Elaine Robinson Beattie and Rev. Dr. Shannon Karafanda discuss how women in leadership can handle stress. Stress is a common experience in the modern world, and can bring out negative emotions that lead to burnout or other complications over time. With strategies and insights from people who know what it takes to lead, this episode offers essential information to help you be your best self--especially when times get tough. From mindfulness practices to alternative approaches to stress reduction and time management, explore what steps you can take to handle stress and prevent burnout. Listen now and discover how to live well while leading well.










Ways to manage and remove stress


box breathing 

Positive self talk

Meditation 

Stay healthy 




Book recommendations:


The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor
Sacred Rest by Dr. Saundra Dalton Smith.

In this episode of Lead(H)er Talks, Rev Dr Shannon E Karafanda and Coach Elaine Robinson Beattie discuss the difference between bragging and self-promotion.  They talk about how to ensure that self-promotion is done in an authentic and meaningful way. They also offer insights on how to make sure that you are seen as a leader, without bragging about your accomplishments. Tune in for tips and strategies on how to use self-promotion without feeling like you're puffing yourself up! 



Bragging vs self promotion


Make sure its true
Know yourself - what is your intention, how are you wired, what are your strengths, weaknesses
Promote others - this increases your brand identity and never never never put others down; you can disagree with an idea but don’t negate a person; they are created and beloved by God!
Receive compliments
Keep learning
Tell stories. This involves others and allows the hearer/reader to see themself in the narrative instead of spotlighting you