19 episodes

Welcome to Love Quirks, the podcast that explores the art of creating meaningful connections and thriving relationships. In a world where working on our relationships is often stigmatized and reserved for times of crisis, Love Quirks challenges that narrative.

Hosted by Crystal Clark  an expert with an MA in Neurodiversity and a background in behavior analysis, this podcast offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships. With over a decade of experience in social relationship therapy, Crystal simplifies love into broad concepts while encouraging listeners to color in the unique details according to their own experiences. Whether you're quirky or a "plain old regular human being," the podcast emphasizes that everyone benefits from the same foundational ideas for sparking and maintaining relationships.

Love Quirks provides actionable insights and big-picture ideas to help you grow fulfilling connections. So, if you've ever pondered the importance of love in your life, join us on Love Quirks. Share it with friends, make it a part of your couples routine, and embark on a journey to explore, understand, and enhance your relationships. This is where love becomes an art, and you are the artist.

Let's be sparked.

Love Quirks Crystal Clark

    • Society & Culture

Welcome to Love Quirks, the podcast that explores the art of creating meaningful connections and thriving relationships. In a world where working on our relationships is often stigmatized and reserved for times of crisis, Love Quirks challenges that narrative.

Hosted by Crystal Clark  an expert with an MA in Neurodiversity and a background in behavior analysis, this podcast offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships. With over a decade of experience in social relationship therapy, Crystal simplifies love into broad concepts while encouraging listeners to color in the unique details according to their own experiences. Whether you're quirky or a "plain old regular human being," the podcast emphasizes that everyone benefits from the same foundational ideas for sparking and maintaining relationships.

Love Quirks provides actionable insights and big-picture ideas to help you grow fulfilling connections. So, if you've ever pondered the importance of love in your life, join us on Love Quirks. Share it with friends, make it a part of your couples routine, and embark on a journey to explore, understand, and enhance your relationships. This is where love becomes an art, and you are the artist.

Let's be sparked.

    Get Centered | LQ018

    Get Centered | LQ018

    Have you ever struggled with communication issues? Turns out, it might run deeper than you think. Let's talk about identity. We all center ourselves around something, whether it's family, work, or personal goals. But what happens when our centers clash with those close to us?
    Think about it: if your center is family, but your partner's is work, there's bound to be some friction, right? Understanding each other's centers can be a game-changer in how we communicate and relate. So, next time you're in a disagreement, consider what's at the core of it all.
    
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
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    • 26 min
    We for the Win! | LQ017

    We for the Win! | LQ017

    We're diving into why the word "we" is a game-changer in relationships.
    Using "we" when you're telling stories or tackling problems as a couple is like hitting the relationship jackpot. It makes you feel like a team, and that's a big deal.
    Research backs it up: Couples who naturally throw around "we" tend to have happier, healthier relationships. They're more satisfied, stick together longer, and even report feeling better physically and mentally. Want to practice? Try fun stuff like building Lego together, telling stories where you're both the heroes, or playing word games as a team.
    So, next time you're talking or working through stuff with your partner, toss in a "we" and see the magic happen!
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
    Thanks for listening!
    Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.
    Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!
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    • 29 min
    Partnering Not Parenting Part 2 | LQ016

    Partnering Not Parenting Part 2 | LQ016

    In this episode, we delve into part 2 of Partnering Not Parenting and how the parenting dynamic can impact communication between partners. Often, messages intended to be kind can be misinterpreted as nagging or criticism due to the ingrained roles of"controlling parent" and "petulant teenager." This dynamic can lead to a lack of affection, leaving emotional cups empty and draining energy. The solution? Start by acknowledging the imbalance with your partner and express a desire to shift towards a more equal partnership. Practice using a "kindful lens" in communication, and rebuild trust through vulnerability and recognizing moments of trust and letting go. It's about fostering a supportive and nurturing environment for both partners to thrive.
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
    Thanks for listening!
    Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.
    Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!
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    If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.
    Leave us an Apple Podcasts review
    Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    • 28 min
    Partnering Not Parenting | LQ015

    Partnering Not Parenting | LQ015

    Welcome to today's podcast! Ever found yourself inadvertently parenting your partner? It's a common issue that can lead to imbalance and strain in relationships. This dynamic often stems from past experiences, insecurities, or a breakdown in trust. But fear not, it's possible to shift towards a more equal partnership by asking tough questions and addressing underlying issues. By fostering mutual respect and communication, couples can build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. So, next time you feel the urge to parent your partner, pause and reflect on how you can become true partners instead.
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
    Thanks for listening!
    Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.
    Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!
    Subscribe to the podcast
    If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.
    Leave us an Apple Podcasts review
    Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    • 28 min
    Love the Process | LQ014

    Love the Process | LQ014

    Today, let's talk about handling misunderstandings and miscommunications.
    It's crucial to address these issues promptly to prevent resentment and foster successful communication. Before diving in, take a moment to process your own feelings: pause, label, accept, and be compassionate with yourself.
    When initiating the conversation, approach it collaboratively to avoid defensiveness. And don't forget to end on a positive note by adding a touch of affection.
    So, next time you face a misunderstanding, remember: process your feelings, collaborate, and end with love. Keep those conversations flowing!
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
    Thanks for listening!
    Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.
    Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!
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    If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.
    Leave us an Apple Podcasts review
    Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    • 23 min
    Be Best Friends | LQ013

    Be Best Friends | LQ013

    On today's episode, we're tackling the issue of loneliness. Did you know a staggering 76% of adults in North America feel disconnected, even if they're in a relationship? Sometimes, it's because we forget to lean on our partners for social support, or we're holding onto unresolved feelings. But here's the deal: treating your partner like a best friend is crucial. Forget surface-level friendships, deep connections with both your partner and friends are where it's at. So, don't hesitate to let your partner into your inner circle—it's the key to a fulfilling relationship and long-lasting companionship.
    Reach out on Instagram!
    About the Host:
    Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
    Links:
    https://sparkedforever.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
    https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
      
    Thanks for listening!
    Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.
    Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!
    Subscribe to the podcast
    If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.
    Leave us an Apple Podcasts review
    Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    • 21 min

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