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Welcome to Randi Rubenstein’s Mastermind Parenting Podcast. So, the big question is this - How do parents like us know that we aren’t messing up the biggest role of our lives, especially when we happen to have a strong-willed kiddo that is constantly pushing our buttons? We’ve all heard that kids don’t come with a manual, so how can we know for sure that we are saying the right things or that we’re getting this parenting thing right. On this podcast for parents of toddlers to teens, we’ll be giving you real tools you can use right away so that your kids will feel like they can talk to you about absolutely anything and everything. At Mastermind Parenting, we believe when your thoughts grow, the conversations in your home flow. This podcast will help you make a crucial shift in your home from the old lecturing style to convos that feel collaborative, connecting and most importantly…PRODUCTIVE.

Mastermind Parenting Podcast Randi Rubenstein

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.8 • 106 Ratings

Welcome to Randi Rubenstein’s Mastermind Parenting Podcast. So, the big question is this - How do parents like us know that we aren’t messing up the biggest role of our lives, especially when we happen to have a strong-willed kiddo that is constantly pushing our buttons? We’ve all heard that kids don’t come with a manual, so how can we know for sure that we are saying the right things or that we’re getting this parenting thing right. On this podcast for parents of toddlers to teens, we’ll be giving you real tools you can use right away so that your kids will feel like they can talk to you about absolutely anything and everything. At Mastermind Parenting, we believe when your thoughts grow, the conversations in your home flow. This podcast will help you make a crucial shift in your home from the old lecturing style to convos that feel collaborative, connecting and most importantly…PRODUCTIVE.

    Outdated Parenting Just Doesn’t Work With 2024 Teens (with Coach Kevin Baker)

    Outdated Parenting Just Doesn’t Work With 2024 Teens (with Coach Kevin Baker)

    Teenage-hood. It’s a loaded topic. It’s a loaded time. 
    Just you wait til this one’s a teenager.Payback’s a bitch - you were a nightmare as a teenager!We turned out fine but the risks are too risky for kids today. 
    Ya’ll have been asking me for teenager resources for forever. 
    The teen years have always been tough. Changing schools, changing bodies, racing hormones. 
    But today’s teenagers face more. The world has become more complicated. 
    #FACTS. 
    Recently, I talked to Coach Kevin Baker, and I think you’ll hear immediately why I invited him on the pod. Kevin is super committed to helping stuck in a rut or struggling teenagers.  
    Listen as we break down this topic and how we can help our kids rather than accidentally stressing them out more. 
    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    Why the freedom to make choices - good AND bad - is so important to your teenager’s development.How to hold expectations for your kiddos, and how to know when it’s more important to let them go and just be supportive.How to stay compassionate and preserve your sanity during the transition from easy, chatty kid to sullen, surly teen.
    And much more! 
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-297
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
     About Coach Kevin Baker
    Kevin Baker is a Certified Professional Life Coach who specializes in empowering teenagers. Kevin is on a mission to nurture self-esteem, confidence, and resilience in young minds. With a firm belief that true happiness and success stem from inner strength, he guides adolescents through the transformative process of self-discovery and growth.  
    Website: https://lifecoachkevin.com/ 
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinebaker/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifecoachkevin/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TeenLifeCoachKevin 
    Resources...

    • 53 min
    When Your Kid Seems Like An Emotional Rollercoaster (with Michelle Grosser)

    When Your Kid Seems Like An Emotional Rollercoaster (with Michelle Grosser)

    Do some days seem like a never-ending emotional rollercoaster living with your strong-willed and/or highly sensitive one? Like no matter what you say or do, they just can’t seem to get it together? 
    On days like these, you might be fighting like hell to stay calm on the outside, but inside your heart is racing and your stomach is tied up in knots. 
    And these days seem way longer than a mere 24 hours. By bedtime, no wonder you finally blow a gasket…you’re like a human tea kettle and that steam must be released, right?
    My guest this week can help. Michelle Grosser is a coach, mom, and neuroscience expert. She knows a ton about what stress does to our brains and bodies. She’s helped so many moms address their triggers, calm their nervous systems and find the peace they so desperately want in their families and lives.
    We hit it off instantly. You’re going to learn so much about how to manage overwhelm and avoid burnout.
    Listen as we discuss tangible real-life methods for emotional rollercoaster days with your highly sensitive humans.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    How we make meaning out of our kiddos’ behavior (and how to make that meaning into something positive).Why it’s so crucial to recognize, honor, and contain our reactive feelings so we don’t pass our stress on to our sensitive kids.To start with your own healing and mental health in order to build safety and stability for your family.
    And much more! 
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-296
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
     About Michelle Grosser
    Michelle is an attorney, pastor, Nervous System Expert, Certified Master Life Coach, and host of The Calm Mom Podcast. Through somatic and neuroscience-based modalities, she coaches women through discovering what’s beneath their triggers and emotions, so they can begin their healing journey and find peace in the present. She deeply believes that the most profound thing we can offer our children is our own healing. She and her husband Jeff have two daughters and live in Miami, FL.
    https://michellegrosser.com/
    Social: @michellegrosser.coach
    Resources Discussed/Links
    Peter Levine’s Somatic Experiencing https://traumahealing.org/
    “All The Rage,” a...

    • 1 hr 4 min
    My Mistakes About Giving My Kids Phones

    My Mistakes About Giving My Kids Phones

    As a mom, figuring out when to give my kids a phone has been one of the hardest topics to tackle.
    While there have been conveniences once they got a phone, like being able to know where they are at all times and reach them if I need to, the cons have far outweighed the pros in my family. 
    A phone is the default way lots of kids stay in touch, organize activities, and learn about the world. But it can also suck them into the online world, and make it harder for them to engage in reality.
    So this week, I sat down with my youngest kid, Cory, and talked about this hot topic: 
    What age to give a kid a phoneWhat type of phoneSocial Media accessHow a parent should handle all the common arguments kids often give
    At 18, Cory is old enough to see both the pros and cons and can vividly remember how his first smartphone changed his life. 
    I had so much fun getting his perspective on this question and even putting him in the hot seat - weighing in on how he’d handle it with a badgering teen, claiming that EVERYONE has a phone and blah blah blah.
    When it comes to technology, it’s like the wild wild west for parents. I think I’d do things differently if I had to do it all over again…especially based on my own kid’s advice!
    Cory and I discuss what kinds of changes happen in the life - and mind - of a kid when they get their first smartphone, how to decide when they’re ready to handle those changes, and how to (and how not to) talk to your kids about the limits around smartphones.
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-295
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
     Resources Discussed/Links
    Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/
    Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

    • 27 min
    This Game-Changing Sentence That Works Like Magic

    This Game-Changing Sentence That Works Like Magic

    My conversations with Michaeleen Doucleff are so much fun that sometimes I forget to hit record!
    Usually it doesn’t even matter what we talk about, but this time it’s extra good. 
    You know those times when your kid is acting like a little contrarian. You say up, they say down. You say yes, they say no. And around and around and around.
    Michaeleen has come up with an amazingly simple sentence that shifts this dynamic like magic.
    It will turn them not just into collaborators but actual co-creators.
    Listen as Michaeleen and I discuss oh so many things. I love my time with her so much and I think you will too!
    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    How to encourage your child to contribute ideas and collaborate in planning activities.The messages about our values that we send when we choose recreation for our kids.Why things that keep kids engaged aren’t always as fun as they might seem.
    And much more! 
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-294
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
    About Michaleen Doucleff:
    Michaleen Doucleff is an award-winning global health correspondent and the author of Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans. https://michaeleendoucleff.com/hunt-gather-parent/ 
     Resources Discussed/Links
    The New York Times profile of Virginia Sole-Smith https://www.nytimes.com/2024/04/21/well/eat/fat-activist-virginia-sole-smith.html
    Her book Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture https://virginiasolesmith.com/books/fat-talk-parenting-in-the-age-of-diet-culture/
    All Joy, No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood, by Jennifer Senior https://jennifersenior.net/all-joy-and-no-fun
    Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/
    Live assessment: a...

    • 1 hr 3 min
    It’s Never A “Good” Time To Have A Baby Or Start A Business

    It’s Never A “Good” Time To Have A Baby Or Start A Business

    When you’re in the trenches raising kids, it can feel like the busiest, hardest season of life. 
    Now, imagine trying to start and run a business at the same time? 
    I think my son, Cory, would say that’s low key insane. 
    He’d also hate me claiming to know what he’d say and attempting to use his lingo…whatevs:). 
    And just like it rarely feels like a perfect time to get pregnant but you go for it anyway, same same when it comes to starting a business. 
    Turns out the pack leadership skills that work so well for raising a family are also really good for helping you nurture an entrepreneurial business! 
    In this week’s podcast episode, listen to my conversation with fellow mom of three, podcaster and author, Melissa Llarena, as we dive into all things parenting and business ownering. 
    If you’ve been putting your dreams on hold, listen now.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    Why it’s so important for busy moms to own and celebrate their own accomplishments.How to identify what lights you up, and give yourself permission to go for it.The powerful lessons we teach our kids when we allow ourselves to follow our dreams.Why the vision you have for your home, family, business, and life is worth fighting for.
    And much more! 
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-293
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
    About Melissa Llarena
    Melissa is an author, imagination coach, consultant, speaker, and contributor to ForbesWomen. She also hosts the podcast Unimaginable Wellness, for entrepreneurs, founders, and creators who are also moms. Her book is Fertile Imagination: A Guide for Stretching Every Mom’s Superpower for Maximum Impact. 
    https://fertileideas.com
    https://www.melissallarena.com/podcast/ 
     Resources Discussed/Links
    Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/
    Live assessment: a...

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Retrain Your Brain, Rewire Your Family

    Retrain Your Brain, Rewire Your Family

    When people join the Mastermind Parenting community, they come seeking answers about the way their children behave. What they usually don’t realize is that they’re not just struggling with “bad” behaviors. They need a space where they can unlearn generations of bad advice, and retrain their thinking around the rewards and challenges of parenting sensitive kids. This week we’re talking about a mom who is just starting that process. I’ll share the experiences that are resonating with her, and how her family dynamic is being rewritten through the honesty and empathy she’s receiving in community with other moms.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    What the label “strong-willed” means for a kiddo, for what they need in a parent, and how it will serve them as they grow into the world.That we have to start with ourselves as we cultivate empathy and patience.How easy it is to get stuck in outdated, counterproductive thinking about what it means to parent a sensitive child.The huge impact on a family when mom gives herself permission to feel overwhelmed.
    And much more! 
    As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!
    Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-292
    About Randi Rubenstein
    Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.
    She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.
    At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.
    Randi’s Web and Social Links
    Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/
    Resources Discussed/Links
    Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/
    Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

    • 24 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
106 Ratings

106 Ratings

brookferranti ,

Validation! Can you come to my house? LOL

Was referred to this podcast just TODAY. I can’t stop listening. Thank you for making these podcasts, I hope this is the start to change in our home with 2 young strong willed and beyond children ages boy 6 and girl 3 being raised by 2 strong willed parents! Let me add, quarantined for 5 months. Excited to have found this. Thank you!

marieffffff ,

Wasted my time

I’ve only listened to one episode but it didn’t really offer advice. It was an advertisement for her Bootcamp Course. Waste of my time.

hconerly ,

Incredible!

I LOVE this podcast! Randi touches on all the challenges we are all facing as parents when trying to raise productive and incredible kids and provides tools you can put into place immediately! I have recommended this podcast to all my friends whether they have children or not. Randi gives you tips on how to improve communication which is great for everyone whether you are a parent, co-worker or friend. Keep up the incredible work Randi! ❤️❤️❤️

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