Episode 13: Introduction to IFS Not Your Typical Leadership Coaching Podcast
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In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss the fundamentals of Internal Family Systems (IFS), a therapeutic model used in coaching as well. They clarify the concept of parts within IFS, addressing concerns about its safety and potential associations with multiple personality disorder. The hosts explore the impact of protector parts, like managers and firefighters, and delve into the role of the true self (Self) in the seat of consciousness. They touch on the challenges of blending and unblending with parts and highlight the transformative potential of IFS in achieving recovery and healing. For more information about IFS, visit www.IFS-institute.com.
Key Points:
Introduction to IFS:
•IFS stands for Internal Family Systems, a therapeutic model developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz.
•Bill emphasizes the distinction between teaching people to use IFS for personal development and the IFS Institute's role in training facilitators.
Understanding Parts:
•Marty discusses the prevalence of IFS language in popular culture, referencing inner child concepts and 12-step programs.
•Bill dispels concerns about having parts, assuring listeners that having parts doesn't imply insanity or instability.
Safety Concerns:
•The hosts address fears related to IFS, such as the worry of stirring up internal issues and encountering dragons or monsters.
•Bill shares a personal story of stirring up a hornet's nest during a hike, drawing parallels to addressing parts cautiously.
Identifying Parts:
•Marty questions how to differentiate fleeting thoughts from parts with reality status.
•Bill explains that thoughts are one manifestation of a part, and when attached to, they become influential.
Seat of Consciousness:
•The concept of the seat of consciousness is introduced, emphasizing the role of the authentic Self (with a capital S) in perceiving the world.
Manager and Firefighter Parts:
•Bill categorizes protector parts into managers (preemptive protectors) and firefighters (reactive protectors).
•Marty inquires about a part's awareness of who is in charge, leading to a discussion on the seat of self.
Motivations for Parts:
•Parts have intentions, often geared towards protection, but their strategies may be counterproductive.
•Protector parts may try to prevent hurt but inadvertently cause problems in life.
Role of Past Trauma:
•Trauma can lead to extreme roles in parts, such as becoming managers focused on preventing future pain.
•Bill shares personal experiences of parts formed in response to childhood humiliation.
Parts in Everyday Life:
•Practical tips are given for recognizing and acknowledging parts in daily life, including asking if there's room for the Self when parts are activated.
Getting Started with IFS:
•Bill suggests joining free practice groups or using workbooks like the Self Therapy Workbook by Bonnie Weiss.
•Starting with self-awareness and noticing when parts are active is crucial to beginning the IFS journey.
Recovery and Healing:
•Bill shares a personal story of transitioning from mere abstinence to true recovery through IFS.
•The hosts conclude by highlighting IFS as a transformative path to healing and health.
In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss the fundamentals of Internal Family Systems (IFS), a therapeutic model used in coaching as well. They clarify the concept of parts within IFS, addressing concerns about its safety and potential associations with multiple personality disorder. The hosts explore the impact of protector parts, like managers and firefighters, and delve into the role of the true self (Self) in the seat of consciousness. They touch on the challenges of blending and unblending with parts and highlight the transformative potential of IFS in achieving recovery and healing. For more information about IFS, visit www.IFS-institute.com.
Key Points:
Introduction to IFS:
•IFS stands for Internal Family Systems, a therapeutic model developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz.
•Bill emphasizes the distinction between teaching people to use IFS for personal development and the IFS Institute's role in training facilitators.
Understanding Parts:
•Marty discusses the prevalence of IFS language in popular culture, referencing inner child concepts and 12-step programs.
•Bill dispels concerns about having parts, assuring listeners that having parts doesn't imply insanity or instability.
Safety Concerns:
•The hosts address fears related to IFS, such as the worry of stirring up internal issues and encountering dragons or monsters.
•Bill shares a personal story of stirring up a hornet's nest during a hike, drawing parallels to addressing parts cautiously.
Identifying Parts:
•Marty questions how to differentiate fleeting thoughts from parts with reality status.
•Bill explains that thoughts are one manifestation of a part, and when attached to, they become influential.
Seat of Consciousness:
•The concept of the seat of consciousness is introduced, emphasizing the role of the authentic Self (with a capital S) in perceiving the world.
Manager and Firefighter Parts:
•Bill categorizes protector parts into managers (preemptive protectors) and firefighters (reactive protectors).
•Marty inquires about a part's awareness of who is in charge, leading to a discussion on the seat of self.
Motivations for Parts:
•Parts have intentions, often geared towards protection, but their strategies may be counterproductive.
•Protector parts may try to prevent hurt but inadvertently cause problems in life.
Role of Past Trauma:
•Trauma can lead to extreme roles in parts, such as becoming managers focused on preventing future pain.
•Bill shares personal experiences of parts formed in response to childhood humiliation.
Parts in Everyday Life:
•Practical tips are given for recognizing and acknowledging parts in daily life, including asking if there's room for the Self when parts are activated.
Getting Started with IFS:
•Bill suggests joining free practice groups or using workbooks like the Self Therapy Workbook by Bonnie Weiss.
•Starting with self-awareness and noticing when parts are active is crucial to beginning the IFS journey.
Recovery and Healing:
•Bill shares a personal story of transitioning from mere abstinence to true recovery through IFS.
•The hosts conclude by highlighting IFS as a transformative path to healing and health.