1 hr 9 min
SC 36 - Is Polyamory For Me? Relationship School Podcast
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- Relationships
In this one, we answer your question, is polyamory for me? In this eye-opening episode, I interview six people who practice some form of polyamory and open relationships. They share their raw and realistic perspectives on both the potential benefits and challenges of choosing polyamorous relationships. They also help explain the numerous terms that can be confusing for a polyamory beginner. And be sure to listen to the very end where I reveal a big aha on what monogamists can learn from polyamorists!
SHOWNOTES
What is the difference between poly, open and swinging? [10:25] Why would anyone want to become polyamorous? [15:25] What is the same fear that shows up in both polyamorous and monogamous relationships? [25:45] What is a “second base party? [26:20] Does a primary partner always have to feel like they’re in first place? [28:20] How do you navigate polyamory and parenting? [29:16] What is “veto power” in a polyamorous relationship? [30:35] The pitfalls to avoid and keys to remember when starting out in polyamory? [32:34] The difference between a “primary” and a secondary”? [38:20] What is the personal growth opportunity in both polyamory and monogamy? [47:30] Why compersion is necessary in polyamory [53:40] What happens when you slow things down [58:40] How a Q-TIP can help you [60:20] Jayson’s big aha about polyamory [1:05:20]
In this one, we answer your question, is polyamory for me? In this eye-opening episode, I interview six people who practice some form of polyamory and open relationships. They share their raw and realistic perspectives on both the potential benefits and challenges of choosing polyamorous relationships. They also help explain the numerous terms that can be confusing for a polyamory beginner. And be sure to listen to the very end where I reveal a big aha on what monogamists can learn from polyamorists!
SHOWNOTES
What is the difference between poly, open and swinging? [10:25] Why would anyone want to become polyamorous? [15:25] What is the same fear that shows up in both polyamorous and monogamous relationships? [25:45] What is a “second base party? [26:20] Does a primary partner always have to feel like they’re in first place? [28:20] How do you navigate polyamory and parenting? [29:16] What is “veto power” in a polyamorous relationship? [30:35] The pitfalls to avoid and keys to remember when starting out in polyamory? [32:34] The difference between a “primary” and a secondary”? [38:20] What is the personal growth opportunity in both polyamory and monogamy? [47:30] Why compersion is necessary in polyamory [53:40] What happens when you slow things down [58:40] How a Q-TIP can help you [60:20] Jayson’s big aha about polyamory [1:05:20]
1 hr 9 min