505 episodes
Relationship School Podcast Jayson Gaddis
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4.7 • 941 Ratings
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A trail blazing relationship podcast promoting unconventional monogamy and marriage--where we teach you how to fight well, master communication, and take your marriage to the next level without compromising your business, family, or integrity
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Teens, Screens, and Mental Health - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder
Jayson and Ellen delve into the complex relationship between teens, screens, and mental health. Is it okay to use screens to help kids calm down? Are teens becoming more anxious? At what age should children have their own cell phones? What societal changes are needed to protect the mental health and well-being of children and teens? How can you effectively implement boundaries at home? Tune in to find the answers to these and many more questions.
Timestamps:
2:35 - Why screen time matters 5:50 - The Anxious Generation 9:00 - Using screens to help kids calm down 17:00 - The problem with content 21:00 - The problem with texting 23:30 - Setting boundaries 30:30 - Haidt's four recommendations 33:30 - Jayson and Ellen's recommendations 43:00 - Action steps Links:
My Relationship Coach (MRC) Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero The Anxious Generation | Jonathan Haidt Peter Gray | Substack Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook -
Setting Boundaries With Dysfunctional Family Members - Terri Cole
In this episode, psychotherapist Terri Cole shares some creative (and funny) strategies for handling problematic family relationships.
Timestamps:
Why Interacting With Family Can Be So Difficult [1:30] Terri Cole’s Family Experience [3:30] The Importance Of Boundaries and Language With Family [7:30] Examples Of Managing Family Dysfunction Successfully [9:30] Strategies For Avoiding Unwanted Conversations With Family [14:30] Is It Okay To Just Walk Away From Shitty Family Conversations? [23:00] Taking A Break From Family And Avoiding Family Holidays Altogether [25:00] When Mom And Partner Are Competing For Attention [29:00] Links:
Apply to Relationship Coach Training U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850 Terri Cole - Psychotherapist and Relationship Expert Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok -
AMA: Phone Snooping, Sexual Trauma, Emotionless Partners - Jayson Gaddis
Jayson answers listener questions: How should you deal with trauma responses in intimate situations? Should your partner have access to your phone? What should you do if your partner isn’t interested in personal growth? What is the right way to apologize? Is it possible to make a relationship work with an emotionless partner? Find the answers to these questions and more on this episode of The Relationship School Podcast.
Timestamps:
2:19 - Trauma responses in intimate situations 5:55 - Dealing with a condescending partner 7:45 - Should your partner have access to your phone? 11:58 - Partner isn't interested in personal growth 14:32 - Apologizing 16:13 - Emotionless partnerships 18:45 - Intentions and apologies Links:
My Relationship Coach (MRC) Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook -
Advice for Anxious Fathers & Their Wives - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder
Jayson and Ellen offer advice for anxious new dads. Why do many new dads struggle to enjoy parenting? What happens when men become aware of their relational needs for the first time, and how should they approach meeting those needs? Should new dads consider therapy? What kind of support should new dads seek from their male friends? What about sex? If you're a new parent or know new parents, you won't want to miss this.
Timestamps:
1:23 - When men struggle to enjoy parenting 14:57 - Men becoming conscious of their relational needs 24:42 - Support from other men 29:33 - Avoidant men 33:52 - Sex
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Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email Enroll in Relationship Mastery Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok -
Trauma–Peter Levine’s Heartbreaking & Inspiring Story of Healing - Dr. Peter Levine
Jayson talks with Dr. Peter Levine about the subject of trauma. Peter shares the harrowing story of what happened when his father testified against the mafia and explains why he decided to get vulnerable about his trauma in his latest book, An Autobiography of Trauma: A Healing Journey. Jayson and Peter discuss how the perception of trauma has changed recently, the danger of retraumatizing people, the process of healing trauma, and why you should be careful about who you choose to share your trauma with. Don’t miss this powerful episode.
Timestamps:
4:05 - Why Peter decided to get vulnerable 11:39 - Is it important to tell your story? 18:15 - Testifying against the mafia 26:22 - Healing from trauma by sharing 34:29 - Relationships and trauma 40:46 - Trauma and association 50:07 - Retraumatizing people 59:21 - Action step Links:
https://www.somaticexperiencing.com/ https://traumahealing.org/ Healing Trauma With Peter Levine - Peter Levine - 328 My Relationship Coach (MRC) Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850 Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook -
How to Handle Hurt Feelings - Jayson Gaddis
What’s the #1 mistake people make after getting their feelings hurt? Jayson discusses how to handle hurt feelings, his experience with shutting down after experiencing hurt feelings, and how to work through hurt feelings. Tune in to find out how you can turn hurt feelings into an opportunity to grow into a more resilient, self-respecting, and confident person.
Timestamps:
3:09 - The mistake people make when their feelings get hurt 6:18 - Jayson's experience with hurt feelings 10:18 - Feel your feelings 14:47 - Takeaway
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The End The Struggle With Him Roadmap & Monthly Group Coaching Membership Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok
Customer Reviews
To those who want improvement in being a human
This podcast has been extremely helpful for my own being and my interpersonal relationships. I have shared it many times to people I care about. Life can be so much more fulfilling if we put in some self reflective work. Thank you so much for bringing this into my life.
Most episodes feel like a long promotional ad
These people are nice. They are very nice people. So niiiiice. But like…obviously quite privileged, and they’re really proud of themselves and their interviews never get to the “how” unless you count the end where they tell you how to pay for the service/materials promoted…
Self-promotional and judgemental
I’ve been listening to this podcast on and off for a couple years, and even though I like some of the content, I leave every episode with the same feeling. Gross. These two are a couple of privileged white therapists speaking to other privileged white people about how to do relationships according to traditional white colonialist coupling. If you listen through a whole episode, you won’t miss out on a whole bunch of self-promotion, self-praise, judgment, and mockery of other ways to grow through relationship and self-development practices that divert from their prescribed formula.
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