Sex Parties Explained with Lila Donnolo

That Sex Chick

Curious about sex play parties? Lila Donnolo is on the show to unpack everything you need to know before attending or hosting one! She breaks down what to expect at a play party, how to physically and emotionally prepare, play party etiquette and safer sex talk, and all the best practices along with red flags to look out for. This is a juicy, illuminating, and dynamic conversation that will expand your mind to what’s possible in a sex-positive culture.

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What to expect at a sex play party
  • Lila’s “FBID” exercise to prepare for a play party
  • How to physically prepare your body and your tool kit
  • How to give consent and gracefully receive a rejection
  • Play party etiquette, safer sex talk, and hygiene 
  • How to reframe your jealousy into arousal
  • Play party best practices  

This show is sponsored by:

  • Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 10% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.

Follow Lila:

  • Instagram: @horizontalwithlila 
  • Website: horizontalwithlila.com 
  • Podcast: Horizontal with Lila 
  • Recommended Books: Mating in Captivity ; Arousal ; Sex at Dawn
  • Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech

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  • Facebook Group: That Sex Group 

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