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Stubborn Love aims to help you navigate the ups and downs of relationships. We'll share insights and wisdom on relational topics so you can put any advice to good use immediately.

If you're single and looking for love, in a long-term relationship, or somewhere between, this podcast is for you. Every episode has actionable tips that will help you create a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling love life. Don't miss an episode - subscribe now and join me on this journey of love and self-discovery!

Stubborn Love Paige Bond

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Stubborn Love aims to help you navigate the ups and downs of relationships. We'll share insights and wisdom on relational topics so you can put any advice to good use immediately.

If you're single and looking for love, in a long-term relationship, or somewhere between, this podcast is for you. Every episode has actionable tips that will help you create a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling love life. Don't miss an episode - subscribe now and join me on this journey of love and self-discovery!

    Empowering Women's Health: Inside the movie 'Lady Parts' | with Filmmakers Bonnie Gross, Nancy Boyd, and Meghan Griesbeck

    Empowering Women's Health: Inside the movie 'Lady Parts' | with Filmmakers Bonnie Gross, Nancy Boyd, and Meghan Griesbeck

    Lady Parts is a dramedy feature film where a young woman's sex life becomes a family affair when she has to undergo a vulvar vestibulectomy. Her loving, but overbearing parents help her through recovery (despite her cringing) and learn that saying "vagina" loud and proud is the first step to advocating for herself in all aspects of her life.

    In this special episode of the Stubborn Love Podcast, the team behind the film 'Lady Parts' joins to discuss the inspiration, creation, and societal impacts of their movie. Writer and Executive Producer Bonnie Gross, Director Nancy Boyd, and Producer Meghan Griesbeck share personal experiences with conditions like vulvar vestibulitis and vaginismus, and emphasize the need for open discussions about women's health. 

    They highlight the role of educational systems, the importance of supportive family dynamics, and the advocacy work being done to de-stigmatize vaginal health. The filmmakers also discuss organizations providing valuable resources and support for those affected. Their goal is to get the film in front of as many people as possible, sparking important conversations and cultural change around women's health issues.



    01:14 Inspiration Behind Lady Parts

    02:26 Understanding Vulvar Vestibulitis and Vaginismus

    05:50 Challenges in the Medical Community

    09:42 The Importance of Family Support

    13:32 Advocacy and Resources



    Connect with Lady Parts

    https://ladypartsfilm.com/ 

    IMDB - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt21423506/ 

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/ladyparts_film/ 

    FB - https://www.facebook.com/ladypartsthemovie 

    TT - https://www.tiktok.com/@shake_ur_bonbon 

    X - https://twitter.com/lady_parts_film 



    Resources mentioned

    Tight Lipped https://www.tightlipped.org/ 

    Intimate Rose https://www.intimaterose.com/

    The Pelvic People https://thepelvicpeople.com/ 

    Hello Gina https://ginaapp.com/ 



    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com

    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.

    Free Jealousy Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠

    Free People Pleasing Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠

    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.

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    • 16 min
    Introduction to Kink and BDSM - Where to start and what you should know | With Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed

    Introduction to Kink and BDSM - Where to start and what you should know | With Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed

    Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed in Orlando, Florida, offered their expert guidance on entering the kink and BDSM community in this episode.



    Feeling like you want to leave vanilla for ice cream flavors and bring some kink into your life?

    - Learn about the critical importance of consent, how to navigate munches, and understanding BDSM dynamics.
    - Avoid common pitfalls for newcomers with expert advice aimed at both curious newbies and experienced kinksters.
    - Discover the value of creating safe spaces and receiving valuable education through The Woodshed's in-person and free online classes.
    - Future discussions and more insights promised, with pointers to The Woodshed's event calendar for ongoing education.

    04:01 Navigating Vanilla and Kinky Worlds
    09:22 How to Learn About Kink and Find Munches
    19:29 Virtual Events and Kink Conventions
    25:08 Munch Etiquette and Community Tips
    39:43 Safety First: Negotiation and Consent in Kink
    48:14 Checking References and Vetting Partners
    52:07 Gender Equality in Kink Spaces
    56:48 Identifying Safe and Unsafe Play Spaces
    01:09:24 Final Advice for Newcomers



    Connect with The Woodshed

    https://www.thewoodshedorlando.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/woodshedorlando/

    https://www.facebook.com/TheWoodshedOrlando

    https://fetlife.com/groups/853



    Resources mentioned in the episode

    https://findamunch.com/

    https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781538168769/Please-Scream-Quietly-A-Story-of-Kink

    https://www.scienceofbdsm.com/home



    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: ⁠@paigebondcoaching⁠

    Facebook: ⁠@paigebondcoaching⁠

    TikTok: ⁠@paigebondcoaching⁠

    Website: ⁠https://paigebond.com⁠



    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.



    Free Jealousy Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠⁠⁠



    Free People Pleasing Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠



    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.

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    • 1 hr 17 min
    Finding happiness through self love: Holistic Kink Healing Practices | With Sha Aguirre, Yoga instructor, sound therapist, and reiki master

    Finding happiness through self love: Holistic Kink Healing Practices | With Sha Aguirre, Yoga instructor, sound therapist, and reiki master

    Host, therapist, and non monogamy coach Paige Bond interviews Sha Aguirre, a certified sound therapist, yoga instructor, and Reiki master. 

    Sha shares her transformative journey from being a hermit to becoming a holistic practitioner. She discusses her personal struggles with weight, self-love, and mental health, and how she used holistic modalities like breathwork, Reiki, sound therapy, and Shibari to heal herself and now helps others. 

    Sha also talks about her unique practice called 'Holistic Ropes,' which combines Shibari, crystals, and tuning forks to provide healing and emotional release for clients. The conversation delves into Sha's approach to non-monogamy, her experience in the kink community, and the importance of self-discovery and self-love. 



    04:48 Embracing Self-Love and Transformation

    09:11 Discovering Breathwork and Spiritual Awakening

    13:16 The Power of Reiki: Healing and Energy Work

    16:04 Integrating Holistic Practices with Mental Health 

    18:52 Kink Awareness and Holistic Ropes

    24:05 Emotional Release and Healing in Kink

    25:21 Navigating Non-Monogamy and Personal Growth 

    27:34 Overcoming Jealousy and Insecurity: The Path to Ethical Polyamory

    32:54 The Importance of Self-Knowledge in Relationships and Non-Monogamy

    34:55 The Key to Happiness and Healing



    Sha is a certified Sound Therapist, Yoga Instructor, and Reiki Master. She takes a comprehensive approach rooted in holistic modalities that fosters the synergy between self-love and nurturing self-care. As the first POC to own Jacksonville's pioneering Holistic Center, she assumes the role of an Energy Worker and an Intuitive Transformational Coach. Sha's distinctive ability lies in perceiving the latent potential within individuals and guiding them toward healing with a compassionate and heart-centered approach.



    Connect with Sha

    https://www.intuitminds.com

    Right now there is a special for a membership that is $30 on the site that gives you unlimited access to in person and virtual classes.



    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com



    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.



    Free Jealousy Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠⁠



    Free People Pleasing Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠⁠



    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.

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    • 45 min
    Holistic Therapy for Overcoming Self-Abandonment and People-Pleasing | with Sabrina Rodorigo, LCSW, RYT-200, Reiki II

    Holistic Therapy for Overcoming Self-Abandonment and People-Pleasing | with Sabrina Rodorigo, LCSW, RYT-200, Reiki II

    Host, therapist, and non monogamy coach Paige Bond is joined by Sabrina Rodorigo, a licensed clinical social worker, yoga teacher, and Reiki practitioner. 

    Ever wondered why you get that pit in your stomach when you commit to something you secretly resented doing? Or feel like you go above and beyond in your relationships just to keep the peace? You might even feel guilty for resting on the rare occasion you do take care of yourself.

    Sabrina shares how to release bodily emotions from childhood trauma, people-pleasing, self abandonment, and holistic healing. Sabrina shares insights into the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit and explains how modalities like yoga and Reiki can help in trauma recovery. 



    This episode also gets into setting boundaries, cultivating self compassion, and practical tips for balancing personal care with external demands. Tune in to learn actionable steps to create a healthier, more fulfilling life and relationships.



    01:37 How holistic like reiki healing can help heal trauma

    04:36 Why you self-abandon and people please

    05:33 Chakra system and emotional blockages

    09:51 How we’re trained to people-please

    14:30 Opting out of urgency

    20:38 Dealing with resistance and acceptance

    35:12 Biggest takeaways



    Learn about Sabrina

    “I guide spiritually seeking women to release bodily emotions from childhood wounds and connect back to their body in mind, body, and spirit. My practice focuses on supporting women to free themselves from patterns that are holding them back and embrace their authentic selves. Often my clients are struggling with people-pleasing, anxiety, and side-effects from trauma.”



    Connect with Sabrina


    Offers: Psychotherapy, Somatic and Holistic Coaching, Business Coaching, Yoga and Reiki Sessions


    Website:https://www.holistichealingwellnesswithsabrinallc.com/ 


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holistichealingwithsabrina/ 


    Cultivating Resiliency Through the 7 Chakras for Mental Health Professionals Course: https://www.holistichealingwellnesswithsabrinallc.com/resiliency-through-the-7-chakras-for-mental-health-professionals 


    Harmony Within: Beginner-Friendly Meditation Course: https://www.holistichealingwellnesswithsabrinallc.com/courses 





    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com



    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.



    Free Jealousy Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠⁠



    Free People Pleasing Workbook:

    ⁠⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠⁠



    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.

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    • 37 min
    Navigating Mental Health and Addiction Treatment | With Whitney Emmert-Bush

    Navigating Mental Health and Addiction Treatment | With Whitney Emmert-Bush

    Host and licensed therapist Paige Bond speaks with Whitney Emmert-Bush, a resource director specializing in mental health resources and addiction treatment in Florida. Whitney  discusses the critical role of resource directors in helping families find appropriate mental health and substance use treatments. 

    This episode covers the process of entering treatment, determining the right level of care, the importance of family involvement, and selecting treatment centers. She also emphasizes the necessity of continued care after initial treatment and building support systems for continued recovery. 

    Whitney is a helper and a connector! She has been working in the behavioral health field since 2018 connecting individuals struggling with SUD and MH to find treatment and support. She is passionate about helping people connect, restore, and strengthen critical relationships and enjoy their lives again. 

    01:33 The Vital Role of Resource Directors in Mental Health

    03:41 Navigating the Treatment Process: From Assessment to Admission

    06:01 Understanding Residential Treatment

    11:22 Family Involvement and Communication During Treatment

    15:06 The Importance of Support for Families Outside Treatment

    22:21 Post-Treatment: Navigating Life After Residential Care

    27:07 Choosing the Right Treatment Facility

    31:15 The Therapist's Role in Treatment Referral and Client Support

    33:16 Final Thoughts and Resources for Getting Started

    Connect with resources that Whitney mentioned

    Caron.org 

    NAATP.org 

    Nami.org

    Mhacf.org

    Samhsa.gov

    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com

    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.

    Free Jealousy Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠

    Free People Pleasing Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠

    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.

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    • 36 min
    Navigating Love, Relationships, and Non-Monogamy with the Plura Community | With Noa Elan, CEO of Plura

    Navigating Love, Relationships, and Non-Monogamy with the Plura Community | With Noa Elan, CEO of Plura

    This episode delves into the complexities of love, relationships, and non-monogamy, highlighting conversations with Noa from the Plura (formerly Bloom) community, an app that fosters connections among individuals exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics. 

    The discussion covers topics including the challenges faced by non-monogamous individuals, the importance of community support, the negative impacts of dating apps on genuine connections, and the role of consent and communication in healthy relationships. 

    The episode also touches on societal perceptions of non-monogamy, the journey of finding personal identity and fulfillment within alternative relationship structures, and the mission of the Bloom community to provide a safer, more inclusive platform for people to explore and discuss these aspects of their lives openly.

    00:53 Diving into Dr. Phil's Non-Monogamy Episode Controversy

    01:55 The Realities of Non-Monogamy and Family Dynamics

    07:26 Exploring Identity and Finding Community in Non-Monogamy

    09:59 The Mission of Bloom: Building a Counterculture Community

    11:47 Navigating the Digital World of Connection and Dating Apps

    17:48 The Importance of Community Support in Non-Monogamy

    22:52 Redefining Relationships and Sexuality in the Digital Age

    32:33 The Future of Connection: Beyond the Swipe Culture

    43:21 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Bloom Community

    Noa Elan has been building communities for as long as she could convince her parents to print out summer camp invitations in their office xerox machine. Before Plura, Noa helped grow some of the biggest brands in the world, including Lyft, Adobe, Tide, Square, and more.  Noa has been part of the non-monogamy community in Oakland for more than a decade and continues to learn as much as she can about psychological safety, power dynamics, consent best practices, and restorative justice. 



    Connect with Noa Elan

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noa_elan/ 

    Meet others on Plura: https://heyplura.com/ 

    Apple Download: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/id1528252601 

    Android Download: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=community.together.bloom 

    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com

    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.

    Free Jealousy Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠

    Free People Pleasing Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠

    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.Intro music by Coma-Media on ⁠⁠pixabay.com⁠

    • 45 min

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