Survivor Talks Whole and Redeemed
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- Religion & Spirituality
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Tackling serious topics around sexual assault & the Church with passion, hope, & laughter.
Two sexual assault survivors, turned friends, turned ministry partners. Listen in for honest, hope-filled, Christ-centered conversations about sexual violence, healing, and the Church. Whether you are a survivor, ally, or church leader there is a seat at the table for you.
Survivor Talks is a podcast ministry of Whole + Redeemed. We seek to unite survivors, educate churches, and redeem stories through the power of Jesus Christ. For more information and resources visit wholeandredeemed.com
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The ABCs of Consent
What is consent? Why is it so important? What is its place in a Christian sexual ethic? Kate and Laura tackle all of this and more in this episode of Survivor Talks.
See youtube for captions: https://youtu.be/Dd6KcH-mTIc
Show notes:
FRIES acronym for consent:
Freely given
Reversible
Informed
Enthusiastic
Specific
Creative consent madlibs: https://www.instagram.com/p/CaU8v2VJPRz/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Survivor Talks, Self Blame Episode
Scripture References:
Deuteronomy 22:25-29
Matthew 5:27-30
1 Corinthians 7:3-6 -
Intro to Boundaries
We’re back! After a 6 month hiatus, Kate and Laura are relaunching the Survivor Talks with a new series on boundaries. In this episode, Kate and Laura cover everything from:
What are boundaries?
Personal struggles with boundaries
Practical tips for survivors
And more!
Content Warnings:
Minute 41-45: more personal discussion of boundaries being crossed related to assault.
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Relating to God: Walking the Line between Legalism and Ex-vangelicalism
Join Laura and Kate for a candid conversation on legalism, ex-vangelicalism, and deconstruction culture. Where is the truth and what does God have to say? Is there hope for survivors?
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Show notes:
https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-Christian-legalism.html
https://www.gotquestions.org/exvangelical.html
https://www.gotquestions.org/deconstruction.html
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/deconstruct-culture-not-faith/
Colossians 2:6-23
https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/JOURNEY_THROUGH_THE_WALL_Toby.pdf
Trigger Warnings:
We hope that this episode is encouraging for people with religious trauma but we want to also give a heads up that this episode may come with some potential triggers. Remember to take care of yourself during and after listening. -
Self-Blame
Laura and Kate explore their own struggles with self-blame as well as dive deep into bible passages like the OT laws on sexual assault, polyvagal theory and more!
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Show notes:
Theology in the Raw, Episode 814. Does the Old Testament Dehumanize Women? Dr. Sandy Richter
Deuteronomy 22: 25-29
Polyvagal theory
Slaves, Women, & Homosexuals by William J. Webb
White Tears/Brown Scars by Ruby Hamad
Trigger Warnings:
Talking about trauma responses (some details shared of our personal experiences) (00:56-1:02)
Discussion of Deuteronomy passages (some detailed discussion of SA) (00:27-00:41)
Purity culture and self-blame (some details shared of our personal experiences) (1:05-1:09) -
Best and Worst Advice We've Received as Survivors
Join Laura and Kate for their first episode chock full of laughs, exasperated sighs and rich nuggets of wisdom. Covering topics from:
- Some of the best and worst responses we've gotten as survivors
- How to react well when someone shares their experience of sexual assault with you
- Some of our least favorite Christian platitudes
- and more!
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Trailer
Get to know Kate and Laura and what the Survivor Talks podcast is all about!
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Customer Reviews
Reaffirming for believers and non-believers who are survivors of SA
As a believer of Jesus and follower of Him, and as someone who has recently admitted that I experienced sexual assault - thank you. This is a conversation I didn’t know I would need but am so glad it’s here. Great to be surrounded by people who are vulnerable and affirming what I feel, helps me feel less isolated and like I’m not crazy. Keep up this work, God sees it and is so glad you’re doing it on His behalf.
Thank you
Love the playfulness and openness of both Kate and Laura. Being able to share your vulnerabilities openly with love and so God centered is inspiring!