She Wears The Pants Tay and Sade

It's the season finale and it has been a memorable journey. On this season ender, Tay and Sade reflect on the season they had and look forward. They also talk about the Pink Moon and unloading baggage (14:21), Tay talks about dealing with obsession (20:00), how the world is one big distraction (27:40), what are we distracting ourselves from (38:23), cults (55:13) and more. The AHA Moment (1:00:00) asks why do you stop liking someone after you learn they like you?.

Book Recommendations:

Just Kids by Patti Smith

Salvation by bell hooks


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On this episode, Tay and Sade continue their conversation from last week about sex but this week she wears the pants! Singer/songwriter, Dorian Arielle, joins as they give the womanly perspective on sex and how each of their sexual experiences differ and compare. They discuss their introduction into pornography (14:49),  telling partners about past relations (27:04), differences between having sex with a man vs a woman (34:42), the concept of virginity (55:00) and much more. The AHA Moment of this week (1:24:00) asks how to tell your partner you are not happy.

Book Recommendations:

Mein Kampf by Adolf Hitler

The Body Keeps Secrets by Besser Van Der Kolk, M.D

Sacred Woman by Queen Afua



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On this episode, Tay and Sade sit down to have THE talk, the sex talk. They are joined by founder of the lifestyle brand, Let a Bad Bitch Be Herself,  Skygod Spence, to offer the male perspective on what all encompasses sex. They talk about how important hygiene is to sex and sexual attraction (19:19), how male ego can stifle relationship development (30:56), porn vs. reality (35:25), one night stands (55:23), and much more. The AHA Moment (1:16:00) comes from our very own guest, Skygod Spence this week.

Book Recommendation 

The Ways of a Superior Man by David Deida 


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On this episode, Tay and Sade talk about the misogynistic qualities and thoughts that women have internalized from generations of living within the patriarchy. They discuss what misogynistic beliefs they themselves have internalized (13:47), how it has created perception of motherhood/parenting (20:30), and the programming of a population (32:10). This then lead to the idea of marriage and how misogyny impacts modern day relationships (42:30). The AHA Moment (1:04:51) asks about how can a man navigate after being called out for creep behavior.

Book Recommendations: 

Apply Where Necessary by Quay Seamster

Literally Show Me a Sane Person by Darcie Wilder


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On this episode, after discussing the breakup of Saweetie and Quavo (5:30), Tay and Sade go over some of the difficulties of breaking up (17:51). They also discuss whats proper etiquette when breaking up (24:51), break up horror stories (36:13) and the mutual friends after the breakup (40:51). The AHA Moment of this week asks how to apologize for treating someone not as nice as they would like (48:50).

Book Recommendation

This Will be Your Undoing: Living at the Intersection of Black, Female and Feminist in (White) America by Morgan Jenkins

The Gucci Mane Guide to Greatness by Gucci Mane




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On this episode, Tay and Sade discuss how the internet has evolved over the years and how it has effected our everyday lives. Tay talks about her seeing how a Tik Tok challenge led to a pomegranate shortage (8:47). Sade talks about how body image and the acceptance of cosmetic surgery has changed (11:45) Tay mentions how the internet has changed how we speak (31:00) which lead Sade to ask is that necessarily a good thing (41:00). The AHA Moment of the week (58:30) asks where is the line between accepting your partners flaws and not being a good match.

Book Recommendation:

Wreck this Journal by Keri Smith

Well Read Black Girl: Finding Our Stories, Discovering Ourselves by Glory Edim   


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