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Drop into the middle of raw and honest conversations about love, sex, family, heartbreak, and how we define ourselves in and out of relationships. Therese Barbato hosts this slumber-party style podcast from her bed in Brooklyn, where guests unpack and explore how their personal history and experiences have shaped their unique sense of love.

that's what she said Therese Barbato

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 96 Ratings

Drop into the middle of raw and honest conversations about love, sex, family, heartbreak, and how we define ourselves in and out of relationships. Therese Barbato hosts this slumber-party style podcast from her bed in Brooklyn, where guests unpack and explore how their personal history and experiences have shaped their unique sense of love.

    love(d): amy bloom / brian

    love(d): amy bloom / brian

    novelist amy bloom joins us for our love(d) finale: a deep dive into her memoir “in love” - a beautifully rendered portrait of a mid-life romance and their decision, following her husband’s alzheimer's diagnosis, to go to dignitas - an organization based in switzerland that allows people to end their own lives with dignity and peace.

    • 59 min
    love(d): jen nilsson / jeff

    love(d): jen nilsson / jeff

    jen nilsson changed her whole life when her fiance Jeff died of cancer in 2018. she quit her job and set off to see the world, writing and traveling and living as if there might not be a tomorrow. a candid conversation about their 296 day love story and how her life has been transformed since jeff’s death.

    • 56 min
    love(d): ali mullen / john

    love(d): ali mullen / john

    montana-based mom of 3 ali mullen shares her story: falling in love with her husband john, his struggle with undiagnosed mental illness, losing him to suicide during the darkest days of the pandemic and how she and her children have found light in the days since john’s death.

    • 58 min
    love(d): nadia bowers / sasha

    love(d): nadia bowers / sasha

    actor & writer nadia bowers joins us for a deeply candid and generous episode: her intensely close relationship with her sister sasha, losing her to an opioid overdose 7 years ago, and how she has navigated being in relationship with sasha since her death.

    • 1 hr
    love(d): leslie gray streeter / scott

    love(d): leslie gray streeter / scott

    the fabulous leslie gray streeter graces episode 4: finding later in life romance with someone she knew since high school, losing scott suddenly just after they had adopted a new baby and putting the whole experience down in ink in her incredible memoir “black widow.”

    • 54 min
    love(d): melissa gould / joel

    love(d): melissa gould / joel

    melissa gould, author of the best-selling memoir “widowish" sits down for a deeply honest conversation about her experience of love & grief: falling in love with her husband joel, losing him to multiple sclerosis 7 years ago and what the aftermath has been like for her and her daughter. 

    • 51 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
96 Ratings

96 Ratings

VicariousLiving ,

love(d): a knock out

I just listened to the last interview in this series, with writer Amy Bloom. The premise of this season - deep and probing conversations about love that is marked by loss and grief - was fulfilled beyond my imagination. The guests are achingly honest. The host is compassionately engaged. There were moments when I felt like maybe I shouldn’t be allowed to know so much about the worst time of a stranger’s life. But I was welcomed in, and I’m better for it.

warm vibes, thoughtful talks ,

If you like shallow conversations, don’t listen to this.

If you love deep conversations with thoughtful empathic friends and are missing them right now, then I suggest you listen to this podcast like me! I so appreciate it, especially right now. "Season 5- Wild Love" is keeping me company while I cook, walk, and otherwise hang out inside during Quarantine. The podcast mixes an actor’s humanity with an insatiable curiosity, and hunger for knowledge. Therese guides the conversations toward depth and honesty. (I saw her act in some shows when she was studying at Juilliard, and just love how she’s transferred her gifts of empathy and expressivity into this medium.) I am genuinely thinking about love in new ways from listening to this, and feel myself radiating love in new ways, too.

grace in nyc ,

The friend group in this pod is poppin

There is no way you’ll waste your time listening to at least one episode of this.

Therese has conversations that feel like eavesdropping on two smart, inquisitive, super-not-basic women getting coffee or on one of their couches being cozy and open.

It’s part emotional voyeurism, but more comfort that people are literally all working on the same things and that small thoughts are the key to bigger change.

Try it. I think you might like it.

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