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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.
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The Break Up Break Down Pionaire

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    • 4.5 • 348 Ratings

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.
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    Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris

    Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris

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    • 22 min
    When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5

    When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5

    No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.
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    Timestamps:
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    (00:00): Episode Intro
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    (05:57): How they met
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    (09:26): The first signs of something going wrong
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    (10:40): Getting the life-changing DM
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    (20:21): Confronting her fiancee
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    (25:31): The aftermath of the confrontation
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    (28:44): Finding love again
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    (32:08): Advice
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    (39:32): Teaser

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    • 35 min
    Break Down Bonus: How do I get closure after a relationship w/ Weezie Haley, MS

    Break Down Bonus: How do I get closure after a relationship w/ Weezie Haley, MS

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    • 17 min
    When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4

    When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4

    Our very first male interview returns for an update on answers he found on why his relationship ended. In season 2 episode 16, he was grappling for a reason why his relationship of 4 years abruptly came to an end. Two years later, he says he may have found the reason why she left him all those years ago.
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    (00:00): Episode Intro
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    (13:21): Why he came back on the podcast
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    (21:29): How the closure impacted him
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    (23:06): How his previous relationship affects his new relationship
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    (25:02): Advice
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    (30:13): Teaser
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    • 26 min
    Break Down Bonus: Is it intuition or my anxiety?

    Break Down Bonus: Is it intuition or my anxiety?

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    • 16 min
    When he took off after eight years.... - S6E3

    When he took off after eight years.... - S6E3

    After eight years, the least your boyfriend can do it break up with you properly. So why did this guy ditch his lady at a gas station for another woman seemingly out of nowhere? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.
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    Timestamps:
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    (00:00): Episode Intro
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    (04:30): How they met
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    (11:44): When she caught him
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    (14:10): How did she know something was up before catching him?
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    (17:24): Moving on
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    (20:28): Advice
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    (26:17): Teaser

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    • 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
348 Ratings

348 Ratings

AndreaAnn ,

Just listen!

Really enjoy the podcast and how Abby edits to keep the stories on point but doesn’t take away from the interview. Great job Abby, keep them coming!

19DeeDee78 ,

Ransom note idiot

Maybe I started with the wrong episode. I really like Abby on TBS and was hopeful to find a new podcast to enjoy! But the “ransom” girl on today’s episode sounds like an idiot and a really bad story teller. Nothing about her story made any sense whatsoever. Maybe I will try again at some point but if this is the kind of people your stories come from count me out.

kswar66 ,

Love this podcast!!

I binge listened when I found this podcast. I love it!!!

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