The Emotional Game of Toxic Generosity/Altruism Sherapy Sessions: Cutting Toxic Family Ties
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- Relationships
Not all generosity/altruism is necessarily good, especially when coming from a toxic family member.
In this episode, we are going to talk about the emotional game of “Toxic Giving” that toxic family members play.
✅ Most of you have that one family member who always presented as if they were happy to help you out of a jam, but who always did so with strings attached.
✅ These family members view themselves as having special “abilities” or “gifts” and expect you and all others to react to them as though they are the most caring, generous, people you know.
✅ Toxic givers have the audacity to view your openly accepting what they give as you taking advantage of them, yet when/if you refuse their gifts, they call you heartless.
✅ The emotional game of Toxic Giving/Generosity is built on dishonesty, hypocrisy and misrepresentation because these family members actually resent the same people they serve, and this includes you!
✅ Ironically, the closer you are to these family members, the more resentful they feel when giving or doing anything for you.
Get my newly released book! — Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members: Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut. Get it here: https://amzn.to/3L3sMuA
Connect with Dr. Sherrie Campbell:
- Website: https://drsherriecampbell.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SherrieCampbellPhD
Books by Dr. Sherrie Campbell:
- But It’s Your Family…: Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath - https://amzn.to/3tuNQEn
- Your Pocket Therapist: Quick Hacks for Dealing with Toxic People While Empowering Yourself - https://amzn.to/3JBql1R
- Success Equations: A Path to Living an Emotionally Wealthy Life - https://amzn.to/3uobd1u
- Loving Yourself: The Mastery of Being Your Own Person - https://amzn.to/36mlXp5
Check out the Sherapy Master Class: The Toxic Family Sherapy Course designed to help people master toxic family members and turn their life around to one of freedom, peace, and empowerment. Click here https://bit.ly/SherapyMasterclass
Get early access to news, insights, and tips straight from your inbox. Subscribe to Dr. Sherrie’s email list, go to https://drsherriecampbell.com/
Not all generosity/altruism is necessarily good, especially when coming from a toxic family member.
In this episode, we are going to talk about the emotional game of “Toxic Giving” that toxic family members play.
✅ Most of you have that one family member who always presented as if they were happy to help you out of a jam, but who always did so with strings attached.
✅ These family members view themselves as having special “abilities” or “gifts” and expect you and all others to react to them as though they are the most caring, generous, people you know.
✅ Toxic givers have the audacity to view your openly accepting what they give as you taking advantage of them, yet when/if you refuse their gifts, they call you heartless.
✅ The emotional game of Toxic Giving/Generosity is built on dishonesty, hypocrisy and misrepresentation because these family members actually resent the same people they serve, and this includes you!
✅ Ironically, the closer you are to these family members, the more resentful they feel when giving or doing anything for you.
Get my newly released book! — Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members: Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut. Get it here: https://amzn.to/3L3sMuA
Connect with Dr. Sherrie Campbell:
- Website: https://drsherriecampbell.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SherrieCampbellPhD
Books by Dr. Sherrie Campbell:
- But It’s Your Family…: Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath - https://amzn.to/3tuNQEn
- Your Pocket Therapist: Quick Hacks for Dealing with Toxic People While Empowering Yourself - https://amzn.to/3JBql1R
- Success Equations: A Path to Living an Emotionally Wealthy Life - https://amzn.to/3uobd1u
- Loving Yourself: The Mastery of Being Your Own Person - https://amzn.to/36mlXp5
Check out the Sherapy Master Class: The Toxic Family Sherapy Course designed to help people master toxic family members and turn their life around to one of freedom, peace, and empowerment. Click here https://bit.ly/SherapyMasterclass
Get early access to news, insights, and tips straight from your inbox. Subscribe to Dr. Sherrie’s email list, go to https://drsherriecampbell.com/