The Love Lab with Lisa Bilyeu Women of Impact

Tough times are inevitable in any relationship when you’ve been together long enough. Family drama, infidelity, or financial strains can be scary times for any relationship. These stressors have the ability to bring you closer together or take the relationship beyond the breaking point. Tom and Lisa discuss one of the scariest situations they’ve faced together, Lisa’s health. Even if the problems you are experiencing are completely different, there are 3 nuggets of wisdom from their situation that you apply to your own. Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships. [Original air date: 7-18-21].

SHOW NOTES:
Health Scare | Lisa on the difficulty and stress her health issues put on the relationship [1:12]
Helplessness | Tom’s on feeling helpless finding a solution and relying on mindset [4:07]
Problem Solving |When your frustrated and cannot solve the problem for your partner [7:31]
Awareness | Lisa on being mindful, checking on your partner and being connected [7:56]
Pulling Through | Build trust so your partner can help you see your blind spots [11:01]

QUOTES:
“I want to solve problems, and you just want to be heard is like a constant issue.” [7:45]
“Beyond that, it's a relationship. So even though I'm going through this problem, there's two of us.” Lisa Bilyeu [9:10]
“When someone's going through a tough time, I think it's very easy to be so focused on you, right? I'm going through this, I'm having a problem. People need to understand, you know, why can't you be there for me? But that's not fair, because the other person is still going through that.” Lisa Bilyeu [10:13]
“You sacrifice out of love, and out of commitment, and I think it's very important to not take that for granted with each other.” Lisa Bilyeu [10:34]

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Host Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu) reads a recent instagram caption with a marriage hack. [Original air date: 9-16-19].



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Having trust for others is never easy once you’ve been hurt, and yet is it a must for any relationship to thrive. How do you determine for yourself if you can trust your partner? Tom and Lisa discuss the most effective ways you can begin building trust with your partner and why trust with yourself is the key. [Original air date: 4-8-22].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:
Trust Yourself | Tom explains trusting yourself and reading vibes to determine trust [0:43]
Listen to Your Gut | How to mark your gut instincts and see how things play out [3:18]
Follow the Vibe | How Tom explores weird vibes and discards misreadings when needed [7:00]
Ask Questions | Lisa and Tom discuss how to proceed with questions and getting better [10:57]

QUOTES:
“I wouldn’t be silent, if something made me feel uneasy. If it made me feel uneasy, I wouldn’t engage.” Tom Bilyeu [2:15]
“You have to understand that intuition is trained, and that it becomes intuition once you’ve run enough cycles that you can do it subconsciously.” Tom Bilyeu [9:29]

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Host Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu) reads a recent instagram with her top 5 tips to become more desirable to your partner. [Original air date: 12-9-19].



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So, you found the love of your life and you have so much in common. What happens when you reach a point where you have to go with your gut and it’s telling you to take a different route than you planned. The anxiety of turning down unknown possibilities and closing doors you thought made sense can be debilitating. When you add to that anxiety the realization of having to break this to your partner it can feel like cutting yourself off from air. You are entitled to change directions and take different paths even when they don’t align with the things that bond and connect you and your partner. Being supported and having the wisdom to know how to go about doing so without damaging your relationship is what Tom and Lisa are discussing in this episode. The task of closing doors that don’t serve you, changing directions and going after new dreams while making sure to not lose yourself in your partner’s passions and ambition takes awareness of self and a strong sense of your identity. [Original air date: 11-12-21].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:
Shutting Doors | Tom on why deciding what opportunities to not pursue was so important [0:46]
Changing Dreams | Lisa’s response to Tom changing the dream that bonded them [3:03]
Losing Yourself | Losing yourself over to someone’s passion and lack of strong identity [5:35]

QUOTES:
“Most people don't have anything to give up. They don't have a sense of identity, they don't know who they are, they don't know what they want, they don't have a strong sense of path and course and purpose, and because they don't have that they get swept up in the person who has more of that” Tom Bilyeu [8:00]
“It really is going into a relationship where like, what is important to you? And what are the things that for you, you have to keep for yourself and make sure that you don't let go of those things.” Lisa Bilyeu [11:13]

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Host Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu) reads a recent instagram caption about why setting boundaries is important.
[Original air date: 7-8-19].


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