45 min
33: The Mailbox: Help! I'm Avoiding Relationships Because They're too Painful The Good Mood Clinic Podcast
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- Mental Health
Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast!
Gemma and Justine have another conversation in their series on breakups and schemas in this episode.
If you have ever experienced a breakup when you have an abandonment schema, you know how traumatic it is. So it is understandable if you would want to avoid going through that pain again. In this episode, Justine and Gemma share a mailbox segment. They answer a question sent in by a client of Justine, who is in the process of addressing her abandonment schema. Although she is doing well and has started experimenting with finding a relationship, she has become aware of a strong urge to avoid looking for a partner because she fears the feelings that might arise if things fail to work out.
In trying to care for herself in the longer term, Justine’s client is struggling to deal with her fears around the possibility of having to feel the feelings of abandonment again. Be sure to stay tuned today to find out what to do and how to cope if you are in that situation.
Books:
Reinventing Your Life
Reinventing Your Life By Janet S. Klosko and Jeffrey Young
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson
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Click below for more information on our online membership The Schema Circle - the first membership to help you break free from your unhelpful patterns using the wisdom of Schema Therapy.
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ABOUT THE PODCAST
The Good Mood Clinic podcast focuses on our passion for Schema Therapy and how it transforms lives for the better. We talk about all things to do with Schema Therapy so you can become your own pattern-breaker and change your life for good. We think the whole world would be a better place if everyone healed their schemas!
If you enjoy listening to the podcast please do leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts - even a few words helps! You can also email us with any feedback, thoughts on what you have learned from the episodes or even suggest future topics.
Please note: This podcast is for information and entertainment purposes only and is no substitute for professional or relationship advice fr
Join the WAITLIST for the SCHEMA CIRCLEIf you’re enjoying our podcast then come alone and put your name down on the waitlist for the schema circle. That way you’ll hear when we next open the doors for new members. The schema circle is our passion project - our online schema coaching membership. https://www.theredflagproject.com/Support the show
Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast!
Gemma and Justine have another conversation in their series on breakups and schemas in this episode.
If you have ever experienced a breakup when you have an abandonment schema, you know how traumatic it is. So it is understandable if you would want to avoid going through that pain again. In this episode, Justine and Gemma share a mailbox segment. They answer a question sent in by a client of Justine, who is in the process of addressing her abandonment schema. Although she is doing well and has started experimenting with finding a relationship, she has become aware of a strong urge to avoid looking for a partner because she fears the feelings that might arise if things fail to work out.
In trying to care for herself in the longer term, Justine’s client is struggling to deal with her fears around the possibility of having to feel the feelings of abandonment again. Be sure to stay tuned today to find out what to do and how to cope if you are in that situation.
Books:
Reinventing Your Life
Reinventing Your Life By Janet S. Klosko and Jeffrey Young
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson
CONNECT WITH US
The Red Flag Project: a place for women to do the self-development they need to choose loving, respectful relationships.
Instagram
Facebook
Click the link below to find out more about our online dating course, our course on schema chemistry and how to break free from lovetraps and our online membership The Schema Circle.
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theredflagproject
Schema Therapy for Life: For anyone who wants to become their own pattern-breaker using the wisdom and clarity of Schema Therapy.
Instagram
Facebook
Click below for more information on our online membership The Schema Circle - the first membership to help you break free from your unhelpful patterns using the wisdom of Schema Therapy.
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/schematherapyforlife
ABOUT THE PODCAST
The Good Mood Clinic podcast focuses on our passion for Schema Therapy and how it transforms lives for the better. We talk about all things to do with Schema Therapy so you can become your own pattern-breaker and change your life for good. We think the whole world would be a better place if everyone healed their schemas!
If you enjoy listening to the podcast please do leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts - even a few words helps! You can also email us with any feedback, thoughts on what you have learned from the episodes or even suggest future topics.
Please note: This podcast is for information and entertainment purposes only and is no substitute for professional or relationship advice fr
Join the WAITLIST for the SCHEMA CIRCLEIf you’re enjoying our podcast then come alone and put your name down on the waitlist for the schema circle. That way you’ll hear when we next open the doors for new members. The schema circle is our passion project - our online schema coaching membership. https://www.theredflagproject.com/Support the show
45 min