The Punjabi Kudi Podcast Simran Kaur

often there is something in the things left unsaid … Hi guys! So this week I will be talking about how we can infer things via an individuals behaviour. Mainly focusing on body language (and it’s general interpretations) and eye contact. Obviously these are general inferences we can deduce from interactions. But behaviours may differ between individuals and environmental factors which could alter and individuals behaviour. Then I talk about how being single is sometimes seen as a negative and why I genuinely like being single. ✨Song of the Week: I hate it here & The smallest man who ever lived (this bridge is EVERYTHING) ✨ so thank you guys for so much for being here it means so much to me 🥹 I appreciate every SINGLE one of you. Wishing everyone listening a lovely week u deserve it x 🤍

Hi guys! So this week I just wanted to talk about some reality checks. And discuss a couple of things and put things in perspective. Then I discuss love triangles and love corners. And whether people should fight over a person. ✨ Song of the week: The Bolter | Taylor Swift ✨ Note: I hope everyone listening has a lovely week. this week I have been feeling so mentally exhausted and not myself. hopefully I feel like myself soon thank you guys for listening x

Hi guysss! This week there is a storytime about someone (friend of friend) whose cousin ended up dating their ex. Also I talk about loyalty and how important it is in friendships, platonic and romantic relationships and I also discuss how important trust and respect are as loyalty is sometimes not enough. Then I share some vivid recurring dreams I keep having. ✨ Song of the week : Forever | Tegi Pannu ✨

Hi guys!!! So this week the episode starts with me talking about my personal experience with people playing mind games with me and how I am dealing with it. Then I try to answer the question ‘do you believe in soulmates?’. I use my personal experience, friends family, mainstream media and Sikhi to try and answer this as best as I can; at this point in time. And yes I do ramble on about soulmates and the universe for a while. Honestly I don’t know if I could ever have a definitive answer if I believe in soulmates but I really enjoyed discussing different viewpoints. Then I review some Panjabi music that was released lately. This includes L.B.E by Nirvair Pannus, Manifest by Arjan Dhillon and Broken Silence by Tegi Pannu. Also reviewed songs by Shubh, Diljit Dosanjh and Ap Dhillon. ✨Song of the week: Too Sweet | Hozier ✨ Quote of the Week: “So what we think of as fate is just two neuroses knowing that they are a perfect match” | Sleepless in Seattle (Nora Ephron) knowing what I know and everything discussed in this weeks episode I think that I have hope that love exists even if it is not encompassed in an ‘soulmate’. just had an epiphany and maybe I’m the problem and that’s why things in the past haven’t worked maybe??? although hope about soulmates is dwindling, it is still kept alive by family and friends who inspire me everyday. also happy vaisakhi to everyone celebrating 🌾🧡 thank you for listening have a lovely week guys 🤍 x

Hi guys! This week is a girl talk episode. So I start with a storytime about how I was body shamed by a ‘desi uncle’ (saying sales person/ seller doesn’t feel right) whilst buying suits. Also there is a storytime from when I was younger involving a vile and creepy aunty who wanted to cause issues between me and a cousin. Then I discuss a situation involving my cousin, his fiancée and the in-laws. The discussion relates to whether cousins fiancée can go to her in-laws house before marriage; even just for a birthday party. Lastly I have a candid conversation about my personal experience with periods. ✨ Song of the Week: we can’t be friends | Ariana Grande ✨ hope everyone listening has a lovely Easter weekend 🐣💐🤍 I want everyone who listens to this to know someone (whether you know this person or a complete stranger) making an ignorant and misguided comment on your body or appearance tells you more about their self-worth and self-esteem because they feel the need to project their own insecurities or opinions just to make themselves feel good. It is absolutely horrific how a comment made about your body or apperance may only take a second for the person to say but will silently haunt the person who heard it for a lifetime. So don’t let anyone’s negative or toxic comments cloud your feelings about how amazing your body is. Our bodies go through so much and we should be so grateful for it. Also I am very grateful for all of you! so thank you so much for listening 🩵 if you would like to check out my TikTok: simmm_k or use the link: https://www.tiktok.com/@simmm_k?_t=8j8sOLquotd&_r=1

Hiiiii guyssss! This week I talk about how I survived a toxic 15 person friendship group. I discuss some of the incidents that took place. And I share what I learnt and what I wish I had done differently. The whole situation was so exhausting both mentally and emotionally which is why I try to leave it in the past and move on. I am working on seeing people for who they are and trusting my intuition. I am still on my healing journey, but am immensely proud of my growth and healing so far. It took me along time to deal with this as it was an extremely untenable situation which caused alot of anxiety for me. But sharing this with you guys allows me to take ownership of the situation. And reminds me of how strong and resilient I am. Also I am aware that many other people have struggled with toxic friends or fake friends who never had their best interests at heart. It is a weird feeling to see that someone who you thought was your friend reveal who they truly are. It made me realise they betrayed me, our friendship and my trust. I use to question why the universe put me through this and maybe it was because I could share this and help someone out there feel less alone. After going through all this I realised that I would not like to be like any of them and that I was probably better off finding friends that I relate to. Even though not everyone in that group was toxic a lot of them were fake friends who allowed toxic people to mistreat people they called friends. I am grateful for the experience as it has made me the person I am today and led me to where I should be. I do not wish to interact with any of these people nor am I in contact with any of them. The reality is that many people come into your life and leave. There were certain people that I genuinely enjoyed being friends with and am grateful for the memories; even if things didn’t turn out how I had hoped. If I was still involved in that friend group my life would have been very different. I am glad that I am now able to see the situation as an experience which made me a better person. I’ve always heard that ‘birds of a feather flock together’ if anyone listening resonated with this episode or has been through or experienced something similar you have a good heart don’t let other people change that 🥹 To anyone who has dealt with fake friends or toxic friends I see you don’t worry you will get through this wishing you the best on your healing journey. 🤍 I appreciate everyone who listens it means so much to me thank you so much for being here and making my day 🩷